Majed

to compensate for this overindulgence in stage blue, does anyone have a great documentary on stage green america ? https://youtu.be/AFMvB-clmOg?si=OraWu8Xb3Hbblc7S

why do the least developed countries have the highest fertility rate ? and the most developed countries have the lowest ? very counter intuitive, you would expect that since people in less developed countries have overall worse conditions that it would be smart not to have kids to not allow them to live through these miserable conditions, and on the contrary countries with good living conditions higher fertility rates since the living conditions are better. but apparently it's the opposite. well i think it's because of a lack of education in the less developed countries, and also because they're tribal and collectivist whereas developed countries are more individualistic. And also a spiritual reason that i contemplated is identity, maybe the stronger you're identity the less aware you are of fluidity and spirituality, the more you have children since the more ignorant you are and unconscious you are, that's why the more religious the people are the more they have children, because you identify with your creed more. whereas if you're identity is less dense, then in your mind your child is just one out of billions, and doesn't make sense to have or not have a child. you may also equalize adopting a child with procreating one yourself, whereas less conscious people, with more limited identity see a very big difference between their child and other people's children, because they're more tribal, have more bigotry, intolerance, racism....

@Rishabh R i mean your father has no business with you going to the club. pull up google maps search for a near club, and go there, pay the entrance and talk to girls. at worst you can explain to your dad "i'm going there to talk to girls because i'm a normal young man"

@Rishabh R well first, 50 approach is nothing really so your approaches normally suck at this level of beginning. even people who don't live in india get kicked out sometimes because of cold approach, maybe it was just a coincidence, and have nothing to do with being in india. find other places like night clubs where you can hit on as much girls as you want. i'm sure there are bars and night clubs where it's normal to hit on girls. be aware of your limiting belief around approaching women being impossible in india. Don't forget the mind is very tricky and can get you to believe that it's a cultural thing when in fact it has nothing to do with culture, even people in western countries blame "feminism" for not being able to get laid, when in fact it has nothing to do with that. anyways find 4-5 places where there are lots of women, night clubs, bars, malls... and go do approaching.

@Rishabh R leo has a 3 part series called "how to get laid" explaining the mechanics of attraction.

if people aren't doing consciousness work, what makes some people more conscious than others ? we can say that overall people living in democracies are more conscious than people living in 3rd world countries, why is that ? i've contemplated it for a bit and i got that it is money. if people are struggling primarily with money and survival, they won't have much options to become more conscious as someone who had a good family, great education and optimal living standards.

@Leo Gura thank you

@Leo Gura what makes the general population in france more conscious than the general population in iraq ? genetics ? i don't think you've read my post carefully

@Vrubel you guys need to learn to apply spiral dynamics wisely.

@Yimpa let him release the understanding relativism part 2 first.

@Leo Gura the islamic world seems so self biased. in their minds to live in peace they need to eradicate israel, america, all of europe and the west, all buddhist and hindu cultures... there's not an inch of relativism going on. pure devilry. instead of people doing epistemology and spiritual work, understanding relativity, how culturally influenced one is... they just go to war.

@Leo Gura what do you think about the ultra orthodox jews and their lifestyles ?

@Leo Gura but leo if israel is built on zionism, does being anti zionist means being anti israel ?

if you follow leo, you're probably familiar with the pick up perspective around sexuality. However i think it's a very partial and limited perspective, and that without studying other ones might lead to epistemic blind spots. So i think it's valuable to open oneself up to other perspectives around sexuality whether more conservative ones like marriage and raising a family, or more liberal ones like zoophilia, pedophilia, lgbtqa+, polyamory... And maybe even some that comes from other cultures like tantra. I know it's difficult to do because it might interfere with our constructed "solid understanding of sexuality" that we got from studying and practicing pick up, at first. But in the long run i think it's worth the confusion because we'll have a more broad and sophisticated understanding of sexuality.

@itsadistraction people have different preferences. for some marriage might be optimal, for others one night stands suit their desires perfectly. but this is all still within heterosexuality. and even if you decide monogamy, there's still many different ways to experience sex with your partner. Tantra is one original way. and there are others.

@Leo Gura i think green isn't construct or ego aware.

like if i just want to drink water and hit on girls to do pick up, how am i supposed to stay there for 6 hours ordering nothing but water it's weird

this is so fucking foolish

@Leo Gura leo why do you allow such people on here, he's just spewing ideology without an ounce of self awareness. his degrading the quality of the forum.

@Leo Gura can you talk more about psychopath game sounds interesting. i don't know if it is because i am a psychopath or just because it's interesting in general. but i find this stuff very appealing. btw you think russell brand is a psychopath ?

@NoSelfSelf actually you're right, i was thinking that i should stop accounting for success in pick up in terms of phone numbers, kisses, make outs, or even hook ups.

@NoSelfSelf just came back from the club. i kissed a girl there

@Leo Gura thank you

@Leo Gura can you answer my question in the dating, sexuality section please