Majed

I want to find a girl that is compatible with me value wise, my values being wisdom, philosophy, spirituality... How do i find a girl that is into this stuff. I don't know how. I noticed through introspection that this is what i want more so than just getting laid. I want a girl that matches my values.

Consciousness comes in many degrees. There are levels of consciousness. Happiness only exists in high levels or states of consciousness. The low ones are hellish, the high ones are heavenly. Consciousness is comprehension. Your ability to comprehend life, is your ability to be happy. A feature of low consciousness is to view reality and life as a dumb material world without majesty, beauty, intelligence, wisdom, consciousness. The function of spirituality is to raise consciousness. To become happier, more understanding and content in life. To honor the majesty of existence. For existence is majestic, magical, godly, blissful. But all of this good stuff is a feature of high consciousness. Atheists are low consciousness, because they deny God. At high levels of consciousness everything around you becomes God. Religious people are also low consciousness most of the yime, for they do not experience those high states of consciousness i am talking about. That's why they tend to be narcissistic towards their religion, tribal, sectarian, xenophobic, homophobic... Those are all features of low consciousness.

The guys who get laid the most, are players by definition. A player isn't gonna shy away from sexualizing the conversation and showing sexual intent. He's not gonna befriend you to then become your boyfriend, he's a player, he uses the player frame not the friend frame. By holding the player frame i mean that from the way he carries himself and his attitude, the girl knows he's a player, and will let him hit on the first night if he attracts her.

The difference between strong men and weak men is that strong men do not wait for women to want to sleep with them to have sex. They create the opportunities themselves by focusing on approaching women in big quantities. Hence getting laid whenever they want consistenly.

The difference between strong men and weak men is that strong men do not wait for women to want to sleep with them to have sex. They create the opportunities themselves by focusing on approaching women in big quantities. Hence getting laid whenever they want consistenly.

A magic key to get laid more often is to be more sexual with women. If you're sexual with a girl, she's gonna get turned on and she would want to have sex with you. Guys these days do not sexualize enough because they think they'll go to jail if they do so. But really any guy who ever got laid, got laid because he was sexual with the woman. There's simply no other way, if you want to get laid, you have to be sexual. There's no secret other than approach, sexualize, get laid, repeat.

@Raze dude my mentality changes over time, that's normal.

I'm going to argue the case for why Islam is overall better than actualized.org. What most people overlook is just how powerfully effective Islam is at producing a fulfilling life. Spiritually actualized.org's focus is on raising consciousness and mystical experiences. Islam focuses on the 5 pillars of the Islamic faith: the shahada (saying that you believe in God and his messenger), the prayer, fasting in the month of ramadan, charity to the poor, and pilgrimage in Mecca if one can. In practice raising consciousness is way too difficult for most people, they have to spend 1000s of hours, which most people don't have the time or energy for. Whereas with Islam most of time all you have to do is pray 5 times a day. A prayer takes like 5min maximum. Plus you get to enjoy being surrounded by other people praying with you if you go to the mosques, whereas with consciousness work you're pretty much a recluse. Dating wise actualized.org focuses on pick up artistry and hook up culture. Which i would argue is dramatically less fulfilling than islamic marriage and raising a family. Morally in islam there are strict restrictions around certain actions, behaviors and practices deemed haram and sinful. Like fornication, alcohol, drugs, partying, homosexuality... Most of which actualized.org prones, whereas Islam forbids. Because they come with great risks, and can be dangerous. And finally with actualized.org you're going on a solitary path, whereas with Islam you have the entire islamic community (the ummah) with you. In short i found that trusting in the tried and true traditions of the past, of my ancestors, works way better to overall be fulfilled in life. Which most people are after, not some crazy psychedelic states and experiences. And also with actualized.org you're told to follow your passions and make a living out of it. In Islam you can do that, but it isn't so much a necessity, a man's role is first and foremost to be the provider and protector for his family. Which i think is a way more realistic path for most people. Islam simply works at producing a fulfilling successful life. Which is what most of you want.

I have ocd and bipolar type 1, as well as a predisposition to developing schizophrenia. I was wondering if deep spiritual work is suited for me since i have these conditions, obviously psychedelics are a big no, because they present too high of a risk for mania and psychosis. But even meditation retreats as well as existential contemplations carry significant risks. I have suffered so much, to a degree beyond reason or comprehension because of these conditions, before and during early treatment. Now that i'm looking back i think that deep meditations and contemplations could have triggered the manifestation of these conditions in me although i certainly had genetic and biochemical predispositions. I think i might drop spirituality and just live a simple life.

I noticed with myself through introspection, that i crave hard drugs. I've already done mdma, and another drug which when they gave it to me told me it was lsd, however i wasn't hallucinating when i took it, i just felt more open and comfortable, there was definitely a state change, but nothing crazy. The mdma though was really powerful, i enjoyed every second of it. I have a craving for drugs, not just to do self development, or to get spiritual insights, but just to use them almost recreationally you might say. And to explore altered states of consciousness which i find fascinating. I was watching Leo's video about burning through karma, and i think it's appropriate for me, given my craving, to go satisfy them in a more or less responsible way, as much as i can. Not just psychedelics, although also psychedelics, but not just psychedelics, also cocaine, crack, meth... What do yall think, what's more dangerous to try these drugs, or not to, given my current cravings ?

@Meeksauce Dude you shouldn't wait months on end to talk to a woman. That's improper game. Talk to her immediately.

The case for slavery: ‎It's hard for us to understand slavery, dictatorships, fascism, racism... Because we operate from a humanist and individual sovereignty paradigm. However if you look close at it in nature, this paradigm is never found other than recently in human culture. Which makes it a rather human invention rather than just a state of facts. Animals don't have this paradigm, they operate based on instincts, and their instincts doesn't dictate to them to respect individual sovereignty, but to do whatever is best for their survival. And in a sense they don't have another choice. However in human culture we consider stuff like genocide and slavery, dictatorships, fascism, racism, tribalism... To be evil and wrong. Which is silly in the grand scheme of things. All of what we call today evil, were product of difficult survival conditions, which led to what we might view today as madness or barbarism. However these are important tools in collective human development, and to understand something and exhausted you have to experience and go through it. Plus many times, because of lack of scientific and technological advancement, life was way more cruel and difficult. Today we have the luxuries of modern medicine, technology... But those have not existed for most of human history. People suffered excruciating pain through diseases that are easily cured today. The most simple tasks of today were as difficult as life gets back then. When you live in that environment of cruelty, torture, and difficulty, just being the state of nature. You have way less calms about enslaving, torturing and genociding others, just because of how widespread poverty, famine, cruelty, torture, difficulty... Are in the state of nature of your environment that you're trying to survive in.

@NewKidOnTheBlock Women have different survival agendas than men. You're assuming men and women are the same. Women hold the key to sex, men hold the key to marriage and a stable relationship, don't confuse the two.

@Leo Gura Real men take responsibility to fix their problems : psychological, sexual, spiritual, financial, intellectual...

Religions have two components: the esoteric and the exoteric. To put it simply the exoteric is practical wisdom. The esoteric is existential wisdom. ‎I notice a lot of religious people focus on the exoteric to the neglect of the esoteric, which is, in my estimation, a mistake. Because while praying, fasting, and giving money to the poor and hungry, is good. This is relatively easy stuff, that's not what spirituality is about, that's more practical wisdom than it is existential. Existential wisdom means to annhilate the self, and live as God among men. That's the path of existential wisdom, the path of God realization, the mystical path.