Majed

"Being Italian is a trait—a character—that a person possesses. Italian culture, along with its soul and identity, is not confined to its geography, even though it is centered there. An Italian could go to Mars, yet they would remain Italian. Because this is their character, their worldview, their way of life, their culture—their very soul is Italian." I wrote this about my view of italian identity. But it applies to all ethnic identities. We cannot deny the existence of ethnic groups, and the character of a people. It's real.

@Nemra Careful. Every ethnic identity has a life of its own. Patterns within consciousness.

@something_else We should ban the topic of spiral dynamics from this forum 😝.

People who tell you to not approach women are dumb. Women are attracted to confidence same way men are attracted to beauty. If you tell men to not approach, then women shouldn't wear sexy clothes and make up. That's called Afghanistan. Go live there, if you want.

I was thinking about this topic, and i realized that when most people talk about racism, what they're really talking about is character/persona. For example if you don't like mexicans, it isn't their ethnicity that you dislike, but their character/persona. There are a mexican character/persona. Now not all ethnically mexican people will have a purely mexican character, some mexicans have a more pronounced american character if they live in america for example. Which is why a lot of what we call racists tell you that they aren't racist because they have a friend from the ethnicity they are talking about. Which is correct, what they dislike isn't the ethnicity but the character/persona. Now most people's characters and personas are a unique mixture of their nationality, ethnicity, subculture, religion, skin color, passions, sexual orientation, life orientation whether they are materialistic or spiritual, social class, education level, intellectual abilities, etc... Same with homophobia, homophobes do not dislike gays per se, they dislike the gay character/persona. Which is different. People are comfortable with people who have similar character/persona to them. Which is why a lot of women like gay men, because they both have feminine characters/personas. I think this is a really deep topic, and very interesting.

You guys are really going to sleep on this banger that i wrote? @Olaf @Sincerity @Inliytened1 @LordFall And the others.... What do yall think ?

You want to get mindfucked about appearance ? Here we go: Appearance isn't purely genetic, it's largely in your control. Think of it in this way: any hot girl, if she becomes obese, stop putting on makeup, dressing well, eye lenses, mascara, perfume, etc... She loses her hotness. Same with guys, any guy that becomes obese loses his good looks. Now any guy who work on his physique, dresses well, put on perfume, have a nice haircut, etc... becomes automatically better looking. Now this is just looks, but attraction isn't just looks as it is a combination of multiple things that you can all develop and work on. The bottom line is nobody is stopping you from becoming a hot shot that the opposit sex dreams off if you work on yourself.

@Natasha Tori Maru It's an ego trip.

@Natasha Tori Maru I think it's the opposite of conformity. Conformity is having a normal relationship.

@Natasha Tori Maru Consciousness changing. Becoming more of itself.

@Natasha Tori Maru Sure. Yeah, i don't know your background, i was making an assumption based on your speech. That's it.

Both. Enlightenment is something someone acquires because there's an ontological shift in consciousness. Consciousness is ontological, when increased, reality changes.

@Natasha Tori Maru Good then. Thanks for correcting me.

@cjoseph90 As an autosexual, i was born with him. 😝

@Natasha Tori Maru Relax shawty, just acted on instinct and told you what came to mind. Don't take it personal.

@Natasha Tori Maru You're clearly privileged for not seeing the beauty of making it out the hood. Lmao there's a reason why everyone talks about this stuff. It's real.

@Olaf Most girls i talk to are fairly low intelligence by in large. Same with guys. So if you're intelligent, which is quite common on this forum, then finding a girl that is intelligent in real life, is hugely attractive and perfect for long term compatiblity. It almost equals looks in importance. But the thing is intelligence is only attractive to intelligence, because like recognize like. Any fool can see beauty, only a wise man can see a woman rich in soul and wisdom.

@Natasha Tori Maru Yeah using a woman as as a status symbol and prestige is quite something interesting. Because if you haven't had the trauma of lack, you wouldn't appreciate the luxury of excess. You know like you cannot flex on someone who has more or like you. You can only flex on people who have less than you. And making it out of lack, is fucking beautiful. So i wouldn't say using women's attractiveness for prestige or status is inherently wrong. It can be legitimate and a sign of success over one's miserable start in life.

@enchanted There are two ways to enlightenment: either take a psychedelic and you'll know the real deal. OR lose your mental health, and then regain it after some months or years. And you're baseline normal mental health would feel better than a mystical experience/psychedelic trip. If you were born in normal life, without having experienced heaven or hell, then it's normal life, after experiencing hell, it gets recontextualized as heaven. However i wouldn't say i am grateful for having experienced hell nonetheless overall. Because anyone who says they're grateful for hell, don't know real hell.

@Olaf Yeah, but still looks has a magically seductive effect. On me at least. I don't know i tend to associate beautiful looking women subconsciously, with making it out of poverty into a luxurious lifestyle. The thing with people at the bottom of the richness hierarchy, is that they all dream of being at the top, so if you're near the bottom, they will contaminate you on a subconscious level with this dream. Also most people at the bottom do not have access to hot girls, because you need money for hot girls, obviously enough. Like imagine being in rural ethiopia or something, like afghanistan, fuck there are no hot women there, lmao.

Wealth building and money is all about mindset and psychology. Forget about jesus or allah. Your God is money. That's what you worship. You do anything and everything that is required to earn that money. Legally of course. But you work on yourself, fix every issue you have, develop strong work ethic and vision, and work your ass off to earn that cash.

@Ulax Btw i don't think a man should worry about getting laid before he has certain things in place. Like being decently fit, and having a source of income. Like i have to worry about making a living, and being less dependent of my parents, before worrying about banging the hottest girls. There's sort of a hierarchy to this stuff.

@Ulax Bro i made out with 10 girls in one night. Twice! Tf are you talking about. Truth is, i sort of know now what to do to get girls, i was too much of a pick up sheep in the past, but now i think i should strive for building rapport first with a girl through text messages or whatever, before asking her out on a date. Because if a girl has invested time and energy into you, she cares about you, she's more likely to go on a date with you. Plus text messages are kinda low investment compared to a date, i lost many girls due to this, i could've otherwise kept talking to, and probably seeing and fucking.

@Leo Gura Btw i think most incels can become fuckboys if they go out more for fuck sake. Lmao.

@Leo Gura Btw i think you mean, by top 5% in terms of sexual abundance. Because if most of the SA is done by these men then really they're just animals, not very developed or mature. Part of being a solid conscious man, is to relinquish extreme hedonistic pursuits, because they are toxic, unsustainable and also when the mind is subtle and complex, it understands stuff beyond gross conquests.