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@Rigel Dude read my post before responding lol.

@Leo Gura Black pill guys aren't serious people; they just want to whine and complain instead of taking action to solve their problems. At least red pill people's ego is structured around competition, taking action and responsibility. Even though it is unspiritual, immature, juvenile, and toxic it is still better than doing absolutely nothing except whining and complaining.

@Butters This is self deception. Unless you're asexual, you need to mate and date, don't kid yourself. Not everything is done for high consciousness purposes, sometimes you just need pragmatism to solve a concrete problem.

@Leo Gura It's really impressive how someone's teaching can be worse from Andrew Tate. Dude is literally a man child, at the conventional stage of ego development, with a materialistic consciousness, a misogynistic worldview, and an egocentric attitude.

@Jirh Nope there exist timeless principles on how to live life properly and achieve success in these different areas.

@Heaven Yeah, but I was confused kind of about how should I earn money, whether through a job, university or following my passion for rap music. Or some kind of combination.

@Ramanujan Yeah man sounds tuff. There certainly are ways though to get laid in India. Like i don't imagine the 1 billion indians are all sexually frustrated. It also depends on whether you live in the city or in rural areas. If you live in the city, try approaching a few girls, see how it goes.

@aurum Yessir.

@Zenterus @LordFall Lmao, what's your response to this ?

So, I am going to break down Leo's advice into 3 different categories: spiritual, dating wise, and career wise. Since I started my journey with actualized.org I've done a lot of work. Spirituality is probably where I've gotten the most success out of the three domains i listed above. I've done hundreds of hours in total of combined meditations and contemplations, and my consciousness really grew a lot. However, I had rare ecstatic experiences before doing spiritual work then I didn't have such robust experiences sober. I've tried mdma once, and it was a really great spiritual experience, however I won't do psychedelics anymore because I have mental illnesses. I should do more spiritual work like contemplation and meditation to get more mystical experiences, however that isn't a priority for now. Dating wise, I've had success too, I've had a lot of experience approaching women, close to 2700 approaches, a lot of make outs in clubs, however never got laid because I didn't have money for the hotel room, because of my mental illnesses I couldn't get a job, I was too dysfunctional to work. After treatment though I am planning on getting a job, to have money to take girls to hotel rooms and get laid there. Career wise is where I didn't have much success yet, simply because I didn't really work at it, since my passion is rap music and I need money for proper equipment, which since I am planning on getting a job soon, am planning to get those equipment and make higher quality rap songs. I have a talent for rap, but I just need more financial resources to actualize my vision. I have a strategy of posting reels regularly where I rap and create a Patreon where people can support me in exchange of exclusive content. If I can get some 50 people to donate 10 dollars a month, I'll be able to quit my job and focus full time on rap. I am still 23 years old. So yeah, that's that.

I think that losing weight is a deeply spiritual journey, as it requires relinquishing material desires for food, towards a higher goal, like being fit, looking better as well as having better health.

@something_else Bro you seem to be misunderstanding the fact that as a 23 years old virgin, i need a strategy to get laid. I can't just make friends and hope to get laid somehow by making friends. Lmao, i'll have a group of 10 or 15 friends, how many attractive women will there be, and what are the chances i'll sleep with one of them, close to zero. You need massive action taking to change the situation, i can't just wait for hope, it won't work.

@LordFall For now my priority is to get a job to be able to lose my virginity. Then i want to focus on my art/rap for a bit.

The reason most people struggle with money is because they're slaves to wages. The system is explicitly designed so that the majority of people are slaves to wages which by default means they'll struggle with money for the rest of their lives. Slavery isn't fun, and you're a fool if you think it doesn't exist anymore. We need a systemic change to solve the problem of wage slavery as a society. But on a personal note you need a realistic plan to escape wage slavery as an individual.