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@aurum Yessir.

@Zenterus @LordFall Lmao, what's your response to this ?

So, I am going to break down Leo's advice into 3 different categories: spiritual, dating wise, and career wise. Since I started my journey with actualized.org I've done a lot of work. Spirituality is probably where I've gotten the most success out of the three domains i listed above. I've done hundreds of hours in total of combined meditations and contemplations, and my consciousness really grew a lot. However, I had rare ecstatic experiences before doing spiritual work then I didn't have such robust experiences sober. I've tried mdma once, and it was a really great spiritual experience, however I won't do psychedelics anymore because I have mental illnesses. I should do more spiritual work like contemplation and meditation to get more mystical experiences, however that isn't a priority for now. Dating wise, I've had success too, I've had a lot of experience approaching women, close to 2700 approaches, a lot of make outs in clubs, however never got laid because I didn't have money for the hotel room, because of my mental illnesses I couldn't get a job, I was too dysfunctional to work. After treatment though I am planning on getting a job, to have money to take girls to hotel rooms and get laid there. Career wise is where I didn't have much success yet, simply because I didn't really work at it, since my passion is rap music and I need money for proper equipment, which since I am planning on getting a job soon, am planning to get those equipment and make higher quality rap songs. I have a talent for rap, but I just need more financial resources to actualize my vision. I have a strategy of posting reels regularly where I rap and create a Patreon where people can support me in exchange of exclusive content. If I can get some 50 people to donate 10 dollars a month, I'll be able to quit my job and focus full time on rap. I am still 23 years old. So yeah, that's that.

I think that losing weight is a deeply spiritual journey, as it requires relinquishing material desires for food, towards a higher goal, like being fit, looking better as well as having better health.

@something_else Bro you seem to be misunderstanding the fact that as a 23 years old virgin, i need a strategy to get laid. I can't just make friends and hope to get laid somehow by making friends. Lmao, i'll have a group of 10 or 15 friends, how many attractive women will there be, and what are the chances i'll sleep with one of them, close to zero. You need massive action taking to change the situation, i can't just wait for hope, it won't work.

@LordFall For now my priority is to get a job to be able to lose my virginity. Then i want to focus on my art/rap for a bit.

The reason most people struggle with money is because they're slaves to wages. The system is explicitly designed so that the majority of people are slaves to wages which by default means they'll struggle with money for the rest of their lives. Slavery isn't fun, and you're a fool if you think it doesn't exist anymore. We need a systemic change to solve the problem of wage slavery as a society. But on a personal note you need a realistic plan to escape wage slavery as an individual.

@Butters If everyone could work 16 hours a day, everyone would be a millionaire and society will collapse. Obviously you can't nor should you work that hard.

Dude, people expect you to have infinite energy as well as mental and physical resources. I can't just spend all my day in productive mode, I'll burn out or go insane, or both. I need time to rest and slack off, otherwise it is unsustainable.

@something_else Dude I have no experience with social circle. However, I've already made out with girls at the club a lot. I can see myself taking a girl to a hotel room after making out with her and sleeping with her there. That will work.

@something_else @Jirh I wouldn't bet losing my virginity on university, especially with no money at all. I did 2700 approaches still didn't got laid yet because of bad logistics, i am aiming to fix my logistics so that i can make pick up work and lose my virginity finally. I don't have enough energy to work and do higher education at the same time.

@something_else Dude i am a 23 years old virgin, I can afford staying a virgin for many years to come while I continue on higher education, it's fucking up my whole psyche.

Guys i have two options: either work a job and have money to make music as well as going out and having a social life. ‎Or continuing on higher education for a couple of years before being able to live life. ‎Which one should i choose ? ‎I guess imma choose the first option, fuck it. I have deep needs for art and socializing. I can't just ignore them for 3 years while i study, imma take a couple of years off studying to pursue music and socialization, then i'll continue on higher education.

@Joshe You'll truly become tier 2 when you stop caring about stages.

@Rishabh R Dude i've done over 2700 approaches by now lmao.