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@LordFall Bro... Dating isn't about connecting with God and spirituality. Most girls are shallow and dumb af. We here on actualized.org are the top notch intellectuals of the planet. Most girls aren't like that lmao.

@LordFall I would say for men it is more verbal game that makes them get results with women. As for women it is visual presentation that makes them attractive to men. As a man, i couldn't care less how a woman speaks. All that matters is her physical beauty to determine her attractiveness. And yeah the proof is that you could have the same looks but if your lifestyle is being at home 8 days a week, you won't get any girls. However without changing your looks if you go out, socialize and approach over time you'll start getting successes.

@Zen LaCroix Yes that's basically it. But it is even easier, learning game is just about approaching women in big quantities consistently.

@Husseinisdoingfine Yeah same here. Figuring out a career is really tough.

@Leo Gura What do you think ?

I did like 13 approaches most of them had boyfriends and weren't single. But like i enjoyed the night, i asked a girl i was really attracted to, to make out instantly, she said no, but i still like the fact that i was bold and owned my attraction towards her. Overall i think pick up is difficult, and should be done consistently, i am planning to get a job to then be able to go out more consistently until i start getting laid.

@Leo Gura I'm stunned how people do not see the utter regressiveness of Palestinians and the Islamic world in general. Just have a serious conversation with any Muslim and you'll see how their entire belief system hinges on nothing, yet they base their entire lifestyle on it. Which is the epitome of stupidity.

@Joseph Maynor I am planning on continuing my studies in university in Italian literature, a field I am passionate about.

@Joseph Maynor I am not just talking about starting a business. You could become also a scholar but in a field you're passionate about. But it also applies to starting a business. Passion is core, otherwise it doesn't make sense to do the business to begin with. Most people aren't in such desperate situations that they need money at all costs; it's more of a cultural thing that we have given such importance to money instead of what truly matters which is love, passion, happiness, and fulfillment.

@felixk_priv Go to places that are packed with girls like night clubs. I did like 15 approaches two days ago at the club, it was amazing. You just got to approach and bust through your approach anxiety. Often times we think that something terrible is going to happen if we approach, however when we approach, we realize nothing terrible happened, so here's how you do it. Also, if you don't feel comfortable approaching a girl directly, you can warm up by asking stupid contextual questions like "until when does the party goes on?" or "how is your night going?" or whatever...

@LordFall Yeah it is fascinating.

@LordFall I'm new to it as well, but like I enjoy reading and writing as well as Italian being my favorite language of the ones I speak. Also, my favorite subject in school was French literature, therefore it sounded a natural choice to make to choose Italian literature as a major.

@LordFall I'm putting music a bit to the side currently, focusing on Italian literature which would be my major in university. I want to continue making music in the future though, but for now it isn't a priority. I have many interests in life other than just music, Italian literature being one of them, I want to read more and nurture this passion further. I also want to get a part-time job soon to have pocket money and be able to go out more and do pick up successfully as well as purchase better equipment for making music. I was at the club yesterday with my friend, I did like 15 approaches, today i did one approach as well. The hard thing in pick up is gaining momentum by going out consistently. This is what gets you a lot of results.

@LordFall Dude you can't be seriously talking about having orgies while equating that with systems thinking. Lmaoooo

@Monster Energy Bro...

@Monster Energy The shit i read on this forum...

@LordFall HAHAAHAHAHHHHHAHAHAHAHA

Muslims behaving like animals: https://www.instagram.com/reel/Dclryp2J73r/?igsi=cTdid3k0czlqeTRx Only israel in the west has understood how to deal with these barbarians.

In defense of religious traditions: ‎Religious traditions aren't merely superstitous or arbitrary. They carry within them profound time tested wisdom for how to live life properly and generate happiness and success. ‎Traditon orders the psyche, it gives direction, restrictions, and guidance. ‎Religious traditions are lived experiences, they are a different form of knowledge from the purely theoritical, they are embodied knowledge. Certain knowledge is only experienced through practice, a master in any craft or domain, has dedicated thousands of hours in his field, to become a master. Theory only would never gives the same mastery than lived experience in any field. In the field of personal success and spiritual development, religion is the art that is to master. Mastering religion is about observing the rituals and rules, as well as abstaining from the forbidden and restraining oneself to what's allowed and cherished. To dismiss religious traditions is unwise. It's to underestimate their power in shaping happy successful lives.

@Leo Gura Understanding relativity is one of the best things in life. It gives you such a broad understanding of life. Exploring different perspectives changes you and your perception fundamentally changes. It's like tasting more of life. I'm still in many aspects not fully yellow, in some aspects i'm turquoise, in others not fully yellow. Like i still struggle to understand really less developed people, like people in islamic culture where rape isn't a concept, salvery and opression of women is normalized, pedophilia is okay, etc... Feels too strange and alien.

I want to find a girl that is compatible with me value wise, my values being wisdom, philosophy, spirituality... How do i find a girl that is into this stuff. I don't know how. I noticed through introspection that this is what i want more so than just getting laid. I want a girl that matches my values.

What is religion ? ‎Mental constructions. ‎A mental construction, is the ability to shape reality using our collective minds, giving birth to a new meaning within it. ‎For example, we construct, we invent, a holy book, we obscure its true original history, we make it into the sacred word of God, and indoctrinate children brainwashing them with this concept and perception since their youngest years. ‎This is one construct within religion, now religion is an amalgamation of mental constructions, which really serve a function of survival, it creates a community, a sense of meaning and purpose, holidays, a collective identity, a culture... So what's the problem with religion then ? The problem is that it isn't truth by any means. In fact it is the polar opposite of truth. That's why truth requires questioning and deconstruction. Which is why questioning religion in religious circles and communities is so taboo. Because the religion isn't based on truth or facts, but on a bunch of mental, social, fictional constructions which only exist in the minds of the people inside the religion: a shared, collective hallucination in other words. What i am describing is construct awareness. To be aware of mental constructions, fictions, illusions, and hallucinations. ‎Now why is there thousands of religion in the world today and across history ? ‎Precisely because religion is invented, a construct. If religion was true there wouldn't be thousands of religions for obvious reasons. Religion is pretty much cultural as well, notice that people in different geographical locations have different religions. Now, if religion is obviously false, why religious people are so unwilling to drop it? ‎Because it's their entire way of life, in a sense religion is like a map, to make sense of the world, without it they're lost, they wouldn't know how to live. It's easy to live life when you have a bunch of guidlines on everything and how you should do it: eat kosher, go to the synagogue of shabbat, do your 3 daily prayers... It structures your life, without it, you need to rethink everything from scratch which is the most difficult work nobody wants to do.

@LordFall Good luck man !

I think many westerners who are higher up the spiral clearly see Islam as being a stage red culture. Oppression of women, pedophilia, war, slavery... Are clearly a hallmark of stage red. I recommend we study the Islamic world to understand stage red better. Many would argue with me saying the Islamic world is stage blue. And I would respond to that that there are some elements of blue within the Islamic world, same way there are elements of purple. However, the center of gravity of the Islamic world is stage red. Stage blue isn't as bad as what we see in the Islamic world of terrorism, violence, slavery of women... The Islamic world is clearly the best example of an irrational (or prerational), animalistic, immoral culture, similar to north Korea, but on a wider scale.

I am getting to a point where if the person doesn't match my mentality and values, i'm simply not interested. Wanting to sleep around with whoever just because they're hot is weak. Not sleeping with anybody because you're waiting until marriage is also being brainwashed and a weakness. Prioritize compatibility and value alignment first and foremost before sleeping with someone. A spiritual connection, and an intellectual connection have to precede a physical connection.