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@Ulax 100%. They will get judgemental about you for approaching women, my friend last saturday night, started telling me we're like beggars for approaching women. And shit like you paid money to enjoy your night, not to pick up girls, etc... Thinking that i'll enjoy my night more listening to music on the bar rather than approaching girls lmao.

@Ulax Unless you have experienced puas with you, going out with friends will tend to worsen your results. I went out with my friend last saturday, and what a mistake, the whole night he did 1 approach lmao which lasted a couple of seconds, i did like 13 approaches.

@Ulax What i've realized is that solo is way better than with people, solo you can go around freely looking for girls to approach, you don't have to drag your friend with you all the time.

@Ulax The thing is approach anxiety only goes away by getting into a flow state of doing approaches.

@LordFall Bro... Dating isn't about connecting with God and spirituality. Most girls are shallow and dumb af. We here on actualized.org are the top notch intellectuals of the planet. Most girls aren't like that lmao.

@LordFall I would say for men it is more verbal game that makes them get results with women. As for women it is visual presentation that makes them attractive to men. As a man, i couldn't care less how a woman speaks. All that matters is her physical beauty to determine her attractiveness. And yeah the proof is that you could have the same looks but if your lifestyle is being at home 8 days a week, you won't get any girls. However without changing your looks if you go out, socialize and approach over time you'll start getting successes.

@Zen LaCroix Yes that's basically it. But it is even easier, learning game is just about approaching women in big quantities consistently.

@Husseinisdoingfine Yeah same here. Figuring out a career is really tough.

@Leo Gura What do you think ?

I did like 13 approaches most of them had boyfriends and weren't single. But like i enjoyed the night, i asked a girl i was really attracted to, to make out instantly, she said no, but i still like the fact that i was bold and owned my attraction towards her. Overall i think pick up is difficult, and should be done consistently, i am planning to get a job to then be able to go out more consistently until i start getting laid.

Will keep you updated on what happens tonight as in i will be doing pick up at a high volume club tonight.

@Leo Gura I'm stunned how people do not see the utter regressiveness of Palestinians and the Islamic world in general. Just have a serious conversation with any Muslim and you'll see how their entire belief system hinges on nothing, yet they base their entire lifestyle on it. Which is the epitome of stupidity.

@Joseph Maynor I am planning on continuing my studies in university in Italian literature, a field I am passionate about.

@Joseph Maynor I am not just talking about starting a business. You could become also a scholar but in a field you're passionate about. But it also applies to starting a business. Passion is core, otherwise it doesn't make sense to do the business to begin with. Most people aren't in such desperate situations that they need money at all costs; it's more of a cultural thing that we have given such importance to money instead of what truly matters which is love, passion, happiness, and fulfillment.

@felixk_priv Go to places that are packed with girls like night clubs. I did like 15 approaches two days ago at the club, it was amazing. You just got to approach and bust through your approach anxiety. Often times we think that something terrible is going to happen if we approach, however when we approach, we realize nothing terrible happened, so here's how you do it. Also, if you don't feel comfortable approaching a girl directly, you can warm up by asking stupid contextual questions like "until when does the party goes on?" or "how is your night going?" or whatever...