Majed

i notice myself paradigm locked in: veganism, pick up, spiral dynamics, self actualization. do you have any idea or advice on how to become conscious of these paradigm locks in deeper ways and unlock myself from them ?

@trenton love you

@supremeyingyang thank you

we live in lebanon and when i hear my dad talking it seems that the whole world is doing bad financially, is there truth to that or is it just his bias ? now on one note my dad is a gigantic fool, basically stage blue fundamentalist, however i don't know if what he's saying maybe has some validity to it. now i think he's just done bad financially for himself and projecting that onto the world blaming outside circumstances because he doesn't self reflect. but even sometimes i hear french youtubers talking about bad financial situation in france. so i don't know it's really confusing.

@Leo Gura are your health issues getting worse ? or are they just staying the same ?

@UpperMaster that's like saying i wonder what's the point of all this work if a car can hit me and take all the effect of the work away

i feel like i want to travel the world and explore cultures and people, i just do not know how i can design a life around that. leo's teaching are a lot about living a sedentary life, i wonder how can you manage working and traveling at the same time. it's hard to live a life of travel when you have to work everyday. but anyways your insights will be appreciated. if you have any book recommendation on the topic it would be great too. by the way i currently live in lebanon which maybe makes it a little harder to actualize this but yeah give me your opinions

so i was doing pick up as usual and a few minutes ago, i got kicked out of the mall and the guy said that i can never come back. what do you think i should do ?

@Leo Gura will actualize that but first i need to get a programming degree and start generating an income then invest the money in my music career until it take off. by the way how do you musicians make money ? is it album sales or concerts or maybe donations i don't know. probably a combination of some kind.

@something_else can i do that with a programming degree ? or what kind of degree do you need ?

@Leo Gura i imagine my life purpose to be around making songs and rap music, that's what i've fallen in love with. but at the same time another part of me wants to travel and explore. so maybe becoming a successful musician and traveling around the globe. but thanks for your recommendation i'll check him out

@Leo Gura a man that follows actualized.org

@Leo Gura actually in my case, i gotta fixe my financial problems, as well as my health problems first. does your health issues affect your game ? because mine certainly do lol. i went vegan when i couldn't afford it for like a year and 4 months, my muscles starved. right now i've been recovering for six months and the process is quite slow. but yeah i would say the root issue is my finances that's why i got my health issues in the first place. that's why i wasn't very successful at pick up too, i was doing pick up without a car and a house to bang girls in. anyways now my goal is putting my finances in order and moving to a better country.

@Leo Gura the thing is in lebanon we only have 2 decent malls, but anyways i'm gonna pause pick up to focus on my schooling and start making money, then i'll come back doing pick up in different locations maybe also traveling to a better country. part of the problem is bars and clubs are quite expensive when you live with your parents and have not much money to spend on pick up, that's why i was milking that place lol

@Leo Gura actually i was gaming in this mall for a year and nothing very crazy happened with the security until today

@Leo Gura actually they asked for my name and i gave it to them, and they told me that if i ever come back they're gonna do something bad to me, but yeah as you said i will come back a few months later to test the waters. actually a noticeable reason is that today the mall wasn't very crowded so i was noticeable

@Leo Gura i meant if the security guard tells you to never come back is it the same as a perma ban ? and if so is it okay to come back a few months later testing the waters ?

@Leo Gura btw how do you know when someone is perma banned ?

@Leo Gura alright thanks for your wisdom

@Leo Gurahave you been kicked out from a place before forever while doing pick up ?

@Javfly33 i wasn't even going that hard but anyway do you think i should take the threats of the guy seriously ? after all it's ridiculous to ban someone from a mall just for approaching girls

other than using spiral dynamics, how do you assess the character of someone ?

@Leo Gura leo is it adequate to pause pick up to build a solid survival foundation then come back ?

it will be great if we can compare and contrast the dietary difference in individuals at different levels of consciousness. obviously the higher your development the more interested you are in food and nutrition.

@Leo Gura do you think tate is more stage red or orange ?