Majed

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  1. @Leo Gura why are women not attracted to money?
  2. In his last video leo talked about focusing the basics and that he doesn’t cover the basics in enough details as some of his followers need, so basically i realized that before i tackle enlightenment and metaphysics or whatever i absolutely need to get the basics down. Do you have resources for that, like gurus, books, podcasts, on how to survive in the world. Lol the only education i have on this topic is: go to university and then get a job. The thing is i suck at the academics. I’m really not academically inclined and i don’t want to go to university. I’m 18, living with my parents, and living in a 3rd world country: lebanon. my goal is to achieve autonomy (moving out of my parents house) and moving to a better country, a 1st world country. I want my work to be meaningful too, i’m drawn to music personally. Do yall know any resources which can help me figure out how to achieve autonomy and moving to a better country without getting into a university ? Thank you in advance
  3. I feel like she shit tested the shit out of me, she’s a girl i was with her in school like 10 years ago lo, i’m now 18, i found out her instagram because we have mutual followers like friends in common and i started texting her, i haven’t took her instagram from a live approach, last time i saw her was several years ago, i don’t even know if she recognized me btw, i need some insights on the quality of my texts, what i did right, what i did wrong, what i can improve, how to reopen the convo and how to close The order of the photos is: 3-1-2
  4. @Leo Gura that’s the rest of the convo she asked me to cut my hair cuz in my instagram posts my hair are long but i cutted them since then so i shared with her a recent photo of mine were my hair aren’t too long, to be honest i thought that showing her myself with other girls but going in smooth ass way about it the way that i did in the convo sort of indirectly and smoothly would do the trick, cuz girls appreciate guys who have a lot of opportunities with other girls lol, i mean she doesn’t want a looser who has no girls at all, like if other girls liked me there must be a reason but i guess it came off as bragging which is not optimal and good for game. Then i asked her if she remembered me to make a bit of connection the way you said, hope she’ll respond ? yaroslava is her name the orders of the photos are: 2-1
  5. @thibault i sent her this cuz when i read it from you it made me laugh
  6. @something_elsewhat do i text her now ? Gimme the exact text to copy paste lol
  7. I just can’t study anymore, because, well there’s a couple of reasons: first i’m in my last year of high school and i am afraid of failing because i’m just not interested in the studies like i am genuinely disinterested plus last time i was contemplating this issue i had the insight that i’m not matching with my studies that they’re not something that i want and that life ain’t limited to school, so i decided to quit school but my parents forced me to come back or they were going to leave me on the streets. I can meditate, read, contemplate, songwrite... because i feel enjoyment whereas when i study even if i do study for like 3 hours i don’t feel fulfilled i feel empty like i have wasted 3 hours, last time i studied for 10 hours for a physics test and i got like 2/7 shit is depressing, i can’t study and i’m not effective at it, i think it is also related with that i’m at the pluralist stage of ego development, and at this stage you’re more “now” oriented than to the future and that you want your career to allow for self expression and creativity, plus i watched a couple of videos from pluralist people and they were struggling with the same stuff regarding work etc...
  8. @SonataAllegro the chances are fairly high
  9. @SonataAllegro how did you knew all that though, have you suffered through the same thing before ?
  10. @Leo Gura thanks for your advice leo, btw is it okay if i text them only on instagram ? cuz i don’t have a phone number
  11. Thanks man, just wanted to know are you a pua with a lot of experience or is it not the case ?
  12. @Vrubel what do you mean by “closing” ?
  13. For the last while, i had developed the habit of literally contemplating 24/7 except when i’m sleeping, so i be contemplating all the time even when i’m doing something else, i be in my mind contemplating “what is counsciousness” and just repeating that question over and over again, endlessly i got so much insights during this phase which just transformed me completely and even had a little taste of god. But i stopped it few weeks ago because it was making me physically tired to be contemplating all the time. Should i go back or not?
  14. Okay so i’m gonna explain my situation and see what yall have to say about it. So basically i am 18 years old, i live in lebanon beirut, i have never done anything with any girl, never had a girlfriend, i tried pick up i did 200 approaches and i have problems with pick up in that:-first : i don’t have neither money to buy entrance to clubs nor a car to drive there so each time i wanted to go to a bar i had to walk for kilometers to reach the place which is exhausting as hell. Second: the places that i went to aren’t good enough in the sense that there was not enough high quality women there and it’s frustrating. Just today i was at the mall there were only like a group of 4 women together to which i felt really attracted to them, i approached them talked for a few seconds but they told me they all have boyfriends. And yeah also i don’t have money at all like it’s holding me back. Now the solution would be to focus on my studies and move to a better country. But until then, i mean it would take 4-5 years to move there until i finish my degree, how the hell am i gonna get laid in those 5 years until i move. Now i can maybe move and continue my studies directly in another country but i would have to work and study at the same time, which i don’t want to do because it will take me all my life to work and study at the same time like it’s exhausting as hell i believe. Any advice
  15. @Leo Gura i’m gonna do whatever it takes to get laid, i already have an idea for how i can make money, but leo do you think i should focus more on my studies and on making money or on mediation, contemplation and reading books, cuz it’s getting hard to handle all this shit at once like yesterday i meditated for 2 hours, contemplated for an hour, walked for an hour, read for 2 hours, studied for an hour and watch a course on youtube for an hour, today i had a huge ego backlash i was fatigued and tired as fuck i couldn’t do shit except walking and a little bit of pick up, i will meditate also later on today but you got what i meant