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@Recursoinominado I literally said that you can get good girls with game so idk why you are disagreeing with me. I am saying if you are not good looking you can get results. @Preety_India You are right but i would like to make some claims on what you said. Firstly, a women will not have issues getting a guy, you almost never see incel women. Guys are the ones that need the most help here. Secondly, a women can get a guy if she works on herself. A feminine personality will be just as effective as good looks (it has worked on me) Thirdly, when we are talking about human interactions you have to practice somewhere. I could tell him to practice with hot girls but he will be so blinded by their "divine beauty" he will not be able to do shit with them. Yes it is mean thing to say but how would you go about it? Most guys get tongue tied when talking to a hot girl unless they are experienced, it is how it is. I am just stating reality. Fourthly, saying someone is attractive or not has nothing to do with respect. If you consider attractiveness to be something important for your identity then yeah it is lack of respect. Some people do not give a shit about how other's percieve their looks to be. This respect notion is deeply relative

@Recursoinominado That depends on how good/bad their game is and how attractive/ugly they are. If the good looking guy is a complete wimp then yeah he may not get the girl at the end. However most good looking guys have enough confidence and social skills to get a girl mostly from their looks. I know very attractive guys that get plenty of girls without game and stuff. Once a friend of mine was told by a girl that she liked him and wanted to go to the bathroom so he could have sex with her. But you need to be very good looking for that to happen. A 7/10 guy wont get that shit so it is not worth feeling bad about. If a guy has amaizing game then yeah he can fuck hot girls on a regular bases too. The destination (sex) can be reached in many ways. Pick the way that is possible for you and do that.

@Preety_India I literally said ugly girl pussy is just as good as hot girl pussy. Regarding "building yourself up from ugly to hot girls" i was being pragmatic and practical. Practical advice and " not hurting people's egos" are independent variables.

@Preety_India Poor dude was just asking how to get over his looks insecurity, he never said "ugly girls" or anything like that.

I could give you some sugarcoating bs but this is the most accurate video i have ever seen regarding this topic. It is both accurate, empowering, positive and REALISTIC

@Leo Gura And how do you plan to do that? If the guy is ugly then his inner game is already bad from years of being treated like shit by girls. Hot girls will not reject good looking guys with confidence for an ugly guy that is insecure about his looks. He should start with ugly girls then build himself up to hot girls. Pussy is pussy. Ugly girls pussies feel just as good as hot girls pussies, the rest is just bs in your head and ego validation @Recursoinominado If looks dont matter then a guy with good game would pick up every single girl he approached. Usually even guys with good game will attract a small fraction of what they approach. I am not saying looks are the end all be all but saying they do not matter is ridiciolous and denying reality. "If you are good looking you can get away with A LOT more and have girls attracted to you by just existing and not being a wimp but as an ugly guy with great game you can do just as well, it is just more work. Basically like studying for an exam versus being naturally smart and not having to study. It is not fair but life is not fair, dont complain and grow". This seems as better advice.

Alright guys so i have a question. On this video Leo says that to be a man it means to be authentic and that the confident charismatic macho persona is not for everyone. For a guy to more attractive to girls he needs to be more like a woman. However when it comes to "hooking women like crack" and other stuff like this he promotes exactly the toxic masculine persona. So being detached, confident, assertive etc. If being this masculine persona is unhealthy and unattractive then why would Leo advocate guys to be like that. Personally i tend to be different from that. I am kind, caring, soft, logical and chill kinda person. So should i be more girly so more flirty, spontaneous, smiley etc or more aggressive, dominant, assertive and ruthless. I don't know if i am i writing this correctly but i feel like the two pieces of advice contradict each other.

@Preety_India What if he is your height but has all the other qualities? How tall are you?

I would not recommend it unless you have a bad health condition that would make COVID life threatening for you. Would not be surprised if the side effects of the vaccine are bigger than the actual harm the virus does to most people. If you are below 50 without any bad health conditions, the chances of dying or being permanently damaged from COVID at this point are close to 0.

Looks are important and you cannot deny it. BUT they are not essential, they are just a good thing to have if you have it. It is like being born rich compared to making yourself rich through work. That is the best analogy i can use when comparing good looking peeps with guys that build their game. Just dont get dating advice from good looking peeps plz because you ll feel depressed af when you see how little shit they have to do to get girls attracted to them

@Pernani Leo's video on dealing with break up is a good one. Personally, i do not have your experience even though i have experienced immense heart pain due to rejection. I doubt it is at the quantity that you are experiencing it however. My advice is to try to meet new people, date them and focus on with your life. If you have a great life to begin with, it will be harder to get needy attached. Also do a solo retreat somewhere. It will really help you embody the idea that you can be perfectly happy and at peace by yourself. Hope any of this helps

Alright guys. So this is a scene from the tv show Dark Season 3 (SPOILERS INCOMING). It is a show revolving time travel and many different timelines. In this scene the main character tries to kill himself, but because his older self already exists, time will not allow it to happen. No matter what he does, he cannot die since hs future already exists, meaning that every attempt taking his life has already failed, this making every attempt futile. He literally has no free will, everything is already determined. This is part of the mechanics of time travel and quantum mechanics. What if religion, when it said that everything "has been already written by god and your fate is decided" , what if this is what it actually meant. By religion i mean the prophets that wrote the holy books (Bible,Qouran). What if they were given this knowledge of time by the infinite intelligence of the universe since their consciousness was at superhuman levels? This to me shows the connection between spirituality and science. This is a little silly theory i had, take it with a grain of salt and be kind on your replies please

@Preety_India I agree that women are hard wired to respond to those attributes i mentioned but when they are taken too far it is a problem

@Preety_IndiaWell all the people i know that are kind and caring suck with girls though so i feel like there is a missing link here. Thank you for your replies though

@Preety_India Alright. So these assholes were kind caring honest confident funny and genouine in the beginning? If yes then i totally understand

@Preety_India I appreciate your reposnse but you did not understand my question fully. If a guy starts talking to a girl and she is rude, harsh, arrogant, bossy etc the guy will not like that at all. So why dont girls also get turned off by these asshole traits. I understand that only assholes approach girls BUT why do these girls sleep with them to begin with. If only homeless stinky people approached girls would girls sleep with them? Of course not they wouldnt. So why do they sleep with these assholes. I feel the reason is that they get attracted to that. Otherwise if these traits were purely negative then girls would have 0 desire to sleep with them if they demonstrated arrogance, assertivness, dominance, ruthlesness etc

@Preety_India I read your arguments. My question is simple and you always avoid it. Why dont girls reject guys for being assertive, dominant, arrogant and ruthless. If girls dislike people that treat them badly then these attributes should be a NO NO since they make you an abusive piece of shit in relationships. Would really appreciate a response.

@Cireeric What if your authentic self is not charismatic, expressive, flirtatious and whatever the hell all these people promote?

@Shin I ve read that book. It is very good but i tend to be more on the kind sweet caring side than the strong ruthless side naturally. Maybe life's difficulties will make me more like that, who knows. I am quite young.

@Preety_India I know plenty of good guys that try to get girls and they get friendzoned or rejected. I never saw the ruthless heartless player get a " you re a great guy but lets be friends instead" kinda text from a girl. It is not a coincidence that when a guy acts like he doesnt give a shit about the girl he gets her compared to being good to her. Even Leo has confirmed this among thousands of good guys who were treated like shit while being good to girls. Again, why dont girls reject guys if they act assertive, dominant, cocky, arrogant and brash. Answer this please

@somegirl You do not ask the rabbit how to hunt rabbits, you ask the wolf that is successful at hunting rabbits

@Preety_India If that was the case than good guys would be drowining in pussy while assholes would be starving for sex. In reality it is the opposite. You as a female want guys to treat you well but the issue is that most females do NOT go for the guys that treat them well. They go for the guys that make them FEEL the way they want to. Being treated good and feeling good are independent variables. Girls do not reward self actualized guys nearly as much as they reward scumbags. Maybe personally you are different but usually girls tend to be like this, especially between 18-25 years old. You can easily tell if a guy is a jerk of kind in a few dates so if girls were so selective on his kindness then they would not have issues at all. How about you punish guys if they are arrogant, assertive, over the top, cocky and dickish. That would be a nice change.

@Leo Gura Could you please tell me the "struggles" women have to face which are equal to those that men have to face, since you locked my post. Putting make up does not count since that is a choice and a good way for women to cheat their looks while men cant. Men also have to take care of themselves like going to gym, grooming etc. Slut shaming is no longer a big deal in western countries, calling a girl a slut now makes you a sexist asshole. Women get paid less but that is because they tend to have more agreeable personalities, not because they are strictly female. Women do not get cruelly punished for showing weakness like men do. Fear of being raped is the only valid one which i can think of.

@Thestarguitarist14 Because girls have insecurities and need validation. Not all girls are super hot and know they are hot and great. A lot of girls have guys they like not care about them and compliments can make their day if done at the right way and at the right moment. I dont like very hot girls because their personality tends to suck. They can have an amaizing life because of their hotness so they never bother investing on themselves. Also the competition for them is insane and not worth the work just for some sex. If i want sex with a hot girl i can just fuck a hooker, from a girl i want a good personality first

@Thestarguitarist14 All good except compliments. Compliments when done geniounly and strategically are very good, especially with decent girls (not super hot ones)