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I also used to suffer from this in the past. It REALLY bothered me when people ignored my texts or took way too long to reply or left me on read or were generally quite cold compared to real life. It was painful. However what fixed it for me was to develop a new attitude and not give much value to texting in general. I either use it in group chats or to catch up with people. If i really want to talk to someone i will just arrange a meeting. Be busy with other stuff and have a big social circle so each individual becomes less important. And for the love of god do not attach your relationship with someone on how they text you. PLEASE.

Red pill is very biased and pro male however i think it can be useful on extreme nice guy cases. It tends to make them more grounded and less female worthshipping. It helped me to some extent but you gotta see its limitation and outgrow it. Pick the good bits of wisdom it has and ignore the toxic parts.

They do so because of 2 main reasons 1. This is why how they were raised to think, their values and cultural norms teach them to think of women as lower and lesser in many things. This is the case in many non developed societies. 2. They feel like they have been denied something they desire from women, usually sex or love. This is the case in most developed countries (although non developed too to some extent) and this void is filled with hatred when it is not filled with love.

This guy seems quite green to me. Interesting videos about race and cancel culture. Seemed on the healthier side of green to me, such people are needed more on media.

@AtheisticNonduality Yes i am sure 90 percent of Nicki Minaj youtube views come from horny guys wanting to see her twerk

I am not talking about myself as an individual. I am talking about my generation, it pains me when many people around me feel bad from this shit, especially females (although some guys too they just dont express it much). This may sound as a rant against orange but i see no point for over sexualization.

@Leo Gura True but most guys these days do not see it in this way because of this sexualization bs. They feel worthless because they do not match standards set by the entertainment industry. So what you say is true but because of these standards and vibe that is created it makes them insecure a lot nonetheless. Even the notion of what a high quality guy is has changed in their minds. Tyler says it very well, good looking guys are portratied as very confident and charismatic so if a guy is not handsome he will feel like he should not be confident or charismatic. Most of it is subconscious. Yes, if you do self actualization work and self help it will seem foolish but most young people cannot see that far or deep. What would be the best solution is to remove this extreme sexualization and objectification in general. A lot is really unecessary in telling a good narrative and used as a shameless money grab, ignoring the subtle effects it has on young people. No but you can put a normal looking guy if he is skilled. Even male singers are quite handsome in general these days. I do not recall watching someone's face when i listen to music. Still happens. For females it is 50 times worse cough nicky minaj cough. My rant here is about this whole industry, it is purely disgusting and ruining the self esteem of basically my whole generation (i am a zoomer). So i am fully agreeing on what you said about Tomb Raider ass thing affecting young girls and building up on it to include everyone.

@Fearey Red or orange?

@Leo Gura Which psychadelic would you reccommend a total noob do? I mean i think 5 meo DMT is way too strong for a newbie. Maybe mushrooms or LSD?

@Onecirrus So cute haha! Damn your story encourages me to try LSD too! Wish you the best and thanks for the clarifications.

@Leo Gura Thank you for you advice.

@Leo Gura Yes but you can be naturally introverted and still be social and have social skills. But yes, if you are a hermit or do not like socializing it will be very hard. True, if you work from home or in a very small local environement with not a lot of single women, also bummer. Yes but i would disagree when you are a total noob. As a total noob you naturally have lower standards because you have little experience in general. Just the idea of getting a blowjob blows your mind regardless of who gives it. But yes, it is true that guys these days have low as fuck standards. At least the non-player ones that still get laid a lot. Yes but also they might be emotionally hurt and need some time off. Depends on the case. 100% agree. How do you get over this idea, it bothers me a bit. I try not to think about it but whenever i see someone getting something i really want so easily, especially when they did not do much for it it makes me feel a bit jelous. I am not talking about sex per say, just in general. A better way to ask it, how do you embrace the fact that you have to work more than others to achieve X thing instead of looking it as a curse? I tell myself that the struggle and work will build work ethic and make you stronger person which will translate in other areas of your life. Do you think this is a good attitude? For most people that is ineed the case, agreed.

@Emerald The point of pick up is to give you massive training in developing these things. It is the equivalent of having 1000 training dummies in a video game to develop your skills in it. Not everyone is natural at the stuff you say. A lot of guys suck at flirting and escalating. Personally i am one of them. Therefore such people need to practice A lot, something that regual dating might not offer them. If you are very social person then you can avoid pick up but even talking to a girl in a house party lets say is technically still pick up. Just because this stuff is natural and effortless for you or other guys do not assume it is for all. Do you like a boring intellectual guy that cannot flirt, tease and escalate? That is the case for a lot of guys, that is their "default" state, pick up helps them develop the traits they are lacking.

@AdamR95 Look if you are getting success with 4-6 it means you have something going for you already. I think you fail to attract the more attractive girls because your confidence is too low and your neediness is too high. Maybe your behavior changes a bit in a less attractive manner. The hotter the girl, the more nervous people tend to be, it is normal. So my advice is to be very aware of how you act with the 4-6 girls and translate that behavior on the hotter girls. If you think deeply about it there is 0 reason why a hotter girl should have any more worth or should be any more special. 0 reason. It is just bullshit in your head that makes it seem so. I used to be super intimidated by attractive girls when i was younger until i started befriending some and realized they are normal people just like the rest of us. They have their flaws and everything. This made it a lot easier to see them as people instead of some divine creature.

@Leo Gura May i ask how is it that most guys do like 100 approaches in their entire lifetimes and still manage to get laid/find girlfriends/wives etc if 200 is soo low to even get a girlfriend once? I do not see 99 percent of guys doing 1000 approaches and still they have some degree of success, some more/some less but all can at least find a partner at some point. This is what makes me bit skeptical of the neccesaty of 2000 approaches. I mean none of my friends have done it and still they all got 1 girlfriend at least. They are relatively social and do not suck with girls though so i guess 2000 approaches are needed if you tend to suck with girls/ or not social person at all.

@Emerald You mistake intent. I did not say not to flirt, i said not to play coy. By that i mean not playing games, "dont text him for 4 hours" or "appear like you are not interested", and all of that shit. Flirting is indeed fun but when girls start testing you and doing power struggles/frame wars and all of that shit then it is super annoying. Young girls do this A LOT. It honestly made me uninterested in dating for many years because i do not have nerve to play silly games.

One example of stage-green mob justice going too far and being just retarted. Quite sad in my opinion. Stage green excess is not as bad as blue or orange for sure but it can still damage you. Calling someone sexist and racist for no reason. PS: PLEASE watch the whole video before deciding to comment on this post.

Great video i found from a good youtuber i watch. This is what i would consider stage green dating coach, his results are probably not as good as some of the more manipulative PUAs but overall seems more developed person. He also called Trump an insecure child

@something_else What about "wow this guy is smart and knows so much shit, he seems wise and mature and also has goals/ambition/goals and works hard towards them". Is not this attractive for girls?

@Leo Gura Psychadelics could be used to reform incels just as well as they reform heroin addicts. Endless potential here!! @Onecirrus Amazing story man! Thank you for the explaination. I am curious about two things. First, what is Luci, i did not understand. Secondly, do you try to make friends or also attract girls?

Could you please elbabore a bit more, especially the LSD part? Also where exactly have you been going out and how are you making friends? Your story seems very interesting.

@Etherial Cat Ok, i stand corrected. I use them a bit interchangibly. Change submissive with receptivity and surrender. In my home blue country they seem much healthier than western marriages, maybe middle east is different since my country is from eastern europe. I do not know tbh, i just used my personal experience. Agreed, just tell a female that females are more intuitive and emotional while guys are more logical and pragmatic. They will be offended and say something like : "so you are saying i am less intelligent"? A huge bias we have towards logical while ignoring things like intuition. Sad imo. There is 0 reason why logic is superior to intuition or emotional intelligence yet most people including females believe it so. This is mostly a stage orange issue in general imo than a gender issue, it will be corrected as society moves towards green. I feel like in corporate environements there are plenty of female workers. Keep in mind females also make kids and tend to be more involved in raising them so they cannot do an insane 80 hour workweek like top managers do in most firms, not because they will not be chosen but simply because they do not want to. Marriage age for females has already increased a lot in the west mostly because females have become more career driven. So i think this stuff is moving towards the direction you desire. However if you have a female that is absent from home 24/7 because she works all day it will hurt the child more than if the husband does it. Might be sexist for some but i really believe a child needs a mother more than a father especially on the first years of his life.

@something_else Any ideas how to do this?

@something_else It is not. I just prefer it personally. Around 70 percent of the time or so, the rest you fuck around and make jokes. Totally agreed, however i do not like much the way it is done. Acting like a goofball all the time. You can make jokes and tease without being a goofball. This is much better imo than being a goofball. There is actual meaning to the conversation, not just bullshit empty talk that makes no sense yet there is flirting and tension.

@something_else Social skills are good to have but this "small talk be random and illogical" in conversations seems so pointless to me. I put effort into developing it and made progress and it is somewhat fun but when i think about it it seems so stupid. I prefer intellectual stimulating stuff more than just "illogical dumb shit". Before you come here roasting me, i am doing it regardless and it is somewhat fun but i find it in principle unecessary. You can make jokes without being a goofball. I do not see how being a goofball would aid a female survival either.