Axiomatic

It's just interesting how whenever I have dealt with shitty women, I had to swallow the pill and accept that I had to take responsibility for my own actions and choices, but when women are treated badly, it's the world's fault, or the patriarchy's, or whatever. But rarely ever theirs. Not trying to personally attack anyone or call anyone out, or start a flame war. I am just making a personal observation. That being said I have preety india on ignore. She is wayyy too much man and spams this site like crazy.

You attract what you put out. And all your post come off very narcissistic to me.

you'll probably just get upset.

Aight, well I can see this is going to go nowhere. Good luck with your journey. You're going to need it.

All of your post are so critical towards men. Stop looking at it like that.

This reminds me of an episode of American dad. Francine decided to stop worrying about her looks because she felt like Stan shouldn't put value in that. So he decided to blind himself so he could love her for who she was and not her looks. But in return, she had to get a job and be a provider because he was blind, and she didn't want that. She wanted to be provided for.

I can tell by how @Preety_India post that she's a piece of work lmao

I don't think it's as shallow as you are depicting Leo's (or whoever's) words. I just think a lot of women expect to be accepted unconditionally in romantic relationships, when they themselves know deep down they could never do the same.

what exactly is the response you are seeking to your post?

except tinder sucks. So does bumble.

Preach brother! I know plenty of dudes who's ladies let themselves go and are incredibly unhealthy and they stay because they are afraid to leave and/or its comfortable. It isn't good for either of them. p.s. yall need to quit hatin on my boy Leo!

A bit of an interesting observation here. I usually see mostly insecure guys posting in this section, but Leo's dating post really brought out the insecure women.

Not gonna lie, dealing with the rejection has always been one of the toughest parts about dating for me. I low key have some BDD (body/appearance dysmorphia) that I am trying to get past.

yeah I don't find myself being quite as selective, especially with height. I'm 6 feet, but I've dated a girl who was barely 5 feet lol. I'd also like think that if a woman meets a majority of the most important qualities (being healthy, well rounded, etc.) that some of the less important qualities could slide.

@Rilles RIP EYEDEA!

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@ertopolice You sound like a very well rounded woman from what you're describing. Like I said before, I haven't tried the match.com's or the eharmoney's, but I was advised to give it a shot. I am currently getting some things in my personal life sorted out, so I am not focused on dating at the moment, but that seems to be my next route for when I am ready. And I know how you feel about IG. It looks shallow to me. You are right that many women do trick their pics, get tons of followers and attention and that in general just turns me off. I see all these dudes blowing up their page and I just roll my eyes. It just doesn't seem like an outlet for a quality connection.

Hell yeah good for you bro!

When it comes to dating apps, my therapist suggested ones you have to pay for like eHarmony and match. He says tinder and bumble are trash, and from my experience I agree. I heard hinge was decent. I don't really like the Instagram route. It requires too much maintenance on your profile looking pristine and it seems weird to just start dming random chicks.

I just want this shit to go away and life to go back to normal. So whatever the best method for that is...

I have never lived in China, and I am aware of America's shortcomings. But it seems as if Chinese rule would make my quality of life worse. So I do not support that.