Majed

@Emerald No, here where you go all wrong. An attractive woman is an attractive woman, and a non attractive woman is non attractive. There's no relativism here. Most men recognize when they see a hot girl, and when they see an ugly girl. Stop treating us like we're fools please.

@Emerald I mean from my perspective it's so obvious that men want hot girls. But somehow in your mind it is not true. Which shows me that you're delusional.

@Emerald High value self respecting men only sleep with the hottest women. But i guess you can enjoy the crap men that go for average girls.

@Princess Arabia

@Princess Arabia I am just honest. I find most women ugly and repulsive, and i think of men who would go for them as weak, inexperienced and unattractive.

@Emerald

@Raze Actualized.org is all about deconstructing reality, including virginity being a mental and social construct. Do you think for a dog virginity exists lmao, stupid way of thinking about reality. You need to see deeper.

@Emerald

@Raze When i made the post about being a virgin i was in a terrible depressed mood, and so i interpreted my situation based off this mood. Now i am in a better mood, i interpret my situation as very fortunate seduction wise.

@Emerald Well i guess since you think of yourself as average and you had hundreds of men being interested in you, that says that those men are weak, since they go for a woman that is average, hence making them overall unattractive. Look you ain't gonna give women the superiority in terms of dating, most women i am not attracted to, nor do i want to have sex with. I only want the hottest girls, and i think men who are experienced in pick up, think the same. It's only men who haven't attracted lots of hot girls that will go for an average woman.

@Raze Men don't sleep with women who are above average, they sleep with the hottest girls.

@Raze I definitely agree and for men, most women aren't hot.

@Raze It depends because some men's taste are really awful so that might play in favor of ugly women. But like the reality is that most women aren't hot, that's just the truth. Plus i wouldn't sleep with a girl who i find average, men sleep with the 6% most attractive, that's it.

@Emerald That's true for like 10% of women. 90% of women are ugly, and guys find them repulsive. I know it sounds harsh but hey it ain't easier for us, as men we have to approach thousands of girls to have enough experience to deal with women. So it is hard for both, but i would say men have way more room of improvement compared to women, however most men will never know or do serious pick up, so it ain't easy for them either.

@Elliott Lmao i guess if the guy is gay he'll be fine with it like this example doesn't really hold because straight men won't like being raped by gay men. However most women love having sex with men, so it's different.

@Emerald Honestly what men look for in a girl is physical beauty, so the top advice to give to women is to improve their physical beauty through dress, make up... And honestly some girls will just be forever unattractive and that is the harsh reality.

If we think of rape as a spectrum, since i got into picking up girls and gaining experience in the area of seduction my mind has definitely loosened about the notion of rape. Like i already kissed and touched girls without their official consent, and they were fully all over me and loved it. So in my mind, the gross idea of someone raping a stranger in the dark alley, i don't know if this happens at all, and also if it happens it is very rare and usually done by people with a mental disorder. Most normal people will not rape someone in a dark alley, but they can be bold and confident. ,My claim is if girls liked me touching and kissing them without their official consent, then where is the line between consensual and non consensual. I one time went talking to a girl at the club and without me even telling her anything, she went and accused me to the security guard. I didn't touch her, didn't have the time to make a full sentence, she went and reported me, i concluded she was mentally ill or something. And another time at the mall, in the day, i went and kissed a girl that i didn't know, after talking to her for a couple of senconds and she was happy about it. So my question is: what is rape ?

@Emerald Don't bring up past threads, let's just focus on this one. My point is reality is fluid and rape a mental construct. To put it simply it just doesn't exist, most of the times.

21 years old virgin, keep failing at pick up despite thousands of approaches. It's just that there's something wrong with life, at this point. I just don't understand what more should i do to get girls. I guess the problem with pick up is that it's seen as creepy to talk to strangers, it's just uncomfortable and unnatural, people naturally just want to talk to people they already know. I'm tired of failure. There must be something wrong with this world, man, i just don't get it at this point. Abstinence is torture and doesn't work. And when you try to take responsibility and fix your sex life, it also doesn't work. What should i do ? Go and rape a girl then? I just hate life because of this problem, all i do is think about girls and all i get is rejections. Is it my fault i was born with a body that craves sex without being able to ever satisfy this need ?

@Lucasxp64 I think i know the problem: i did the majority of my approaches while having an untreated mental disorder mainly ocd. This fucks things up a bit. I think that explains it.

It's a good lesson in epistemology to see how your mind is doing the same thing, the mind of these kids is doing. People do not see the depth of the problem of self deception, they just think kids are stupid and believe in Santa Claus. However a christian is doing the same thing in believing in Jesus Christ, i mean seriously what's the difference between believing in Santa Claus or believing in Jesus Christ being resurrected from death ? And also this problem is so epistemologically real that even scientists and atheists who believe in an external reality, and of other people, and of materialism are also doing the same thing just with different content, the structure is the same. Christians, scientists, and kids believing in Santa Claus, are all doing the same thing, aka believing without questioning, in other words holding dogmas, assumptions and not taking epistemology and ontology seriously. Here's the plot twist, Santa Claus is real, in terms of consciousness since consciousness is infinite and can imagine anything. However it does not mean those kids aren't foolish, because those kids are not conscious that materialism is a dream, and other people is an illusion within God's infinite mind. In conclusion: the christian fool thinks kids are stupid and believe in fairy tales, the atheist fool thinks religious people are as stupid as kids for believing in fairy tales, the wise mystic understand the problem of self deception and forgives the three of them. Without jailbreaking your mind, you look like a kid believing in Santa Claus to those who have jailbroken their minds.

@Leo Gura Hey leo, why did you lock my post about Santa Claus, i was editing it and making a strong case for Santa Claus being real, since everything is consciousness and imagination, if i become conscious of Santa Claus then Santa Claus is real. Similar to how you said consciousness can imagine a demon and it is real because it is within consciousness.

Part of this work is to question everything so might as well.

@Carbon Proud of your journey. Could you share in dms the porn you found ?

I've deconstructed reality, and became conscious to a point where my reality feels like a psychedelic trip 24/7.