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Sounds more like immense potential to me. Of course you feel out of place.

isn't that a beautiful thing? You cannot help others without helping yourself and you cannot help your self without helping others.

@Sahil Pandit Hugs. @AlphaAbundance Do it because it's fun to see what happens. It's like planting seeds in a garden. You work hard and get all dirty. You don't know which will die and which will sprout when you do it. But life begets life and it's fun to see what happens in the end. It's like wrapping a present up for yourself, hiding it until you forget about and finding it again someday.

Those are the same patterns I've fallen into with my relationships too, wanting to help or "save" somebody, wanting their attention and approval. Those are our own egoic needs though. Isn't that interesting how we go into a relationship on hand wanting to be loved and accepted as we are and THEN we also have this big goal and intention of fixing them? We can't have both. I'm just wondering what that same relationship dynamic would be like now that you are more conscious... if you could resist falling into those ego traps. Would it be all beautiful magic? Think how much you'd have to open your heart, be vulnerable and be present with what is in order to manage.

@Serotoninluv What exactly about them attracted you?

I would love a video on astrology.

Try the law of attraction, Abraham Hicks. Fits nicely into all this but it SEEMS wrong.

You're doing good, but pretend that you're playing whack a mole and as soon as that belief pops up your'e like, no you're not, the opposite is true. Try to think more in paradox when you think, or correct yourself with the opposite paradoxical truth. Paradox isn't IT either, but it's a good way of thinking in "not it, not it"

@Serotoninluv @tsuki great advice. Opposites attract however, you also need to have things common with your partner where it really counts. If you're looking for a long term relationship try to find someone who will challenge you. Sometimes that means finding someone with more traditional, high IQ, type intelligence when you have high emotional intelligence or vice versa. Most couples are mismatched, heart led with someone brainy. If you're heart led you might want to look for a more intellectual type woman. You'll give her what she can't access easily on her own and vice versa. My father has really high emotional intelligence but compared with my mother he's not nearly as smart. I would have had a horribly cold and disconnected childhood without his warmth, and I would have been neglected without my mothers careful planning. I on the other hand, only really like intellectual type guys. I'm good friends with heart led guys but together we'd suck at making it through life together as partners. I can just imagine the passionate fights we'd have, the relationship wouldn't last two weeks. Instead my husband is more cold and unfeeling on the surface. It drives me crazy and I always saw him as a challenge to get him to open up and see what he was really all about. Put the work into really digging deep so that you know yourself really well. Then you'll know what partners to pick. If a girl is turned off by you sharing too much, that might mean she just isn't the right match. It doesn't mean you were wrong to share, in fact you probably saved yourself weeks of wasted agony in the relationship. Also, trust and work to hone your intuition. Also remember that attraction and love is beyond thought and understanding, bottom line.

@TheAvatarState It really is. What I love about this place is how there are so many brilliant people here who can really deepen my understanding of my own insights.

The funniest part of this entire video is when I say my head is empty space and I miss the joke myself.

My entire bedroom is shaped like a pyramid. I just realized that. Pretty sure there's just some mice at the top in the attic though.

Oh shit.

@pluto

@Nahm Or pure potential.

Your daily serving of 80's music a la my 15 year old self.

Hone your inner voice and intuition and follow it wherever it leads you. Your life is not your own and when you follow a path that is not your own you will be fulfilled.

@Nahm Wow. It is shocking to wake up to again and again. My son told me that I have one eye that sees invisible things and one that sees normally. That's my favorite so far. I just told him thank you, and that that was a beautiful thing to say. I'm on day three of them both home sick so this is trial by fire.

@zambize You're fucking kidding me, I've been listening to that song on repeat for the past few days. Good luck during your interview, I'll be thinking of you.

We all have moments of happiness and moments of suffering. Don't identify with one or the other, just accept the moment for what it brings without trying to label it good or bad. Being one with the moment diminishes suffering.

@pluto The soil is as connected with everything as the air. http://www.bbc.com/earth/story/20141111-plants-have-a-hidden-internet It's how plants communicate. How they are interconnected and one with each other and life. It's mind blowing.

I spent the past 10 years focusing on myself and ignoring him, then I realized he was actually an enlightened master the whole time with a few lapses now and then. I married him because he's my mirror, he's what I'm not and can never be. I just don't like what I see all the time. That's the hard part.