Majed

Life is too easy when you have money, you can buy anyone with money. Here's a rule: people do not act altruistically, they act based on self interest. If you have money you can lure people in by appealing to their self interest, all the while giving them money, in exchange for what you want. If you're a women, you can appeal to men, by giving them your pussy. It's kinda unfair if you're a young man, you can't sell your pussy, and you don't have money, so the question becomes, how can you make people act in accordance to your self interest, when you have nothing that serves their self interest like money or pussy. All you have is ambition and testosterone, so you better get to work hard, otherwise you die. Because we're fundamentally a cokmunal and social species, we can't survive on our own, we need others and to get what you want from others you have to appeal to their self interest. Here's a rule: never tell to others you're a virgin if you're a virgin. People will use it against you, they won't sympathize but ridicule you, always lie about your body count, making it higher than it actually is. Nobody can know whether you're lying or you're legit, so might as well use that to your advantage. Here's another social rule: Never challenge people's worldviews. People value their worldviews more than they value their children. That's why it's foolish if you're parents are fundamentalist christians, jews, muslims, hindus... To tell them you're gay. They will disown you, or they will deny it. Never tell a religious person you're an atheist. And never tell an atheist, you're religious. You should be sort of a cameleon, that fits in in any context, without challenging people's perspectives, and making them uncomfortable. Your religion, politics and sexuality should always be congruent with the group you're a part of, otherwise they'll ostracise you. Here's another social rule: Be a challenge to people. Don't always reply instantly, compliment too much, or be always available. A high value person, is the opposite of that. You should give people bad comments in a playful way, do not become a bully. But you should master the art of being disagreeable and at the same time challenging. However without ever challenging people on a deep existential level, on topics like religion, politics or sexuality. When it comes to those topics always try to fit in with the established culture. However when it comes to availability, you shouldn't always be available. And you should challenge people, sort of teasing them, in a playful way, on superficial non important stuff, this will make you stand out. And this is why women fall for assholes, narcissists and psychopaths. Because they're challenging in a cool way, not a worldview challenging way. Another social rule: Do not critize that which people cherish deeply. If someone shares with you their favorite movie, or book. Always be respectful of it. And even go out of your way to consume it, and share your positive feedback about it. This will create a sentiment of intimacy with the other person. And it will be very beneficial in that the person will start connecting and relating to you on a deeper level, and you'll become closer with the person. Another social rule: Avoid toxic people. People who judge you based on your nationality or ethnicity. Those people are far too gone, to get them to like you. No amount of efforts will convince a nazi to like a jew. So might as well leave maintaining your dignity.

@Someone here it's a dog eat dog world.

@Lila9 lmao what did say that was misogynistic or sexist ? Dude just wanna have casual chemsex with a woman, that's it.

@TheGod you could find a girl into this stuff quite honestly and it isn't very difficult. Especially if you meet her at a party or a club, it becomes way too easy to find girls into drugs.

Guys i was studying rape and i got an insight which is that rape is just a form of anti social behavior. Like when the person doesn't develop normal socializations skills, they can lack the necessary empathy and awareness and rape someone. This kind of anti social behavior, can stem from trauma or brain disorder. like anti social personality disorder. And by trauma i mean something like your parents molesting you, which is very common. Imagine you're a little kid, and the people you trust the most molest and rape you, that's some serious trauma, right there. It will skew and shape your entire worldview, might develop some contempt for all of humanity, which can later lead to dehumanization of others, and a potential possibility of becoming a rape perpetrator yourself. Guys i want you to be very honest, what if you were born with a genetic disfiguration or something, and you were straight, yet no girl would sleep with you, because you were so outside of society's beauty standards. How would you deal with the situation, will rape sound like a rational decision then ? I am just showing you the complexities of the situation and why rape sometimes happen. It's very nuanced and complex and not as simple as a black and white rapist are evil kind of scenario. Rape has been a problem for hundreds of thousands of years yet we didn't solve it. Shows you there's something deeper going on than just "rapist are evil" kind of scenario.

@Leo Gura This is gold. Lmaoo

@Leo Gura Why do you think india isn't like japan or china, but is more backwards ?

@Leo Gura How is it not even considered wrong? Like what?

We're diving in the dark. I wanted to understand criminals, often times criminality is linked to mental illness, personality disorders, trauma, poverty... But i want a really deep dive into the psychology of crime. Like what makes a criminal a criminal. Feel free to share insightful videos and interviews with criminals, i'll start:

When you look around, everyone is in survival mode. No one care about philosophy, epistemology, exploring the mind, metaphysics... They're lost chasing money, success, sex, marriage, friendships, romantic relationships, studies, work, political ideologies, social justice, religion... But why no one is interested in existence itself, instead of their petty stupid human goals ?

@Leo Gura i kinda dropped socializing for now. Honestly i like solitude. Hanging with people is for stupid people. The sage wants to connect with God, the fool chooses poor substitutes like hanging with dumb people.

@Leo Gura I see, i have ocd and bipolar type 1, does that mean, girls will be more attracted to me when i'm in a manic episode, or something like that ? Because when you're mentally ill, you're unpredictable and exciting, if what you're saying is true.

@Leo Gura What's exciting about a psychopath ?

@Leo Gura why are women crazy for psychopaths ?

The paradox of tolerance, is that the more you tolerate other behaviors, the more you become risk tolerant yourself. Because if you tolerate something in others, you tolerate it in yourself as well. So if you tolerate rapists, you might become a rapist. If you tolerate drug addicts, you might become a drug addict. If you tolerate serial killers, you might become a serial killer. Because understanding someone's point of view, makes you more susceptible of taking the same actions they take yourself. That's why most people are so intolerant. That's why mainstream religion like islam or christianity are intolerant. Christians like to say God is love. But are you kidding me ? Do you understand what God is love means ? God is love means you tolerate murderers, rapists, tyrants, homosexuals, pedophiles , drug addicts, alcoholics... Everuthing you judge as evil, you must tolerate to understand that you are God, and that you are love: to understand what God is love means. And mainstream fake religion is notoriously intolerant, because it is about survival not truth or understanding. And to be honest it ain't all that bad, because religion has an empahsis on discipline, which most people need to succeed in life. So religion can teach you that, the issue is that tolerance brings with it a lack of discipline and looseness. If you start to contemplate and understand a serial killer's perspective you might become one. Because a rule in life is that everything is gray, no perspective is black and white. So for example if you contemplate the perspective of a serial killer, you might realize you yourself have the urge to murder others, within yourself. And if you explore yourself and that urge in particular too much, you might become a murderers. You might realize that killing others is exciting and addictive. This is just one example, there are millions of other examples. Like if you're a scientist, and you tolerate mystics too much, you might become one a ruin your career as a scientist. Or if you're a muslim, and you tolerate atheists you might become one, and so on... If you're straight and tolerate gay people, you might turn gay, or discover you have homosexual impulses, maybe even some paraphilic tendencies... So anyways God is infinite tolerance, which is death to the self, both existentially and psychologically like death of the ego, but also physically like physical death. It takes a lot of wisdom to reach ego death without physically putting yourself in danger.