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@mivafofa The thing is that guys believe that girls actually want to fuck them but will pretend like they do not want to so they wont look like a slut or easy. That is why guys are taught to push for sex until they get a hard NO. Honestly if a guy did not push for sex at all his success rate would decrease dramatically. If a girl says like hmmm i dont know, maybe im not feeling ready etc that to me is not a hard no. A hard is no is exactly what it implies. NO!!!

@mivafofa Well there is a fine line between "hard to fuck" and "rape". As a guy you have to be a hard closer otherwise you will miss a lot of girls. Even Leo advises it, however there is a big difference between rape and pushing for sex. Often girls have these anti slut shields which you can break and then have sex with her. Rape in my book is if the girl gives you a super hard NO. You do not need to be a genious to tell if a girl wants to fuck you and is playing hard to fuck or legit does not want to and proceding would be basically raping her. I think a lot of these cases happen because either people are drunk or the guy is a complete moron.

This is the standard females should have regarding awareness of what they like. This kind of stuff should have views. One of the few females i have seen both online and in real life that ACTUALLY understands this shit. Very honest and objective. The first blind spot is arguably the biggest one. A must watch for you ladies on this forumn and arguably guys too.

@mivafofa How can male friends rape you? Those are not friends. Unless you are both super drunk and the girl has been leading you on then there is no way that can happen. Screen your friends better, guys that would do that to a female friends are pieces of shit.

@Preety_India Sick shit, that is pure sadism not even sociopath.

@Preety_India :'((((( I do not understand why men rape, if they are so sexually frustrated then get a hooker or something. Maybe they like the idea of having power over someone? Society should try to eliminate the rape problem, it is really a pain in the ass for most females.

Is rape common where you women live?

@Emerald Exactly, i dont know why Leo and other people here advocate it. Sure it can work but is it worth the hassle and hatred you get from it? Plus it does not show real confidence or authenticity which apparently is what matters the most

@Hulia Yes that is what i think too. That is why i never considered it as a positive thing unless the girl is being a bitch and you stand up for yourself. You can be confident and charismatic and cool and fun without being cocky.

The fact that the top 10 richest people in the world hold more wealth than like the poorest 40 percent of humanity is mind boggling and disgusting honestly. It would be nice if the UN did some sort of taxation for ultra rich people where all that money they have would be better distributed. Considering how corrupt the world is, i do not see it happening in the next few decades at least. Hopefully some day...

Any movie/tv show examples? Would be easier to visualize.

@Leo Gura Yes i agree, if you are shy and never talk about yourself it is very good training. I was saying in normal conditions not if you are training.

@Leo Gura I am saying it from personal life experiences not from thinking about it. Nobody likes narcissistic people except other narcisistic people, the kind of people i enjoy spending time with hate narcissism and love and respect humbleness. I am not talking about girls especially here, people in general. Talking about yourself is a good way to keep the ball rolling but i think it should be balanced, too much of it can create issues. For some people i think it works good because of their personality type, if you are very loud and expressive and stuff and have cool stories it can work RSD Tyler videos style but that is super not my and many people's style. Todd V would be a better example in my opinion.

@Leo Gura I thought people find those that only talk about themselves obnoxious and annoying. Often i hear people complain about this person only talking about themselves and it annoys them and lowers their desire to be around such people. I often hear the advice that people do not give a shit about your stuf, they just want to talk about themselves so if you talk about yourself it will not work. Exception would be some over the top crazy story. "Just ask questions, women love to talk about themselves", is an advice i often heard which contraditcs the "talk about yourself" advice. Is there a balance between the two or the first is bullshit?

@Windappreciator Agreed

I wrote this small essay after some conteplation. The nature of evil always fascinated me and after going through Leo's work and a few other teachers and my own contemplation on the matter this is what i came up with. Would like to hear your guys opinions and thoughts. Limited identity- The true cause of evil. Identity is what we associate ourselves with at a deep almost existential level. It is what we have concern for and what we care about. Our sense of morality, of what is right and wrong is directly associated with what we identify with. Whenever something that is harmed within our sense of identity, we consider it immoral. Whenever something that is harmed outside of our sense of identity in service to something we consider as part of identity we do not consider it immoral. There are different degrees of identity which are expansive. Here are they listed from least to most inclusive. Note, that this should be taken with a grain of salt. 1. Identifying with a specific part of yourself, not your whole 2. Identifying with yourself as a whole. 3. Identifying with your close family. 4. Identifying with your large family. 5. Identifying with your city. 6. Identifying with your country. 7. Identifying with your region 8. Identifying with your ethnicity. 9. Identifying with your continent. 10. Identifying with your race and religion. 11. Identifying with your species. 12. Identifying with all living things in your planet. 13. Identifying with all living things throughout the universe. 14. Identifying with creation itself, in all shapes forms and sizes. Now, as you might see humanity in the 21set century has done quite some progress in expanding its sense of identification. However, much work needs to be done. Why does this identification stuff matter you might ask? For a very simple reason. Everything that we define as “evil” is an act made out of love within a specific identification level in expense to something else outside this identification level. I will now dissect this into simpler and easier to understand language. Let us take the example of a person in Germany. This person identified himself with a specific race, called the Aryan race. In his mind, the Aryan race was the primary thing that he cared about and what mattered the most was the best for this race. Then you have another group called Jews. This person did not identify himself with Jews and therefore in a twisted, deluded version of love tried to exterminate this group because he thought their eradication would benefit the Aryan race. This act of love based on limited identity is considered as one of the worst tragedies that has ever happened in human history, and the person in hand is considered one of the evilest persons in history. Everything he did was out of love however. Interesting, isn’t it? Let us give some more simple examples to clarify it even further. The atomic bombings of Japan- An act of love made to save American lives on expense of another country’s lives. The crusades- An act of love made to help a religion on expense of another religion. The great purge- An act of love made to solidify and maintain person power in expense of other people. As we can see, every tragedy that has happened in history was nothing more than a twisted, limited, self- biased version of love based on limited identity. If we want to eradicate what we consider as “evil”, our only solution is to expand people’s identity. I have friends who are against the European Union idea and when I ask them why, their response is simple. “I do not want to pay for other country’s issues”. Fair enough, well what about your city paying for another city’s issues on the same country? “That is the same country, that is different”. Well, this is also the same continent, why complain about this? “Continent and country are different”. This circular logical, without a clear explanation is nothing more than limited identity not being able to be properly articulated. If we use the “they are different” logic to justify a limited identity, as in the above example then we would shrink to the point where we only care about ourselves. I mean we are different from our family members, why care about them? See, how idiotic this logic is. Just because something is different does not mean you should not care about it and not identify yourself with it. We are all different parts of creation in the end.

@Zigzag Idiot Thank you for your response and material

@Windappreciator Animals no but eating living being is. At least with the technology we have currently. In an existential level there is no difference between a tree, animal nor plant i think. All of those are distinctions made by us. That is why i said identifying with all living being or even with all creation as the highest levels of identification. The higher the identification level is, the more it hinders your survival.

@Windappreciator Eating animals is needed for pure survival (they are food source). However, if you see how animals are treated at big farm factories it is scary similar to how Nazis used Jews in concentration camps. Even eating animals which is fundamentally selfish can be done in more conscious ways but that hinders survival (less food). Imagine raising an animal, feeding it well and treating it well versus putting 10 of them in a tiny cage, feeding it shit and not caring if they developed diseases as long as they managed to stay alive.

Get heartbroken a few times and it will auto correct it trust me. There is a beautiful quote i read once it is something like : "The more i interact with girls, the less nice i want to be to them". Now do not become red pilled and hate women and shit. Just do not be simp. It legit took me 1 bad heartbreak to cut my niceness in like half. The issue is not being less nice, the issue is treating them properly. Best way to treat in my opinion is to treat her good but not too good. Watch the movie "A bronx tale", the way Sonny treats his people (not C) is the correct mindset to have.

I saw your supplement video and noticed you use the same brand "now orange box" on that video with the ones i use. My mother gave me some vitamin D pills because where i live there is little sunlight most of the year and some vitamin C. I wanted to ask, omega 3 pills, vitamin D pills and vitamin C pills, so these kind of supplements if they are high quality brands, do they cause side effects? So basically is it healthy and safe for you to consume them? I know direct experience is king but with some things you do not feel anything until years so i just want to safe, i feel like you know this stuff very well. So if i do a doctor visit and he tells me that you might need vitamin D or C or more omega 3 etc, is it safe to get them from these pills? I am not replacing a good diet of course but omega3 is hard for me to get because i cannot really afford salmon (really expensive where i live) and for vitamin D there is no food to get it.

Dude i know a guy with 1 arm that is super popular and has way more friends than some other good looking guys i know. Regarding friends, respect, admiration etc looks play a very small role. I would say for us guys it is so small it is not worth talking about. I despise the notion "looks do not matter to get girls" but when it comes to making friends, even friends with girls i have to agree that they do not matter. If you are really insecure then try to maximize your looks (workout, good haircut, glasses if they fit you, good clothes etc). What really matters to make friends is your attitude, social skills, being funny, positive, empathetic, uplifting etc. I am 5 8 in height and most of my close friends are taller than me, some way taller. They never treated me with disrespect, made fun of me etc because of the way i behave. If you wanna be liked and respected, behavior is like 95 percent of the equation.

And i find it strange that people get mental fog from eating wheat products. Tried to replace wheat with rice after watching your diet videos for a few weeks and literally 0 difference in how i felt, so yeah these things are super subjective and personal dependent. And you still managed not to talk to girls or try to date/fuck. Wow man you have some serious willpower not to pursue sex with that crazy sex drive. You deserve a medal for that feat alone hahahahahah Personally i can technically jerk off around 3 times a day, after that i get a bit burned out (im 22), however a lot of my friends do it like once every 4-5 days and consider 2 times a day way too much. "You are like a machine" they tell me hahahahahhaha. So yeah, these jerk off topics are fucking stupid since it is very subjective and personal. Everyone has different sex drives and bodies so trying to monopolize the amount someone should jerk off or how jerking off should make you feel after is the opposite of what actualized.org stands for. "No group think" and no "ideology"! "No fap" has become like a small ideology and i do not think members of this forum should follow it blindly without heavy personal experience of what works and what does not for them.

Great job! May you give us a small explanation of how that picture came out to be

@Flowerfaeiry Thank you