Snuitje

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  1. Thanks all for the reply's. Not sure what gave you the impression that I find being in debt is bad. I prefer it not, which is I think a very mature thought. But you're right, I will have to spend the next years educating myself on money, and I will master it in my life. @laurastarla Thanks for sharing. Very similar how some others are doing it around me. I understand how you see it as an investment, which is something I've contemplated a lot actually. @LastThursday I agree with your story. Thanks for sharing.
  2. This. This is all beautiful said. When you feel/think you're ready drop little nuggets of wisdom here and there and see how people react to it. Build a website, start a blog or whatever just so you can start teaching.
  3. As if you need an online test to know you're an empath
  4. Sounds like you have an upper limit problem. It means that you think you don't deserve your succes and are sabotaging (in this case quitting) your progress. Become aware of this. Notice your fears. Notice how you feel. What are your thoughts? Journal about this if you're not doing that already. That way you can spot the upper limit problem and break through it.
  5. Your score from primary psychopathy has been calculated as 1.2. Your score from secondary psychopathy has been calculated as 1.1 You score for primary psychopathy was higher than 5.51% of people who have taken this test. You score for secondary psychopathy was higher than 0.53% of people who have taken this test.
  6. It means keeping feet on the ground, literally. You are still your body. You have to take care of the body. Pay the bills, Learn/remembering stuff etc. Good ways is walking naked feet in the forest. I find this one extremely good and is my number 1. People look at your funny but hey, don't care. Others are breathing exercises, Vinyasa Yoga.
  7. @Stovo There are an infinite number of Big Bangs. There are infinite number of galaxies, There are infinite number of planets, There are infinite number of intelligent life forms, wich each are their own universe (every human here on earth is their own universe), Each cell in their body is their own universe, Even now, in your own body, you have a tremendous amount of multiverses in you. And in animals, and in plants. The way I see it, its multiverses in multiverses. That's how I think of the multiverse.
  8. I just wanted to say that this thread is a gold mine! So much good advice here. Thanks @Leo Gura!
  9. What is a high quality game exactly? What kind of game would be a high standard game? A creative game like Space Engineers or a numbers game like Satisfactory? Is it also the studio and how the employees are treated what makes a best game?
  10. I used to do this a lot but got barely any results from it. It seemed what I visualised and reality were too far apart. So I practiced more (mindfully) and less visualisation and things got better, quicker. @Seth One of the 9 intelligences is linguistic and for some people it's just lower. Just keep practicing. I don't know if you talk really fast but what seemed to work for me atleast is talking slower and breathing deeper. Take your time while talking, also say less, but be specific.
  11. You can still tell the story by changing names and locations. Just mention that you change names and location for safety. Undercover agents also do this and the story is not less believeable or interesting.
  12. You did not waste your life. Everything you did took you to this point. It's normal to be stuck and expect to be stuck for a little while so get used to the sucky feeling. It's okay. Depending on how long your wife wants to pay for the bills you can start studying SD if you desire, maybe just to expand your knowledge/perception of life. You can also start brainstorming for some job ideas. Write them all down on a piece of paper and take action on them. Very cool. It is your own voice that speaks back, only you interpreted it from your ego perspective. But yeah it's you (earth, God, whatever you want to call it).
  13. Very good. Do this and see if it works out. If it doesn't work out you can also: Do a life purpose course Hire a career coach for a session or 2
  14. @Shiva99 The first three years are hard. It gets "easier" after that because you get used to it. So I don't know how long you've been doing this, but don't give up or accept a mediocre version of yourself. Let go of the thought what reality wants you to be. Enjoy the struggle, once you learn the lesson of the struggle it goes away.
  15. Having a headache can come from many things but most common: Bad nutrition Not enough water Stress / Worries / Anxiety Some tips you asked for: Eat healthy Drink enough water Meditate daily Keeping a journal
  16. I cleaned my bum with hand and water a year ago just to try it out. imo, just don't wipe it with those 3 layers thick papers who clog the sewer and use 1 layer papers. I use 1 or 2 squares of pieces max for every poopie.
  17. It was the Big Leap from Gay Hendricks. I looked it up.
  18. This is a common fear and I read about it in a book not long ago, maybe it was Radical Honesty, I'm not sure. It said that we're afraid to standout because we feel we might be disloyal to the people close to us. Or we give them a feeling of inferiority. I believe this fear has to be brute forced: face it head on. Do your craft and do it with love and fuck what the world says. Your friends and closed ones want you to succeed (I hope :)) and that might inspire them to better themselves aswell.
  19. @capriciousduck How long have you been trying to think in English? Maybe it needs more time to adjust or maybe you have to expand your vocabulary.
  20. Alarm at 8 Make bed Do concentration (10 min) Do meditation (1 hour) Eat breakfast Day starts at 9:30 orso
  21. You seem to compare yourself a lot with other people. Whether or not they meditate and do all this 'hard work' or are in self-actualization is irrelevant. You are your own person with your own journey and your own obstacles. I see a lot of insecurities in you projecting outwards onto those people, I understand that. Try to see the lessons of this night and how you can improve. You mentioned about emotions and how people can open up so easily and you can't. Well, why is that? Is it shame or guilt, perhaps fear? Find out and go to the root of it. This has nothing to do with being a "beta." What you said is something really beautiful. What answer did you expect she/they would give you? Let me suck your dick. No. It's impossible to be behind or in front of other people. You are exactly where you are supposed to be. Maybe map out what it means to be a 'master' of life. This night happened because there were lessons to learn. Learn them and grow.
  22. @Death_ Thanks for bringing awareness to this software. I love it! Having those custom plugins make this program incredible. If you know some CSS you can do some serious mapping. OneNote is still more user friendly, however leaning towards future proof is something worth considering.
  23. What helped in my life: Don't watch the news Don't read the newspaper People will tell you important stuff anyway if you have job or see family Don't watch movies/series on television with commercials Be selective with TV entertainment, for example, Marvels phase 4 seems ludicrous with the amount of stuff they're producing. But a movie here or a serie there is fine. Use a porn blocker if you lack discipline to contain it to minutes a month Don't watch the tv in the gym Use your phone only when necessary. I am at 15 minutes a day. Don't visit 9gag :). Don't watch cat video's, videogame reviews, let's plays etc. on Youtube. Not following too many vloggers showing their life. Questioning adds
  24. How would a portfolio on spirituality look like? I'm struggling with setting up my company because I feel like I lack proof of what I know. I want to help people with their struggles of addictions, lack of clarity, lack of purpose, being overweight, negative thinking, non-duality etc. Basically helping humans disidentifying with their thought patterns. Talking about addictions and how to get rid of them isn't that for a professional psychologist? I'm 31 now and even blue skying about going back to college would be a hell no for sure. I never liked college or finished one (10 years back) because I didn't resonate with the system. It gives me confidence that no one asked Leo for his degree's when coaching. But then, how can I show proof of my own accomplishment in this self-help field? I feel people around me kind of can guess the amount of work I have put into myself even though they don't understand it (consciousness etc.). People I will coach don't know me so I want to create proof. I thought of createing a Youtube channel for the Dutch people on self-help & spirituality (there aren't any good ones) but I feel like I have to copy Leo a lot and I don't like that. Even though I want a Tier 2 Yellow business. It's something I really feel like accomplishing in this life. What do you guys think?
  25. If it was easy, we would live in a different world. Your love was extrinsic. Life is not outside to in, it's inside to out. You can't 'own' a person.