Majed

Quite an interesting spiritual path.

No, that's just reality. You can't get dozens of approaches in whatever club. You need the best ones.

@Monster Energy Become like Trump 😝.

In the domain of attraction obviously you won't attract a girl with logical statements, lmao. Women are emotional creatures, just like men are too, but even more women because of evolutionary features. Like women have to nurture children, etc... Which makes them more emotional. And men more rational, even though most men are highly irrational fools as well. That's the paradox.

Yeah most people are dumb. And our culture doesn't help much with changing that.

I mean i think Islam exists for a reason. Which is that for most of human history and still today people operates on magical thinking, think of people who lived in tribes and such. That's just human nature, to believe in supernatural irrational phenomenon. Humans aren't rational animals, they're highly irrational. That's just how our species is. Very few individuals have truth and rationality as a priority. That's not how our species operates.

Lebanon is very different from Afghanistan.

I mean the issue is that if you're struggling to make money then moving to the west is even more challenging. It's like a vicious cycle, where it's difficult to make money in your country, and because of that it's difficult to quit your country lmao.

Women who wear burkas are a minority in my country.

@Monster Energy I come from a muslim family, but i don't believe or practice Islam.

@Olaf It's not that bad like we have clubs and bars, what's really difficult though is making money.

@Olaf Not all women wear burkas in my country. Lol.

@Monster Energy Yeah you're supposed to wait until marriage. Even though i suppose less and less people follow these stifling rules these days.

@Olaf It's hard to find experienced wing men in a place like the middle east lmao.

@Olaf Plus during the day i have a job, it can't just go and do pick up lmao.

@Olaf Day game is way less effective than night game.

@Olaf How many approaches in total have you done in your life thus far?

@Olaf Yeah there aren't many places though where there are a lot of bars where you can go and hit on chicks, i used to go to one street often, but over time it starts getting weird as you get noticed and stuff.

@Olaf i am in beirut.

@Olaf The problem is that you'll look like a weirdo who hit on every girl. For pick up to work you have to be anonymous and discreet, that's why pick up tend to be done in high volume clubs where there are hundreds of people, and no one will notice you.

@Olaf yeah that can also work, but it ain't enjoyable lmao. I used to do this a lot. But it ain't a good strategy because you'll start getting noticed if you do this often like every week.

@Olaf The bottom line is that you need a high volume of approaches per week to make pick up work, plus you need to get into a flow state. Day game is fine in addition to night game. However night game at high volume clubs is where you really learn. In bars it's difficult to approach girls because bars tend to be small so you'll get noticed easily. For game to work in bars you have to go every night to a bar and approach a few women there, which requires more money than going to a high volume club once a week and approaching a lot of women there.

@Olaf Tonight i am not going out, there are no interesting parties in my city besides friday and saturday nights. Plus i am struggling to lose weight i keep gorging on sugar lmao. I want to find a job either a new one or work more hours in my current one to make more money for pick up and dating.

@Olaf Dude you can't just go to any club expecting dozens of hot girls there. You have to go to the best clubs.

@Olaf For pick up you have to go to the best clubs if not the best club in your city, of course with a dancefloor. It doesn't work in any club.