Majed

Rape exist because a lot of men are sexless. The solution is to change our cultural definition of sex to make it about love and connection. There's artistic sex as well as spiritual sex. When you're connecting with a piece of art (music, film, literature...) on a deep level that's sex, it's love, connection and passion. When you're meditating or contemplating God, and having breakthroughs and existential insights, that's sex on a deeper level too. Go have sex with life, art and God. That's the best sex possible. Sex with other people is fine too. Even just on a physical level masturbation, pornography are forms of sex. Whatever is based on love, connection and can lead to orgasm is sex, be it physical, artistic, mystical...

Think about it, we tend to think of relationships as this beautiful conscious thing but really is it ? Most relationship are pretty dysfunctional and immature where there's violence, screaming, hatred, insults, sexually criminal behavior on the extreme end of the spectrum, etc... Most relationships are garbage and don't last very long, romantic ones. People are using each other for sex or love. And really it's chimp behavior. Such a waste of time. Even i've been reflecting on sex lately and realized that i can have sex once in a while, but i'm not going out of my way to get laid. Celibacy is the way for me, mostly as i am an introvert and enjoy my own company as well as connecting with God, the source of all wisdom. I'm a virgin but i already see the dangers of toxic abusive relationships, wasting time in a sex addicted lifestyle, and how relationships in general are a distration from raising one's awareness, and an attachment which prevents one's mind from being totally unlimited and infinitely truthful. I don't need to relate to apes, i want to relate with God, the source of life, and life itself.

@Leo Gura Nice lol.

@Leo Gura That's how pick up felt in my experience. One big huge ego trip.

@Leo Gura Then what do they care about ?

I think religion is subject to interpretation. Most muslims interpret their religion in a relatively acceptable peaceful way. However you can interpret islam in a toxic violent way, the doctrine allows you to do that. Therefore isis. Ta daaaaa.

https://www.instagram.com/p/De9qFeNlyag/?srtk=MTdocmhwM3ZqODBqZA== Isis are men standing for their beliefs. They are true muslims. Either stand for your beliefs or drop them. If you believe infidels are going to burn in hell for eternity. Go start a holy war in the name of Allah, and kill every one of them. Or drop this toxic belief system.

@Natasha Tori Maru My pleasure

@Natasha Tori Maru Yes i agree.

@Natasha Tori Maru I feel like a lot of rape is fuled by artificial cultural expectations and demands about losing one's virginity or having a high body count, or that having sex means you're successful and cool, etc... If we eliminate this immature notion of sex, to incorporate it in a broader notion of love and connection, which could be artistic and spirtual, not just purely physical, a lot of rape would automatically stop, because people would stop feeling the shame around not getting this toxic version of sex society has invented.

@Natasha Tori Maru I am arguing for a change in worldview. Similar to how homosexuality wasn't a thing for most of history, and still most of the world today. The idea that your sexual attraction defines your identity is relatively recent. In many worldviews, like for example in a christian worldview, homosexuality is not a person but an act, and specifically a sin. It's like all humans are tempted towards sin, some towards some sins more than other sins, and others towards other forms of sins. But homosexuality wasn't understood to be a person's identity. Similarly sex IS a social construct today. The idea that you need another person to have sex or orgasm is a construct and is false. Which is why i listed other forms of love and connections like artistic or spiritual ones. If we erase the notion of sex altogether and replace it with love and connection we would be better as a society.

@Natasha Tori Maru I definitely agree. I think it also has to do with dark tetrad personality types which are prone to commiting such acts.

@Olaf You should go and try it 😋. Do it for science.

@Olaf Hehehehehe that just proves my point. Most rapists and murderers don't think of themselves as such. Which is why understanding the logic, mechanics and reasons behind such acts is crucial to not become one yourself.

@Olaf You didn't explain the perspective of rapists, which just prove my point. I feel those who declare the most to not be rapists are the most prone to committing rape paradoxically. Why do you get so outraged if that wasn't the case? If you weren't the most prone to rape, you would feel chill and detached and able to discuss it without much friction.

@Natasha Tori Maru I feel like you're choosing to be blind. Rape is a serious issue. And your childish moralizing won't change the seriousness of it.

@Olaf Then oh wise guru, explain why rapists exist, and their perspective. Go ahead i am waiting.

@Natasha Tori Maru You girls have no idea how many men commit suicide because they aren't getting sex.

@Natasha Tori Maru I am trying to lay out the mechanics of how this works, that's all. I am interested in pure understanding, not moralizing.

@Natasha Tori Maru Well rape which is sexual violence is a form of violence. Sometimes violence is understandable if you're in a difficult situation. It's like if you're starving should you steal? Well, it's easy to say stealing is bad, if you aren't in a situation where you're starving.

@Natasha Tori Maru Well it's like if you aren't getting laid for years and decades, rape might start to become an appealing option, obviously. The dating market is kind of brutal. You have many models: The traditional model: telling you you should just have sex with your wife for the rest of your life. The redpill model: telling you you should have a Bugatti in order to get laid. The pick up model: you need thousands of hours of practice to pull girls consistently. At some point some men are lost and it's understandable.

@something_else exerting power isn't as fundamental as sex drive.

Every country is a person. With its own personality (culture), consciousness/life (the members of the country who embody the country's psyche), organs (cities), tongue (language), taste (cuisine), soul (art), and past (history). Traveling to a new country, is like meeting a new person. Developing a relationship with a country, is developing a relationship with a new person. And letting the country connect with you on a deeper level and changing you, is having sex with this person. That's how i feel in regards to italy at least.

@r0ckyreed Religion is a framework in which happens infinite interpretations of reality.

@Leo Gura Bias against mainstream religion. I feel like you misunderstand religious people's perspective.