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  1. Explains why it was actually successful!! I haven't read that one. What would you say is wrong with it?
  2. Your welcome! I hope you enjoy them as much as I enjoy making oblique references to the best Chris. Actually, writing up summaries helps me focus and reflect on what’s being said and how to incorporate it into my life. I totally recommend it! I even like the super early vids. It has a lot of healthy stage blue and orange stuff even though I feel like I’m digging up Leo’s old high school yearbook.
  3. 56. Summary: How to Be Happy in Life - Happiness Bottlenecks -Have you ever wondered what the secret to happiness is? Have you ever thought: “If only I had ________, I would be totally fulfilled.” That’s a very common thought, it’s also wrong. -There isn’t one big secret to happiness. Life is complex. Happiness isn’t a light switch you flip once. It’s more like straightening out a tangled up garden hose with weak water flow. The flow is weak because all the kinks in the garden hose are producing bottlenecks in the water pressure. Leo’s Journey As A Case-Study -The reality is there are many areas in your life that you will need to work on to be truly happy and fulfilled. So stop tormenting yourself expecting a silver bullet. -When Leo’s first started personal development, he thought one thing would unlock the key to happiness. This slowed his growth and made him doubtful and skittish about which path to pursue. “Maybe I have subconscious issues holding me back and I need therapy? Then again, if I was more optimistic I wouldn't need to rehash my childhood with a therapist…Maybe if I were more ‘in the moment’ and stopped being so goal-driven and materialistic I’d be happy…? Maybe I’m too impatient? Maybe I need to adopt a mastery mindset so I don’t get discouraged…? What if I’m just being lazy? What if I just need more discipline? Or, what if I have enough discipline, but I just have the wrong goals…? What if I can't make the right goals because I don't have the right life purpose...?” -He was confused because he didn't know which problem to tackle first. The truth is you need to have a certain number of elements in place before you can really be happy in life. The River of Happiness & Bottlenecks -Think of your happiness as a flowing stream of water — a river. You have created, or continue to create, bottlenecks that restrict its natural flow of happiness. -Some potential bottlenecks include: addiction (drugs, food, porn, internet, etc), pessimistic thinking, serious money problems, lack of education, lack of vision or goals, unhealthy relationship(s), health problems, etc. -You gotta address the most urgent bottleneck first. Then that will reveal a new bottleneck afterwards. So, what’s really clogging up your natural flow of happiness right now? What is holding you back right now from living your full potential? Sit down and answer this question! -When you dig into this, you will see that there will be a successive string of bottlenecks. This means you’ll be doing personal development for a long time if you really want to be happy and successful. -Don’t get distracted by quick fix solutions. Instead, see the big picture of what you’re doing. Get excited about your life vision! You are finally on a conscious journey to master yourself! This is the greatest thing you can do! Pinpoint Your Top 2 Bottlenecks -Pinpoint your current bottleneck, and commit to solving it, whatever it takes. Also try to predict what your second biggest bottleneck will be. -What are one or two action items you can start doing right now to open your 2 biggest bottlenecks? Write down your best answers and begin taking action. Working Multiple Bottlenecks At Once -You’ll need to chip away at some bottlenecks for months or years to get them fully resolved, so it’s nice to work on a couple at once. It’s like parallel processing in your computer! -You can work on multiple bottlenecks simultaneously. Be very careful that you don’t take on too much. You need to have enough conscious awareness to devote to each issue. If you see yourself constantly slipping, wipe the slate clean with a focus on just one bottleneck. -Sometimes you have to sacrifice life balance to resolve a bottleneck through sheer force. This is okay. Go out of balance, then remember to come back into balance a few months later. Research Solutions -Without exception, every bottleneck can be resolved. So no excuses about how your situation is soooo bad that there is no hope for you. Stop this victim thinking. It is killing your results in life. Realize your problem is NOT special or new. Your problem is ultimately psychological, and thousands if not millions of human being have faced your exact same problem throughout the thousands of years of recorded human history. Solutions are out there if you just look. -Start doing research for how to unclog your bottlenecks. You are not seeing all the options right now. We live in an information-product age. There is literally a resource to help you understand and fix ANY bottleneck you’ve got, no matter how peculiar, odd, or shameful it might seem to you.
  4. I try not to name the books on the list either. That way people can be surprised. Who'd have guessed Trump's "Art of the Deal" would be in the Enlightenment category?! Or "Fifty Shades of Grey" would be under Spiritual Poetry?
  5. Sounds like Deep Work. That's a good one too. I liked that one a lot. The first book under Life Purpose on the book list is also a great one for finding your LP.
  6. 84. Summary: How To Stay Healthy - The Psychology of Maintaining Consistent, Effortless Health “Take care of your body. It’s the only place you have to live.” —Jim Rohn -This is about the deeper psychology of staying healthy. That’s way more important than the technical details of diet and exercise. -Why do some people have excellent health and vitality, while some don’t? In fact, most don’t. Many people mistreat their body so badly they have miserable health or are headed in that direction. Excellent health comes from an excellent psychology about health. If you have an unhealthy lifestyle you probably have poor psychology about health. You’re not in touch with why you want to be healthy. -Why do you want exceptional health? That’s the key to getting and staying motivated, to resisting temptation. Awareness Of Health -Getting healthy is hard, but we’re told it’s easy, which makes it even more difficult. There’s so many distractions. It’s very easy to skip the gym. It’s very easy to eat junk. There’s ads and access to unhealthy food everywhere. All of that plays on your psyche. It puts you in a very un-resourceful state, where you don’t even realize just how much your health can deteriorate if you don’t change. -It takes focus and awareness to be healthy. You have to prioritize your health, your workout regime, meal prep and shopping for nourishing food. If you get careless you’ll default to what society makes easy, which is junk food and avoiding the gym. Get Educated and Experiment -Read about fitness and nutrition. Watch workouts on youtube. Research different types of diets. There’s a lot of disinformation about nutrition and exercise. So you need to experiment. -Throughout this process you’ll start to see patterns emerge. It’s frustrating because there’s so much conflicting health advice out there. For every hundred youtube videos, half of them probably conflict with the other half. That’s just the state of our understanding at this point in human development. However, there’s a lot of stuff that does work. You just have to sort through it. See what works for you. Adopt the strategies that work for you and use them. Discard the stuff that doesn’t work. Even if a thousand experts say diet X is the best, if it doesn’t work for you—don’t do it. Try something else. -Pretty much all diets say cutting sugar and junk carbs is the fastest path to weight loss. The Why of Health The most fundamental question is: Why do you want to be healthy? Why is that important? Have you stopped and actually asked yourself that? Don’t just dismiss the answers or take them lightly. -Leo used to be fat Leo. In college he lost about 65 pounds in five months. It’s been a long journey for him, so he knows the process firsthand. He started by wanting to drop fat. He’d been fat for so long he didn’t know what his non-fat body looked like. He didn’t even have an image of how healthy he could look. It crippled his confidence and romantic relationships. He couldn’t even wear nice clothes to go on dates. -That’s a good place to start, but there are even deeper motivations that could fire you up. Leo’s health goals nowadays aren’t about looks. It’s about truly valuing and caring about his brain and body. Your Body Is A Temple -The human body is one of the most amazing, complex machines on the planet. It’s beautiful, especially the human brain. Having something so beautiful makes you want to preserve it. Really soak that message into your subconscious, so that everything you do to you body is about improving it. That’s how you create a health enhancing psychology. Do you want to live a long prosperous life? Do you want to be active? To travel the world? To build a thriving business or career? Do you want to have great relationships with your partner or kids? To connect with people? To motivate people? Do you want to try out crazy hobbies? Do you want to read books or learn new skills? Do you think you could do any of that without good health or energy? “Treat your body like a temple not like a wooden shack”—Jim Rohn. -If you had a high performance vehicle, a multimillion dollar, one of a kind, collectible sportscar, would you put premium fuel into it? Would you take it to a car wash? Would you do frequent oil changes using only the best oil? You would, because you see it as precious. Which car would you rather drive? Start to envision your body that way. Your body is even more precious than a sportscar because it’s the only place you have to live. Joe Rogan’s Workout Motivation (7 min). Discomfort is your friend. Reasons to Get Healthy -The health of your body is the greatest enhancer or inhibitor of your life. 1. Energy -Good energy gives you the highest quality life possible. If you’re feeling groggy, listless or your mood is down, you won’t be at the top of your game. -Pay attention to how you feel after eating junk food. Notice how it deteriorates you from the inside out. Those unhealthy images will make it easier to avoid Big Macs and candy. 2. Longevity -The healthier you are, the longer you’ll live and the better quality your life will be. Do you want to worry about heart disease, diabetes, cancer and flights of stairs? Or do you want to climb trees, fight criminals, do headstands on the beach, put your grandkids to work, contribute to your community and enjoy life? 3. Brain Health “Your mind is the most powerful weapon you have.”—Farengar Secret-Fire from “Skyrim” -The mind-body connection is important. The health of your brain is interconnected with the health of your body. Do the research and you’ll see. -If you’re an analytical person, or your job depends on brain power or creativity, you’ll want to get every mental edge possible. You use your brain all the time, why not make it your biggest strength? That’s your consciousness we’re talking about. -Cut out anything that’s hurting your brain performance. Do you want to maintain strong, healthy neural connections for the rest of your life? Or do you want to have brain tumours, memory problems and Alzheimer’s disease? 4. Looking Good -Do you want to have an impressive physique? Do you enjoy wearing nice clothes? Do you like having stamina in the bedroom? Or would you rather be some fat-ass trying to have sex? 5. Kids -Getting your fitness and nutrition right will set a good example for your kids. If they learn how to do it right they can avoid hurting their health or becoming overweight. -Do you want to live long enough to see your kids grow up? Do you want to see them graduate, or get married, or crush it at their career, or have children of their own? When you choose Big Macs over your family, you’re short changing them and yourself on the experiences you could be having together. Next Steps -Those are just a few reasons to get and stay healthy. So, why do you want exceptional health? Write down your top reasons. Do this right now, or at least sometime today. The key to motivation is getting clear on your vision and your why. Start tapping into this. This makes it much easier to resist temptation and stick to the path of living your best life.
  7. Thanks for your replies. For me, knowing that LoA is both metaphysical and not just mechanical makes it more motivating to use. Leo's 12min episode about LoA is actually one of my favourite actualized episodes. It made me realize I've been doing LoA wrong this whole time! LoA is best used to attract internal qualities, skills or states of mind instead of material objects. It's kinda like wishing for more wishes since you become the source of what you want instead of just a recipient.
  8. Leo's latest episode addresses this really well. Here's a 10 min clip about why Absolute truth is so tough to understand from within Relative truth.
  9. You may want to check out scribd.com. You can get a free 2 week membership and download (and keep!) about 1/4 of Leo's book list. You can also stream about 10-20 books that aren't downloadable. Great for a book binge or sampling different books to figure out what you want to focus on.
  10. It's not under Store. Log in, then go to "My Account" (top right corner), then "My Products." It'll be under there. Press "Access Now."
  11. @mandyjw ? Helpful answer. Thanks for answering.
  12. @Gennadiy1981 Absolute truth and Relative truth co-exist. Leo’s latest episode talks all about this: Relative vs Absolute Truth. There's also clip about Relative Truth (10 min). “Crack is bad” isn’t true at all. -Crack helps numb out pain. -It’s cheaper than cocaine but provides a similar high (I’m told). -You can make a lot of money selling it. -It’s inspired tons of great movies. -It’s inspired tons of great filmmakers. -It’s created tons of jokes for great comedians. -News media loves reporting on crack because it catapults ratings. -For a toxic stage blue person who’s scared of black people, it was useful in the 1980s because it set back the black community in terrible ways that are still ongoing. For toxic stage blue, disenfranchising the “scary, dangerous people” is good. -It gives celebs publicity and sympathy when they get caught using it and go into rehab. -It saved Lamar Odom’s marriage back in 2015. -I’m not endorsing the use of crack, btw. Just showing that even within Relative truth crack can be “good” or useful in many ways. -Understanding how Relative truth works and how self deception and interpretation controls your experience of reality helps you raise your consciousness, which gets you closer to embodying Absolute truth, love, non-duality, and alleviates suffering.
  13. Wondering if anyone could answer this question? Why is LoA metaphysical and not just psychological or brute mechanics? I'm guessing LoA isn't just a mechanical process because the reality of the universe is love and non-duality, but I'd appreciate hearing other people shed light on this. Thanks
  14. ? I’d say the Leos are super attractive. Femme Leo looks like Scarlett Johansson ??! Speaking of stage yellow relationships, you might want to check out Neale Donald Walsch’s book Wedding Vows. Granted, he and his wife eventually divorced, but the content of the message is still good. audio of Ceremony of the Roses (11 mins) book sample on Google Books.
  15. It’s a sign! You should set your friend up with Leo or Lucas-fgm ?! I figured guys would like the blonde Lea in the previous post the most. She seems the "hottest" ??‍♀️. Maybe Leo should join the Kardashians?? ? Ok, I’ll stop now. Btw, if you want to be productive don’t get Faceapp.
  16. Maybe Leo needs to scour Vegas looking for these lovely ladies... Femme Leo is quite pretty ?!!
  17. @John Doe You're welcome ? @Eren Eeager Cool website. Thanks for sharing ?.
  18. -Here’s a cool, freaky video on how unreliable your brain and senses are: Going Beyond Yanny Laurel. -Also, two great Einstein quotes that capture going meta: “Problems cannot be solved at the same level of awareness that created them.” “If I had an hour to solve a problem I’d spend 55 minutes thinking about the problem and 5 minutes thinking about solutions.”
  19. Thanks @Bando and @BojanV. I knew my Star Trek knowledge would pay off someday ?!
  20. You're very welcome. I'm glad you find this helpful. It's one of my favourite episodes.
  21. -This episode is 🤯 whoa . It feels like a gypsy curse has been lifted from my psyche. -The following is the condensed version of the summary. It has about half the examples and fewer explanations. External links were selected by me, for better or worse . _______________________________________________ 481. Summary: How Your Mind Interprets Reality “There are no facts, only interpretations." —Frederick Nietzsche -The full version of this summary can be found here in the forum. -Interpretation is core to how you make sense of the world. It’s going to take you a good ten years to fathom the significance of that. This is a foundational epistemic episode. -Every situation has multiple interpretations. People fall into the trap of treating situations as though there are only one or two interpretations. -Seeing Only One Interpretation. The worst case scenario. If you only have one interpretation it becomes your reality. It’s absolute truth. It’s not even an interpretation; it's taken as fact. This is what most people are doing. -Seeing Two Interpretations. You get a taste that interpretation is going on, that the mind is not just receiving “raw facts.” But, now you get caught up in this tug of war, duality, tribalism, partisanship. You see reality in a black and white way. This is all part of a larger theme of Self-Deception. -You have to think very deeply about anything you call a fact. Your mind doesn’t question “facts” so they become your reality. You think a “fact” is something objective that exists independent of you, but they’re actually constructed by your interpretations. It’s important to notice that what most people call facts are actually interpretations. By people I mean you. Facts alone have no value and no meaning. They don’t tell you what's worthwhile or what you should do. That requires interpretation. So, the set of facts you choose to focus on is highly biased. You cherry-pick facts to bolster your sense of reality, to confirm your worldview and to advance your survival. The tricky thing is there's always more than one way to make sense of facts, but people like to act like there’s only one way or “the right way.” Epistemic blunders mostly lie in how you interpret facts and which facts you focus on, not in the facts themselves. Going Meta -This is an important concept. Going meta means to step outside the frame of a thing and observe it. To go one level higher in abstraction. (clip: Going Meta (8 min) ep: What it Means to Go Meta). -Don’t get lost in the content of these examples. The examples are here to make the concepts concrete. (ep: Content vs Structure) The danger here is that you’ll focus on which of these interpretations is the “correct one,” but that's missing the point. Leo’s trying to communicate something meta to you. Be aware if you’re getting stuck in the content of the interpretations and failing to go meta. The larger, meta point with these examples is that there are multiple interpretations. The need to have one right and the rest wrong is part of the problem. See the structure, stay meta. Why did the United States invade Iraq? 1st POV: to defend against terrorism. 2nd POV: because of greedy executives running giant military companies and defense contractors and oil companies for whom this war was beneficial. 3rd POV: because Dick Cheney was a war criminal and George W Bush was an idiot who was easy to manipulate. 4th POV: it was a collective psychic backlash to 911, a fear response. 5th POV: there were weapons of mass destruction or at least that's what people believed at the time. -That’s five very different interpretations. In politics, most people pick one interpretation and act as if it represents the situation in it entirety. If someone believes that Dick Cheney is a war criminal and George W Bush is an idiot they don't see it as an interpretation, but as reality. They don't see deeper levels of interpretation, like with the 4th and 5th options. There are different levels of quality to interpretations. They're not all equal. Some of them are very simplistic, some profound, some even go to a spiritual degree of understanding. eg: The idea of “a collective psychic backlash to 911” is a very powerful interpretation. Instead of looking at the US government as a group of evil people, you see the situation from a more compassionate, understanding and conscious place. Fear tends to become a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you fear terrorism, invading the Middle East with a poorly thought out war leads to a destabilization of the region that creates more terrorism. -With the 2nd POV, if you believe the US invasion was because of some greedy executives who wanted contracts, that’s a whole way of seeing the world. It's an adversarial “they’re evil and corrupt and not good like us normal people. They're manipulating us, those damn globalists…” That way of looking at the world leads to certain consequences. It leads to you feeling and acting a certain way. If you think the world is run by a cabals of globalists does that make you feel empowered or like a victim? Is that motivating you to be constructive, creative, and follow your life purpose? Or does it make you feel you're being exploited and manipulated? Ultimately you don’t care about facts. You care about how you feel. -Start to see the whole situation in a multi-perspective, multi-faceted way with multiple interpretations, seeing that each interpretation captures some element of the situation, but not the total thing. -Even more importantly, you want to see how your mind is constructing these interpretations. Become aware of which interpretations you're missing. There are different qualities of interpretation. Saying some group of people does evil because they're monsters or idiots is one of the lowest quality kinds of interpretations. -Even though there are low quality and high quality interpretations, we shouldn’t squeeze out all the lower quality povs. Every interpretation contains some sort of partial truth even though it might be very twisted and distorted. Also, if many people are suffering from low quality misinterpretations, you need to understand that pov to address it effectively. Their opinions might not be accurate, but they could be valid. (eg: Just because there are a lot of Q-Anon people doesn’t mean their ideas are true. However, the rise of so many angry people is important to know about and understand.) Ideally, you want a compound perspective of interconnected and intersecting interpretations. Religion exists because… a) it's a holdover from superstitious ancestors who weren't scientifically rigorous. b) it’s a tool to control the masses. c) it’s not scientifically or literally true, but these myths contain deep psychological lessons without which you can go astray in life. d) it points to absolute truth which is incommunicable because it's infinite and therefore it can never be articulated in a literal scientific sense. -Do you see how different these interpretations are? Notice the last two are more nuanced than just saying “all religion is bullshit.” You’re going to react to religion and religious people differently depending on which pov you believe. -Remember, we’re not interested in which interpretation is “right.” We’re interested in the meta point of seeing how many different ways there are to interpret what religion could be. Islam is… a) the highest religion and truth. b) evil barbaric and violent. c) used in both constructive and destructive ways. How it’s used depends on how it’s read and who cherry picks which parts. d) contains profound truths that are more advanced than science. However, its truths are corrupted by being taken too literally. It also uses many archaic cultural customs from fifteen thousand years ago. -a) is a devout Muslim interpretation. This perspective probably thinks it’s “reality” instead of just a perspective. -b) many Conservatives and Christians in the US feel this way. They’re fearful and uneducated about Islam. Also notice they don't hold that as an interpretation, but as reality. -Notice that c) & d) are more nuanced perspectives. Donald Trump is… a) is a true patriot, a secret genius. A secret systems thinker who acts buffoonish to subvert the elite globalist media. b) an opportunistic grifter and con artist. c) actually God acting out of the highest good and love from his point of view. All his actions are the seeking of love. -Notice how radically different each perspective is. How you frame Trump and how you behave politically depends on which of these interpretations you take. Psychedelics are… a) drugs, which are bad and dangerous. b) just creating hallucinations in the brain. If you experience some mystical truths they don’t mean anything. c) great for expanding consciousness and seeing higher truths. d) an immature shortcut. Fake spirituality because it’s not permanent. e) the future of spiritual work. They haven't caught on because they've been so stigmatized. -Notice how some of these interpretations will exclude you from exploring psychedelics. That's how powerful interpretation can be. Also contentious issues often cause people to get close-minded and stuck in one interpretation. Actualize.org is… a) a cult. b) not a cult, but self-deceived and teaches misinformation. d) offers some advanced perspectives and insights about the nature of reality, but is still partial. It's not a complete picture. e) seems like a cult because it’s teaching advanced things that most of mankind finds threatening. Therefore the most convenient thing for the ego-mind to do is just to call it a cult. f) it’s a communication from God. g) it’s you teaching your own self how to awaken. It’s also the universe teaching itself how to awaken. Quine’s Gavagai Example -Imagine an American explorer finds a remote tribe that has never made contact with the outside world. He tries to learn the tribe’s language. No prob, right? Actually, Quine says this problem is much deeper than it seems. How would this actually play out? Let’s say you’re sitting with a tribesman around the campfire and then a rabbit runs across the field. The tribesman says, “gavagai gavagai” and points at it. What does the tribesman mean? What is “gavagai”? a) a furry, living animal with long ears. b) the name of this particular bunny who is the tribe pet. c) God manifesting itself as the rabbit. d) a hallucination of a rabbit, which means the psychedelics at the campfire are working. e) a rabbit’s foot, which the rabbit’s using to wave hello, awwww…. f) a rabbit’s foot, which the tribe thinks is the most delicious part ?. g) a safe, timid brown bunny, as opposed to those demonic white bunnies, thank goodness. -If you think, “Leo, this is a silly problem. What’s the difference?” Quine’s point here was very deep. Your notion of rabbit will be defined by your entire sense of reality. There is a significant difference between seeing that rabbit as food, as a biological creature, or as consciousness. eg: Buffalo Wasn’t Just Food(2min) Native American tribes view Buffalo differently than…many people today view cute buffalo at the zoo…or bison at the butcher shop. Your notion of anything is metaphysically and epistemically loaded. You’re not conscious of those frameworks, but they shape how you relate to that rabbit. So, your mind's way of holding the concept of “rabbit” is not the same as the tribesman’s or Leo’s or Alice in Wonderland’s or anyone else’s. -The gavagai example shows that most situations in life are deeply ambiguous. Quine’s point is that we will never fully resolve this problem within language. We're basically guaranteed to have different ways of interpreting that rabbit because of the underdetermination problem. eg: an episode of Star Trek:TNG demonstrates this: Darmok and Jalad at Tenagra (1 to 6 mins) The Underdetermination Problem -The Underdetermination problem says: evidence available to us, at a given time, may be insufficient to determine what beliefs we should hold in response to it. Our way of interpreting and seeing the facts go way beyond what is merely there. “Under determination refers to (Willard Van Orman) Quine's assessment that evidence alone does not dictate the choice of a scientific theory, as different theories —observationally equivalent— may be able to explain the same facts.” —Wikipedia -We can also look at the same “facts” and perceive different things because of biology. eg: Yanny or Laurel. The White and Gold Dress pic. Science is Subjective -Quine's point is that there is no such thing as scientific, because how you define “scientific” is part of the problem. (ep: What is the Nature of Science) Science is full of interpretation. It’s not an objective, singular thing. Can you use science to find the right interpretation of what science is? That’s like a heart surgeon performing surgery on himself. This is a meta-scientific problem. Many atheists and materialists don't grasp the depth of the epistemic problem here. Stop naively mistaking the constructions of your mind as reality itself. For each piece of data you gather you can come up with multiple alternative theories. You can never have one theory that perfectly matches all the facts because every theory is underdetermined. So this creates a an open-ended, infinite problem for science. (This doesn’t even include invalidated theories that comfort your ego.) eg: Seven of Nine uses the same facts to accuse Cpt. Janeway and Chakotay of crimes that contradict each other. Just a Word Game? -“But Leo, isn’t this just a word game? There's no difference between seeing a rabbit through a materialist lens versus an idealist lens.” That's wrong. There are ways to decide between them, but not at your current level of consciousness and not using materialist methods. An idealist will consider something like direct experience of absolute truth as possible. The materialist is shut off to this because it doesn’t validate his worldview. So it’s not just a “word game.” Those words carry a lot of unquestioned baggage. -The lesson here is that most situations in life are deeply ambiguous. So, increase your capacity for handling ambiguity and a variety of perspectives. Profound self-deceptions can be life-threatening. It's not just empty philosophy. We could destroy civilization if we don't get this right. Your mind wants reality to be one particular way that serves your survival. The mind abhors a vacuum because it’s threatening. Leaving things open-ended is a lot of work for the mind. -With all these examples keep asking yourself: how would you know the difference between these interpretations? Notice how many different povs fit the same “facts.” Also, Leo’s not trying to justify any action here, so don’t get lost in the content of the interpretations. Focus on the larger, meta point: seeing each situation from multiple perspectives. These examples show how ubiquitous the problem of interpretation is and how many real world implications there are. (49:20) Situations & Multiple Interpretations What is God? a) God is a fiction created by irrational people who don’t or historically didn’t know about evolution. b) God is a state of higher consciousness. What is Mysticism? a) Mystics are wishful-thinking, loose-minded fools who just don't want to face death. b) Mystics have figured out how to access higher dimensions of reality. -When you’re presented with these different interpretations, seriously consider this one as being possible and then seriously consider this other one as being possible. If you can do that it will open your mind (ep: How Openmindedness Works). None of this work works if you don't understand radical open-mindedness. Science is…? a) truth. b) a set of mental constructions that help people manipulate reality for survival. -How would you decide the difference between the two? After all, if what you care about is survival and nothing else, you could easily conflate survival with truth, which of course you do. Senator _____ won't vote for gun reform because…? a) he’s corrupted by the NRA gun lobby who bribed him. b) he believes gun rights are important and guaranteed by the constitution. -A lot of liberals and progressives make this mistake. They accuse certain senators or politicians of not supporting their policies because they've been corrupted, bribed or influenced. That’s definitely true in many situations, but that's not the only reason. Progressives overlook how many senators and politicians genuinely believe the Conservative worldview. Many Conservatives grew up with the gun culture. The NRA wouldn’t be so popular if a significant number of people didn’t love guns. -If you want to be a good progressive you should care about getting this right. There’s so much partisan polarization because each side strawman’s the other instead of stepping outside their own interpretation to truly understand a different pov. That's the meta problem. Also, our financial interests are always deeply entangled with our worldview, our metaphysics, our values, our epistemology. There’s never a clean division of these two things. (Which is why it’s important to get money out of politics.) Money is the distillation of survival. Your world view is your world view because it helps you to survive. (ep: Survival I, Survival II) Bill Gates is trying to…? a) control the population and get rich via vaccines. b) help humanity in the best way he knows how, but those ideas aren’t good. c) help humanity using good ideas, but his ideas aren't perfect because of limited knowledge and the complexity of humanity’s problems. -Truly put yourself in Bill’s situation. What’s the best way to help humanity if you had billions of dollars? It's hard to help everyone in a way they agree with. Everyone has different ideas of what kind of help they need or want. The help you need is probably different from the help someone in Africa or Norway might need. Person x is…? a) insane. b) understands something you don’t. -It’s easy to demonize someone who understands something that’s not popular in mainstream culture. Then again, there are some people who are truly insane. So how do you distinguish these two things? You have to deeply study epistemology and do contemplation for years, decades. If you don’t do the research you won’t figure it out. (1:00:00) Hitler was…? a) evil. b) trying to do good, but because his worldview and consciousness was so low he ended up doing a lot of bad. Person X is…? a) evil. b) doing things for a greater good, using her higher vision that you are too narrow-minded to see. -Mystics, sages and saints operate on such a high playing field that it’s easier for mainstream society to demonize them than understand them. Some of the wisest, most conscious geniuses were put to death, jailed, tortured or crucified. (Christ, Socrates, Gandhi, Joan of Arc, Martin Luther King Jr, Giordano Bruno, and so forth.) Someone who criticizes science… a) is unscientific and likely a religious nutcase. b) might be religious, but is definitely deluded and attacking from below because science is truth. c) could be criticizing science from above in a meta-scientific way that’s more epistemically rigorous than science itself. -Science often refuses to do epistemology and metaphysics. They’re so attached to science they don't think there's anything above it. (The pre/trans fallacy by Ken Wilber) However, there are things in reality which are meta-scientific, which science cannot understand or access. People who talk about God… a) are dumb, superstitious ideologues. b) could have had direct experiences of God that are more genuine than science. -That’s a radically different interpretation because most materialistic and atheistic people are not open to the possibility of having a direct experience of God. To them, all experiences of God are just hallucinations in the brain. So they are forever cut off from truly mystical experiences unless they open their mind. Other people… a) exist. b) don’t exist because this is all a dream, like the people in my dreams at night. -How would you know the difference? Remember, Leo’s not trying to justify any action here. He’s just trying to get you to see the meta in the situation. Love is… a) a mammalian emotion produced by the brain with no metaphysical significance. b) a core metaphysical aspect of universal mind and consciousness. Evolution is… a) solid proof that God doesn’t exist. b) the process by which God creates. Cop X… a) is racist because he did so and so. b) is not racist, but his actions appear that way because he's acting under extreme pressure. c) could be racist. Although the entire police system is affected by culture and both explicit and implicit racism, and being a cop is difficult in ways that cannot be appreciated by people who aren’t cops. The Buddha didn't talk about love… a) so love can't be the truth because the Buddha taught the truth. b) because he realized that love is truth, and what he called truth was actually love. c) because the Buddha's nirvana is actually metaphysical, existential love. Not just emptiness. Obama's drone strikes… a) were evil war crimes. b) saved ground troops from going in, thus saving many American soldiers. c) were ugly but necessary. They killed 90 civilians but also killed 10 hard core terrorists who were planning to kill 1000 American civilians. d) were still evil because 1000 hypothetical Americans don’t outweigh 90 Somalis and Yemenis. e) well, they do if you’re the American President. -Leo’s not trying to justify drone strikes. The meta point is to try on each perspective and appreciate the complexity of the situation. (BTW, numbers in option c) and d) were made up to illustrate a point) The calculus is very complicated and so hairy that most people at the Pentagon probably don’t even know the answers definitively. Most people take this simplistic attitude that drone strikes were evil war crimes. You're not considering the greater evil of sending cruise missiles or even a nuclear weapon. How many civilians are acceptable to kill with drone strikes in order to prevent destabilizing the region, or even nuclear war? This also shows the Underdetermination theory at play. Leo’s not justifying Obama’s actions, just pointing out there are no easy or good choices. Absolute truth is… a) impossible to access even if it exists. b) possible to access. You simply haven’t done enough work to access it. -If you haven’t done the work it’s easy to confuse your personal laziness with something being impossible. Liberals… a) have a mental disorder, like the bumper sticker says. b) are more conscious than you. -Whenever you think you're more conscious than someone else, always consider that they're more conscious than you. Maybe you're just projecting your unconsciousness onto them? Conservatives are… a) racists. b) more prone to fear, survival and xenophobia than Progressives because of their neurology. Capitalism… a) exploits workers. b) is not yet sustainable in an ethical way because humans aren't selfless and conscious enough to not exploit each other. -Do you see how different a) is from b) It changes your whole orientation towards capitalism. Because animals suffer… a) I must not eat animals. b) it has no relevance to what I eat. -The following are common views within the pickup community: Women are… a) gold diggers who only want Chads with money. b) attracted to your money because you have nothing else to offer them but money. c) not attracted to you because your personality sucks and you’re too lazy to develop yourself. d) not attracted to you and aren’t even attracted to your money because you have none. e) attracted to qualities you could develop within yourself that have nothing to do with money, but you can’t see that. Women are… a) cheaters. b) called cheaters by PUAs because they’re projecting their own lack of integrity onto women. They expect women to cheat because PUAs are themselves cheaters. Women are… a) selfish for not giving me sex b) not selfish. You are selfish because you think women owe you sex and blame them because they have free will. -Remember, how would you know the difference? Really try on all options here. Stay meta. Life has no meaning so I… a) should kill myself because meaninglessness sucks. b) could construct whatever meaning I want. This paradoxically gives life the deepest meaning possible. c) I am free from death because if life has no meaning, death has no meaning. Those who reject Christianity are… a) working for the devil. b) rejecting Christianity because it was co-opted thousands of years ago and corrupted so that now Christianity is literally devilry. -How would you know the difference? Remember, don’t get lost in the content of the interpretations. Notice how there are multiple ways of looking at a situation. To be happy I need… a) lots of money b) to find a new mode for happiness -Think about how this changes your entire approach to life. Needing lots of money (or success, or babes, or validation) to be happy is not a fact, but an interpretation that you could change. It’s a lot easier to change interpretations than facts. That would be the wiser course. Life sucks because… a) life is unfair. b) because you haven't been living by the right principles. c) life actually is fair. It’s fair to those who follow the principles. There's natural consequences and suffering which is what you're experiencing and then you call that unfair. -Maybe life sucking is just a consequence of following the wrong principles. It’s like when an idiot hits his toe with a hammer and then experiences excruciating pain, he blames that on the hammer and God and other people. He doesn't take responsibility for his own decisions. The Middle East is… a) less developed than the West because the people there are savages with an inferior culture. b) less developed because the Middle East was a harsher environment to survive in. So historically those people have required more time to develop than those civilizations that arose in Europe and elsewhere. -They will eventually develop to the standards of Western culture and beyond. So it’s not some inherent, genetic inferiority or some cultural problem. (“Guns, Germs and Steel” by Jared Diamond) Women have vaginas and Men have penises… a) it’s a scientific fact. b) it’s not always the case. The idea of penises, vaginas, men and women are abstract categories created beyond and outside of empirical science. Logic is… a) what reveals truth. b) a rationalization mechanism co-opted by the ego-mind for the purposes of your survival. The Constitution must be… a) followed because it’s the Constitution. b) updated. It was written over 230 years ago and contains outdated ideas which need to fit with modern times, otherwise the nation will stagnate and perhaps even collapse. I can't get laid because… a) I don't have a square jaw and a big dick. b) I don't understand female attraction, have cripplingly low self-esteem and don't socialize. -If you've never seriously tried to fix yourself how can you know your dick and jaw size are holding you back instead of self-esteem issues, fear of socializing and ignorance about female attraction? Feminism is… a) the reason I can't get laid. b) a scapegoat you invented because of your unwillingness to take responsibility for your results. People think Jordan Peterson is a fascist because… a) his haters are snowflake SJWs who are threatened by manly greatness!! Hail ?!! b) his detractors are attached to the Progressive worldview. They don’t look at his work with nuance because they misunderstand the Conservative mind and feel attacked by stage blue. -Remember, how would you know the difference? Really try on all options here. Stay meta. Person X is a… a) lying hypocrite grifter. b) is just weak. Like all of us are. He failed up to live up to his own ideals and has been corrupted by money. Slavery is… a) evil. b) only evil relative to today's cultural norms and level of development. -Remember, how would you know the difference? Really try on all options here. Walls are… a) real, because I can't walk through them, which proves their reality. b) might be real, or I could be imagining walls that can't be walked through. The number of stars and galaxies in the universe means that… a) life is very common. b) life is extremely rare. -See how significantly different that interpretation is. It just flips the whole thing on its head. If the paranormal was real… a) science would say so, but science doesn’t so it can't be real. b) science would discredit the studies and outcast any scientist who dares to prove it. God… a) will punish you for your sins. b) will not punish you for your sins. c) will love your sins as much as your goodness. However, sins naturally produce their own suffering by disconnecting you from loving consciousness. e) sinning against another is just you punishing yourself. Stage green socialism is… a) dangerous. b) being conflated with stage red and blue communism, which are not the same things at all. Government regulation is… a) socialism. b) necessary for the harmonious balance of a society. You can’t have a government without regulations. Taxation is… a) theft b) makes the military, the courts, infrastructure and many other things you enjoy in a democracy possible. Democrats want illegal immigration because… a) it gives them more voters. b) Democrats are more compassionate and less fearful because they actually care about the suffering of immigrants and don’t think it will destroy the country. -To most Conservatives that interpretation doesn't even enter into their mind. When you can't compute that possibility the only alternative is to come up with some idea that Democrats are doing it for their own selfish gain. Communism was a… a) failure b) success that led to the greatest growth in living standards in the 20th century both in Russia and in China. -If you actually look at the GDP growth and rise in living standards percentage-wise in Russia and China over the last century, it rose way more than in non-communist countries. Leo’s not saying communism is good. There are many problems with communism. He’s just showing how these interpretations are much trickier than they seem. Guru X… a) is a rapist and an abuser. b) had consensual sex with a bunch of groupies and one of the groupies got mad because the guru wouldn’t marry her. c) took advantage of his role as a teacher and confidant and used that to abuse and coerce girls who wouldn’t otherwise date him. -This is a very common problem in spiritual communities. Guru X is a rapist therefore… a) he cannot be enlightened. b) he could still be enlightened because who says enlightened people can’t be rapists? -Remember, how would you know the difference? Really try on all options here. People voted for Trump because… a) they were racist. b) he appealed to their spiral dynamic stage blue and orange value set, which is the majority of the US. The miracles of Jesus…? a) are myths and exaggerated fairytales to tell to children. b) are real because Jesus was so exceptionally conscious that he actually had those powers. Disputes between spiritual teachers… a) are just differences in word and style, not in substance. They’re basically word games. b) are differences in underlying substance, and consciousness. Some teachers are actually more awake than others. c) are a blend of a) and b) -Remember, how would you know the difference? Really try on all options here. Stay meta. There is no proof of paranormal phenomena because… a) it's all bullshit. b) the methods of proof you're using are too limited for measuring paranormal phenomena. After all, your method determines what you're going to get back. I’m bad with women because… a) I'm short. b) I’m insecure about being short. -You might spend your entire life thinking you're bad with women because of something you can’t change (your height) when the true cause is something you can change (your insecurity). One of the best guys Leo knew from pickup was a 5’5 Pakistani guy. He would crush it. He would do better than a six foot tall white guy. At the club he was one of the most secure, brash and confident guys, the exact opposite of insecure, and his results reflected that. Examples from Leo’s Life Leo said something in a video that I also said, which means… a) he stole my work and didn't give me credit for it. b) that people can develop insights independently and still overlap with other people’s insights. Not all ideas have one origin point. c) deep universal truths can be discovered by many people. d) he totally stole from you, and got away with it too!! The backdrop of Leo’s apartment means… a) Leo’s purposely sending secret Illuminati messages to his followers who 100% carry out his every command (unless those commands include mediating, exercising, reading or delousing the clutter in their mind) b) Leo’s bad at decorating his apartment. The symbol of 666 is… a) deeply significant. b) completely meaningless. c) the molar mass of the high-temperature superconductor YBa2Cu3O7, which makes it satanic. Youtube/Influencer fame is… a) the most profound and fulfilling experience a human soul can have. b) a stream of babes and compliments, with maybe one troll every five years. c) a nonstop flood of people projecting their egos at you. -Leo has experienced constant projection on a daily basis for the past decade. It’s especially difficult because he stays open to feedback and valid constructive criticism. However, it’s difficult to distinguish that from people’s projections. It underscores how everyone is projecting all the time and of course Leo does it to others too. When you experience other people’s projections so strongly it makes you more aware of your own projections. (It also shows fame ain’t all it’s cracked up to be) Youtube’s spam filter is… a) proof it’s part of a globalist conspiracy to suppress free speech. b) trying to counteract bots and spammers that would make websites like youtube unrunnable. Leo filters out comments based on…. a) opinions he disagrees with. Critiques of his work. b) slander, racism, extreme vulgarity, disinformation, conspiracy theories, spam, and so on. Leo’s work is… a) a copy of other spiritual traditions and presented as his own truth. b) a result of discovering these insights independently on his own. c) triggering to people who are attached to their particular lineage or guru as the source of truth. d) fun to play in the background while you’re cooking. -If that original yogi or mystic could discover the truth for himself, why can’t other people discover the truth for themselves too? Leo doesn't want to debate others because… a) he’s afraid of being exposed as a fraud. b) he has become too conscious to be interested in debating anyone. c) he’d rather spend that time making videos for us ?! Leo denies he is leading a cult because… a) he isn’t leading a cult. b) denying you're a cult leader is exactly what a cult leader would do, which proves Leo’s leading a cult! -That’s circular logic. I can play this game on you. I can call you a cult leader and as soon as you deny it I'll say, “Ah ha! According to your logic if you deny your cult leader that's exactly what makes you a cult leader!” (Speaking of which, Kanye West says his greatest accomplishment is that he is the greatest) That spiritual teacher… a) worked really hard to become enlightened. b) didn't have to work that hard because he was born with exceptional spiritual talent. Leo didn't respond to my email (or my awesome LoA question ) because… a) he doesn't like me . b) he didn’t see my email. He gets tons of them -Using the Spiral Dynamics model… Trump is… a) stage orange with a bit of red. b) stage red with a veneer of orange. Jordan Peterson is… a) stage yellow with a green shadow. b) stage orange with some yellow capacities. -Spiral dynamics has very interesting interpretive problems because it also suffers from the underdetermination problem. (ep: Spiral Dynamics) It takes a lot of experience, study and application of spiral dynamics to be able to start to distinguish between these things. Even the developers of spiral dynamics suffer from this problem. Don Beck and Ken Wilber… a) are right about pushing towards stage yellow because we’ve already exhausted stage green. b) are seriously overestimating how evolved politics and culture are. -In the US, green is only prevalent in advanced universities. The majority of society is still in blue and orange, even in developed countries. We've got to move through green for many years before we can get to yellow. We don't even have a green economic or political system. Spider Dynamics is an interpretation that you're projecting onto reality. It can be difficult to know which interpretation to apply, which one is more accurate. Clip: Spiral Dynamics (11 min) People who believe in ufos… a) are idiots. b) aren’t necessarily idiots. Scientists and skeptics are simply too close-minded. c) watched too much X-Files growing up. d) are right. UFOs are hidden because there’s a conspiracy! e) are right. UFOs are hidden because the government and people studying them can’t explain them properly. It doesn't fit their worldview. All spiritual teachings… a) are just different paths up the same mountaintop, leading to the same peak. b) are not different paths leading to the same peak. There are lower and higher places along the mountain and it's not a single mountain. It's a mountain range with many different peaks and not all paths lead to the same peak. In a relationship, you could say… a) your partner is the problem. b) you are actually the problem. c) the two of you are not a good fit. d) one or both of you is wrong and evil. All men… a) are shallow cheating pigs. b) aren’t shallow cheating pigs. You just end up with pigs because of your low self-esteem problems. The existence of evil in the world means… a) God is not good. b) God cannot exist because he wouldn't create evil. c) that “evil” is just an illusion created by your selfish biases. You don't see the world’s perfection because your vision isn't perfect. Consciousness is… a) impossible to know. b) possible to know because you are consciousness and consciousness is infinite, but you don't understand that yet because you haven't become conscious of it. Leo is… a) wrong, because he hasn't considered whatever point I want him to consider. b) maybe right. Maybe Leo has already taken that point into account and seen beyond it to points you have yet to consider. c) not perfect, but his epistemology is better than most people's epistemologies. He’s spent decades doing the work. Can the same be said for you? -The notion of raw facts is a naive myth. Your mind does so much interpretation and confirmation bias that your relationship to reality is less than one percent. Your interpretations are are deeply distorted by your survival needs and insecurities. -Key point: Notice your interpretations. Even deeper, notice yourself denying that your interpretation is an interpretation. How are you trying to retcon your interpretations as fact or science or “just the way it is”? Also notice how rash and unconscious interpretations lead to self-deception and misunderstanding the world. -Be aware that most knowledge, opinions and reporting you see in culture and media is actually an interpretation, but you’re not treating it as such. You unconsciously swallow culture and media and their implicit frames which leads to deep self-deception in your life. -The meta point here is notice all possible interpretations of a situation, rather than looking for the “right one” and defending it. Tips for Application 1) There’s always dozens of interpretations. If you can only see one or two, you’re being epistemically irresponsible. That's your clue you're not being mentally flexible and curious enough, that you’re just fooling yourself. 2) Realize that your first interpretation is usually the worst. The more contemplation you do of epistemology and metaphysics, the better your interpretations will get. Overcome your self-deceptions. Notice the ego games and the blaming in your mind (ep: Self-Deception I). 3) Get in the habit of looking for alternative interpretations. Make it a little game you play with yourself. This requires exploring multiple perspectives with an open-mind, without bias. 4) Seek more nuanced, high quality interpretations. The examples above have both crude and nuanced interpretations. Notice the differences between them. 5) Generate novel interpretations for all sorts of situations. For your relationships, your children, love life, sexuality, views about men, women, the government, and so forth. 6) Reinterpret your own self. You have tons of negative interpretations of your capacities that you consider facts. How compassionate and empowering are your interpretations about yourself? 7) Seek more charitable and loving interpretations. Some interpretations are very fear-based, us versus them, tribalistic and polarizing. Other interpretations are more compassionate, more inclusive. Steel man other interpretations instead of straw manning them. 8) Seek interpretations that understand and can accommodate other perspectives. 9) Question and discard fear-based interpretations. 10) Question and discard toxic, disempowering interpretations and victim mentality. When you start to interpret yourself as a victim it becomes your reality. Notice how conspiracy theories and incel ideology use fear, hatred and judgment to make you feel like you're being empowered by the theory, but you’re actually not. Their epistemology is very poor. How is interpretation different from Recontextualization? It's a difference of degree. (ep: Recontextualization). Recontextualizations are pretty rare, happening maybe once a month or once a year. Interpretation is similar, but happening on a much more fine grained level. Interpretations are always going on in your mind. Be careful about how you interpret these teachings There can be double, triple meanings to the words Leo uses. Also, the more advanced a teaching is, the easier it is to misinterpret. Leo’s concept of, say, ego death isn’t the same as your concept of ego death in your mind. Leo’s 3 hr episode about Relative truth means… a) Life is subjective, relative and full of interpretation, therefore Absolute truth does not exist. b) misunderstanding Relative truth causes a lot of suffering, and it co-exists with Absolute truth ?! What you think he said might be the opposite of what he actually intended to say. So be very careful when listening to these videos. -Epistemology is at the core of all of your problems in life. When you don’t take that seriously you misinterpret everything, everywhere. The finite thing you believe you are is itself a gross misinterpretation of what you actually are. -The real work is correcting the misinterpretations in your mind. Fixing your epistemology fixes the foundation for your life. The sturdier the foundation, the higher you can build your skyscraper.
  22. (Here's all of Leo's recordings from the blog. I'll update as more come up. Enjoy !!) Actualized.org Blog Videos: Society & Politics [] Inside The Mind Of Trump [] My Political Awakening [] Rethinking Human History [] My Critique Of Zizek's Critique Of Buddhism [] The Big Picture Of Global Politics [] Why The Media Is Corrupt [] Why Bernie Sanders Lost [] Deconstructing Property Rights [] Conscious Capitalism BS [] Life Lessons From "Life Below Zero" Epistemology [] Why Are My Videos So Long? [] Metaphysics vs Epistemology [] Understanding Better Than Academics [] Changing Perspectives Destroys Reality [] All Understanding Is Metaphoric [] All Understanding Is Metaphoric - Part 2 [] Skepticism & Nonduality [] How To Test For Self-Bias [] Learning From Partially False Perspectives [] Sherlock Holmes' Brain [] Why Debates Don't Work Enlightenment [] Absolute Infinity Demo [] Explaining God For Dummies [] Total Omniscience Awakening [] Infinite Love Awakening [] Ego-Collapse Awakening [] Tapping Into Collective Consciousness [] Miracle Awakening [] Sense Organs Are Imaginary [] DPT: The Other God Molecule [] What It's Like To Smoke Salvia Divinorum Life Purpose [] Why Get Rich Quick Schemes Don't Work [] How I Started My First Business [] Requisite Variety & Creative Laziness [] Guerilla Business Advice Health [] Don't Half-Ass Yoga [] Sitting Posture For Yoga & Meditation Leo’s Health & Life [] Do I Doubt Myself? [] My Health Situation [] Back From 2 Month Break, Updates [] 14 Day Water Fast [] Water Fast Ends, Carnivore Diet Begins [] Things I’ve Been Wrong About [] Fat Leo (I had to add this because it’s adorable) Retreats [] Solo Retreat Videos & Insights [] Hawaii Solo Retreat Feb 2018 Videos [] Mindfucked In Hawaii [] Hawaii Retreat Intro [] Hawaii Late Night Insights [] May 2018 Solo Retreat - Part 1 [] May 2018 Solo Retreat - Part 2 [] May 2018 Solo Retreat - Part 3
  23. I use plain old Adobe Acrobat Reader DC, the free one. When you're done highlighting, press the save button. Ctrl + S, or the button in the top left corner, looks like: ? A "Save As" window will pop up that asks you where you want the file to be saved, and then what you want to name it. If you keep the name of the file the same, you'll be asked if you want to replace your old file. You're basically making a new pdf file. Pdfs don't save the way doc files do, unfortunately.