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@Byun Sean Exactly! @Gesundheit I know social people that are successful and cannot get a girlfriend because of being shy or not bold. I do not know charismatic guys that struggle to find partners.

@Hulia Leo had a successful business, a college degree, doing well financially, not fat, very intelligent, was more self actualized than like 90 percent of guys out there and yet he had no results with girls like at all until he started doing pick up. Being shy, and logical will hurt you in a way that females cannot really comprehend. Girls tend to be judged less for being shy in attraction terms so of course you cannot relate as much.

@Hulia Do not use very good looking, famous rich guys as examples. Use the shy nerd at school that is a nobody as an example. I am curious to know whether you would be attracted to the shy nerd or to the strong charismatic guy. Saying introverts are attractive and showing the top 1 percent fame, social status and looks wise is not a good example. Also as anime fan all the "introverted" characters tend to be bad asses that are very powerful, feared and get shit done. They display strength. Sasuke, Capitain Levi are two examples which come to the top of my head.

@Etherial Cat Not psychopaths but just assholes. What you say logically is irrelevant. What matters is how you feel. What makes you feel more willing to sleep with someone? That is what actually matters. Logical talk from girls will not get guys laid or give them a girlfriend.

@Leo Gura Funny thing is most of the self actualization stuff like meditation, eating well, working out etc people will do to avoid approaching. It is more like people are more scared to do approaching then they are to any other sort of self actualization work (outside taking psychedelics maybe due to the dogma behind them)

@Leo Gura Thing is that people want to get fast quick and not go through a lot of failure that is why they over analyze everything in these threads. They want to become good with as little effort as possible so they want to avoid all the traps and mistakes people can make. Approaching seems so scary to them (me too) that we would rather learn all this shit beforehand than have to do even 10 more approaches to learn it through experience. It is not that they are being generally lazy per say, but they are being lazy regarding approaches. You have people that procrastinate approaching by going to the gym and thinking they need to be buffed first or rich first. Basically even the most difficult things like gym, work, diet, lots of reading, meditation etc can be used as distraction just not to approach. That is how scary it is. Ps: not defending anyone, just explaining their logic behind all these questions maybe you already know this stuff and experienced it but oh well

@Leo Gura I think your "how to get laid" video series will put an end to these types of threads hahaha

@Leo Gura So can i be loved and considered a good kind guy and also very successful and magnetic to girls? I want both and willing to work for it

@Leo Gura You are right about everything, but there is 1 thing i am confused about. By reward i did not mean tangible results, i meant how people perceive and think of you. If people in general think of you as a ruthless narcissist they will not be okay with it. Just look at the social outrage when Trump said his "grab them by the p... stuff". I am talking about you being valued, respected not despised.

@Leo Gura I am talking about behavior here not looks. I am not saying how ruthlessly guys get treated for being short for example because i did not want to go to the looks department. I was saying behavior that makes females attractive to males is rewarded by society and it is aligned with the social standards while behavior that makes males attractive to females is not often rewarded and it is considered ruthless, dickish etc. So this whole conversation is strictly about behavior. And yes an average looking girl can be very successful with guys if her behavior is on point. Some of the girls with the most guys that liked her that i have seen with my own eyes were not that attractive physical wise.

@Leo Gura Of course i care about it, but i did not think of it. Just normally it seemed like they get extra points by society for being in line with what makes them attractive to guys behavior wise. I did not know all the counter intuitive stuff like the thing you mentioned. If i did i would not watch your content, you are wiser, older than me. I am just a kid

@BornToBoil According to Leo girls like a guy to be ruthless killer guy. I was replying to him. Maybe you disagree and i respect your opinion.

@BornToBoil That is not what Leo was referring to. He was referring to legit being a ruthless detached dick. Go tell people that guys should be detached from the girl and see how they respond. "You must do everything for love and treat her like a queen" will be their response.

@onacloudynight Date masculine women. Polarities attract.

@Leo Gura I do not see girls being told to do stuff that hinders their survival value. Being nice kind caring and sweet is rewarded by society. Meanwhile the stuff that raises my survival value is criticized and demonized. Seems a bit fucked up to me even though it makes logical sense. No wonder guys these days are so sexless and confused when the society narrative goes against their survival value while it does not for women.

@How to be wise The video says otherwise. If i am shy serious not emotional and not confident then i will not get shit so yeah. Only works for rich super handsome or famous people which i am none.

@Leo Gura So a guy should be ruthless and a girl should be nice and kind. No wonder guys are having issues dating when society in general rewards nice and kindness behavior and shames ruthless strong behavior. By society i mean the way people are taught, media, culture etc. Would you mind explaining why society punishes men for being strong and ruthless and tells them to be nice and kind when it hurts their survival value? Why videos like this which are very good and accurate would be called sexist, inaccurate and turned down by a lot of people these days. Why when you ask people how you should act they say nice and kind instead of strong?

@Leo Gura They reward kind and sweet girls more than bitchy girls. A girl that is very friendly helpful sweet is very attractive to guys. Some of the kindest most pure hearted girls i have met were very attractive to guys even with just decent looks. I think guys are attracted to that kind of behavior so kindness is rewarded.

@Hardkill I think USA crazy university prices have to do with Reagan policies also (not sure)

@Leo Gura So females reward pure strenght more than human decency?

Why should being a INPT be something bad? Just find other INTP people and you will vibe just fine. INTP is not exclusive to males you know. Plus you can learn to be social and cool while doing it in a INPT way. For example i tend to have more "intellectual" type of humor full of puns, irony and stuff that you might need to have some knowledge of stuff to understand. It works just fine with people that read for once. Smiling, good body language and eye contact and confidence and self esteem have nothing to do with INTP. At least INTP tend to enjoy their company more so they will be less likely to be clingy, needy and annoying. So yeah each personality type as long as it develops specific traits like confidence, humor and good body language/eye contact is good to go. The idea that specific personality is more humerus or confident is just silly. Each person has their own style of humor and overall "coolness".

@Leo Gura What if you really love the person and you want to be with them? You cannot just leave someone when something goes wrong. You stay together even when things get hard. This idea of "leaving someone as soon as there is a small issue" is the reason why USA divorce rate is so high. In my culture people rarely divorced because they were willing to work together if there were issues. It made families stronger, happier and less bullshit for kids to go through aka divorce of parents.

@Hello from Russia Tell that to Leo who did something similar to online dating to find a girlfriend instead of pick up. And please do not use top 0.5 percent of skills in game as the example. Use normal people. I am sure Ronaldo can kick ass in football blindfolded but most people do not have that skill and they suck dick if blindfolded. And the example is plain bad because noone there is wearing masks. Where i live you get fined 300 euros if you do not wear a mask and 99 percent of people wear one

@Preety_India Wtf this is not the video i meant to send Hope it is not the same video, idk weird youtube bug. The guy btw is against red pill, teaches men to treat women all and is overall very very conscious person. Even talked about spiral dynamics a few times. Do not judge a book by it's cover but in this case it was just the wrong video i sent

@Preety_India Why so angry lol i am trying to help.