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Last time when i performed at an open mic. At the end an attractive girl looked at me, smiled and was attracted. Another approached me, telling me that my lyrics were good. The first girl, i didn't approach though, because i wasn't looking for dating opportunities i was more looking to do my rap. And the second girl wasn't that attractive. But i can see that if i continue doing open mics, i could potentially get girls by socializing there and approaching women who are attracted to me after finishing my performance. However the thing with open mics is that they require a lot of preparations to do and are kind of an indirect way to get laid. ‎Cold approaching girls is like begging for money. Yes you can get money that way, but there are more elegant and refined ways to do it. The best approach to get laid is to leverage your dream, aspiration and purpose, turn youself into a high status, recognized person, and get laid from fans of your body of work. ‎Picking up girls work well espicially in large venues like clubs, where people are drinking, dancing and having fun. Girls are more open to being hit on, and having one night stands. ‎You can combine both short term pick up game at clubs, and long term status/fame game with your career.

@MaxBlume Bro you need a real money making strategy, which requires skill, talent, passion, etc... Not some get rich quick scheme gimmick.

@Rishabh R Dude i've done over 2700 approaches by now lmao.

@AION It definitely feels like begging though, since most girls you hit on reject you. Lmao.

@Olaf Being told you're sweet is definitely a compliment. Plus if a girl has a boyfriend just move on, don't be so desperate.

@LordFall Picking up girls is like begging for money. Yes you can get money that way, but there are more elegant and refined ways to do it. The best approach to get laid is to leverage your dream, aspiration and purpose, turn youself into a high status, recognized person, and get laid from fans of your work. Picking up girls work well espicially in large venues like clubs, where people are drinking, dancing and having fun. Girls are more open to being hit on, and taken home if there's attraction. You can combine both short term pick up game at clubs, and long term status/fame game with your career.

@LordFall I think the best way for me to get laid heavily is to become famous through my rap career. However i need to build a stable source of income to build my rap career. Which will take a few years.

@LordFall Do you have any book recommendations on how to fuel your dating life with status based game ?

@MaxBlume Yeah man, making money is difficult, i, myself am struggling with figuring it out. Good luck though. But i don't think ai onlyfans is the way though or that it is ethical.

@AION The thing with social circles is that they require constant lying and inauthenticity. You always have to be fake, to not chock or disagree with anybody. That's how you stay cool. The thing is it is unfulfilling, so why do it at all ? Last year, in my institute where i was learning, they asked me what was my religion, i said i'm not religious, and everyone ostracized me for it for the whole year lmao, i didn't form one solid friendship from that year.

@LordFall Last time when i performed at an open mic. At the end an attractive girl looked at me, smiled and was attracted. Another approached me, telling me that my lyrics were good. The first girl, i didn't approach though, because i wasn't looking for dating opportunities i was more looking to do my rap. And the second girl wasn't that attractive. But i can see that if i continue doing open mics, i could potentially get girls by socializing there and approaching women who are attracted to me after finishing my performance. However the thing with open mics is that they require a lot of preparations to do and are kind of an indirect way to get laid.

@MaxBlume Why don't you invest money, time and energy in something you're talented at instead ?

@LordFall Dude if you haven't done pick up seriously like i did, you don't understand how exhausting it is. To add maintaining a social circle on top of that, is a losing strategy in terms of time and energy. Plus it is difficult to get laid from social circle, like you can have a group of friends, let's say 10 or 15, how many attractive women are there going to be, not much. For social circle to work you have to have an enormous social circle, which you cannot create without massive time, energy and money.

@Emerald That's a joke. Pick up in of itself is a massive investment in time and energy. If you add maintaining a social circle, that would be a disaster in terms of your ability to handle all of that in terms of time and energy.

@Schizophonia Saying incels aren't more likely to rape is like saying poor people aren't more likely to steal.

I realized that my financial problems were because of me not taking responsibility to develop marketable skills and sell them for money, as well as learning how to generate passive income and investing... All the things related to money. But then i noticed that i just find this area of life boring. Don't get me wrong, I like having money, but I find the process of generating money boring. On the contrary other areas of life like dating, mating, approaching women, etc... I find it very enjoyable. I guess got to do what you got to do to earn that money and become financially successful. To be honest even other areas in life I find them boring like eating healthy and going to the gym. Or serious meditation and contemplation, for example. Even though I enjoyed contemplating for hours on mdma when I took it. Or even reading, I enjoy watching videos on YouTube, but reading i find it difficult. I also enjoy making rap music. I guess now the priority is to make money, so I am going to focus on that for a while.

The thing in life is that it is about balance. Eliminate the things which are completely unnecessary, like dogmatic religion, which is complete nonsense, or even spirituality if you're young and don't have your career together yet, also if you're socially, romantically, and sexually inexperienced. Spirituality like meditation shouldn't be your focus in this period of your life. Also, exercise isn't necessary as long as your diet is healthy overall, you can be fit without needing to exercise. Also having a family is a total scam on many levels, it triples or quadruples your struggle for survival. Now my goal is to find a job, a normal 9 to 5, I don't have college degrees or anything like that yet. To be able to pursue improving my sex life, and lose my virginity, as well as invest into my pursuit of rap music, I want to make a home studio and start publishing higher quality content around my rap music, and see where it's going to take me. I did my first performance on stage in front of an audience, couple of days ago at an open mic, and I enjoyed it a lot. I'm also thinking in majoring in university around a year from now, in something I am interested in, like Italian literature. I will have to do it online though because i am in Lebanon.

Alright I want to think deeply about the counter-intuitiveness of life. And in the different areas that requires success. In attraction: Focusing on dating in general and being good with women in general, rather than on attracting a single girl. This is counter-intuitive because most people think of this problem too shallowly like I need a girlfriend, but what I found out is that by exposing yourself to massive experience with a lot of women, you end up getting the best results in terms of your dating life. In marriage and procreation: What I found out is that marriage and the raising of children is pure conformity. Rationally speaking, from an individual's perspective, it doesn't make any sense. There are so many problems with marriage and raising a family. First of all, sexual scarcity and frustration, due to not being able to date and sleep with anyone other than your partner for the rest of your life. Which is why cheating becomes very common. Second of all marriage and raising a family with children, puts you extremely deep in survival mode, where you have to spend decades providing for your family, from baby diapers to school and university, etc... It is a huge commitment not to take lightly, in terms of time, energy and money, which you'll have less for yourself to be able to raise a family, which makes it very much a negative overall. With religion: Most people think they should be more religious, whereas the counter-intuitive move would be to be less religious. In happiness: Many people think money is the key to happiness. Whereas the wise person understands that it's all a balance, you need to make a decent amount of money to live comfortably, as well as have the time for other areas of life, like self-exploration and actualization, spirituality, socialization, and just time to relax and enjoy life. With career: Most people think of work as a way to pay the bills, whereas the counter-intuitive move would be to pursue success in a field you're passionate about. With productivity: Rather than filling your days with endless work and tasks. The counter-intuitive move would be to disperse your goals on different phases in your life, where you focus on socialization for a while, then on your career, then on psychedelics exploration, etc...

@Lyubov Dude the only thing I like doing is rapping lmao.

@Monster Energy That's ridiculously foolish. You can be polyamorous if you want, however how are children going to be raised and how are we going to organize society, if you start having sex with your sister, your teacher, and a homeless girl on the street. Be aware that those restraints exist for a reason, you're foolish my friend. Good luck with avoiding sexually transmitted diseases too. Lmao, what you're typing is beyond ridiculous.

@Mixcoatl Dude girls don't care about your money situation, if they talk about it, it means they aren't attracted to you. Plus you shouldn't give up on getting laid, most girls you'll pick up from the club to your place won't know how much money you have.

@LordFall Pretty well! I linked my performance above.

Guys i'm performing tomorrow as a rapper for an open mic at tilt Hamra in Beirut, wish me good luck, it's my first time performing for an audience

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DdPaSQyIl0-/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&stkn=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== This is my performance, enjoy .

@LordFall My rapper's name is thehousesoul.