Muhammad Jawad

Should I allow my family & friends to make fun of me in front of all kinds of people in any kind of situation because, in reality, I do not exist? How does a spiritually enlightened person deal with situations like people in his family & friends make fun of him, in front of everyone brutally & torture him emotionally & psychologically? Will he focus on: "I do not exist". Or something else?

True. Thanks :-)

Maybe, you are right.

Right. I understand. Thanks

You are right, we should understand them deeply. That's also true. Normally I do not confront them directly but whenever I do, it leaves them baffled and then I feel guilty. Right That's true as well. He makes fun of me only in front of me. I often hear from others that my Father is talking about me in nice words & appreciates me. Right I will surely try that soon when he is in good mood. Right. Thanks

Is it wrong to look for a solution? I didn't say that. I have direct experience. I am not giving any advice, I am looking for advice. I am not saying. I am not living with them. I meet that occasionally.

Right. Thanks for sharing this. :-)

You are right. One can not focus on spirituality and work on himself in that kind of environment and fortunately, I live separately in a very safe & peaceful environment that is helping me a lot to work on myself. I just face this kind of situation once a month when I go back to meet my parents.

hmmm. Right. Thanks for sharing your perspective. :-)

I think you are right. I will have to make a balance between spiritual reality & the illusory world and act accordingly.

Yes, I have already got that book & I will surely read it :-)

hmmm. Right. Maybe my illusory ego is still too strong and attached to its self-image and afraid of losing its self-image.

I have not just read & accepted it. I am doing spiritual practices for many years and can clearly see the absence of an experiencer or subject.

Sure. Thanks

Ok, Thanks a lot. :-)

Morally that belief is true but ultimately that's all egoic belief which is not true.

Right. Thanks :-)

Right. Thanks a lot for this great perspective :-)

My Dog will not understand what I am saying to him. But If I will misbehave with my dad, and rudely ask him to stop doing that will hurt him.

Ok. Right. Thanks

Right. I will surely try out this emotional scale you just shared. Thanks a lot for the help :-)

In Fact, I do not want to solve this issue by breaking his heart.

hmmm. Right I know it's just a belief and not actually true. But morally we should be with our parents and should never leave them just because they couldn't grow themselves enough their maturity. They are the conclusive product of this world. We should understand them deeply. So instead of leaving them, we should work on ourselves in a way that their verbal actions can not harm us.

Hahahaha. Ok. Thanks for the suggestion :-)

Right. That's means I need to have a bit more patience and keep working on growing my consciousness.