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I hate that part of him too, i just dont watch those stuff or just watch it for fun, not taking it seriously. Yes that is what i said. He saw you when you were still in your early phase. May i ask what you mean by hard case newbie? What makes one as such? You use the term a lot.

I did not. The comments about him were not made by me at all. I just made a comment for this clownfest to stop

I saw right now the interview part where he talked about you. He said you were a nice guy but bad at pickup, too intense and creeped girls out. I mean that is his opinion, nothing "bad" per say. Maybe he watched you game at the beginning when you were actually bad or his standards for good are very high and he calls 99.9% "bad". I thought he dissed you but the way he talked about you had no hate nor content like he usually does. Probably becuase you do not claim to be a dating coach unlike others.

How about just learning from John Anthony how to lead and how to handle objections which he is quite good at and ignore the toxic parts? No need to adopt someone's teachings fully. Just take what they are good at, adopt it in a non toxic way and use it to grow yourself.

How about using Tyler for inner game and John for outter game? I have seen videos of both and tbh Tyler inner game stuff is amazing and John Anthony outter game tacticts are spot on. He is the best i have seen when it comes to dealing with logistics which is really important! Some people call John a sociopath but why does that even matter honestly? If his shit works then just use it and stop crying.

@Leo GuraSome of the things i have been actively doing for the last 2 years or so. Working out regularly Meditation regularly for 15-20 mins every day Watching your videos alongisde other channels that deal with self improvment from orange to yellow (too early for turquoise stuff) Working on my studies aka towards my career Trying to be social and talking to people, trying to go on dates, improving small talk and comfort on social situations etc Developing my playfulness, flirting, sense of humour Becoming more positive, understanding and non-judgmental Letting go of anger or hatred. Trying to improve my confidence, self-esteem and self love Learning about things that interest me Anything else i could add? Towards raising value.

@Medhansh I have that also @tashadwoodfall You just feel insecure i guess.

@Nahm I did not understand your comment

@Ulax Thank you, i will try. Appreciate the kind words. I have already done plenty of hard shit in my life though. But i do see your point Well yes i agree but there is some objectivity to it though. If a guy looks like a male model i cannot compete with that. Simple. I am present when i talk to girls, it is just in between that makes me feel bad.

@Knowledge Hoarder Examples of internal ones? @Preety_India I am doing that. Works okay but i live somewhere quite international rn so it is fine. If i have to move in a more local place then i will be surrounded by hot guys and ;(

@Preety_India Trying to look good is not fake. You are not delusional. I got nothing wrong with being confident and loving yourself as shit but if i go in a room and tell myself i am lets say the smartest guy when i am probably not then that is delusional. I am smart- Not delusional. I am the smartest here-Delusional. Difference. To be honest confidence is not a big issue, i am as confident as most guys where i live. Issue is that they fit the "attractive" guy look more than me. Now if they got equally good personality and better looks, i start to feel bit bad.

@Preety_India I know girls that are high consciouss that have great results with guys. It is not true that high consicousness needs to be sacrificed to date. I plan to do what you said regardless. Just the irony is that this will create a chain where some girl here will come crying about how some guy treated her like shit and manipulated her so he could get laid. @Knowledge Hoarder I plan to.

@Preety_India I want to be high consciouss and get great results with girls at the same time One should not compromise the other.

@Bando I hate competition, always have. To me the idea that happiness is derived by others doing worse than me makes me sick to my stomach. I prefer to do my own thing and improve on myself rather than try to outmatch others.@Preety_India Very good point, agreed.

@Preety_India @Emrie Okay i will try to think it in terms of me being more confident, funny and interesting than other guys even though that is probably not true. Deluding myself seems as the only solution. I tend to be very realistic and honest with myself so deluding myself like this is quite fake and annoying for me tbh. I will try regardless.

@Knowledge Hoarder I am not just talking about a club, i dont meet people there. I am talking in general, social circle, house parties etc.

@Preety_India I have yet to reach those level of awakening I will try to block it off my mind though!

Can you be intelligent and still be not that good at hard sciences like math/physics? Personally i am decent at math but nothing special and meh in physics. Ok in stats. Idk why our society equates being good at these things with intelligence. When i grew up in my home country you were called legit stupid if you were bad at math for example.

@Leo Gura All good then, i like the way you talk, similar to mine.

@Leo Gura Basically the way Owen Cook talks on his any of his videos. I cannot be like that. That super energetic way of talking all the time, i can do it for a few minutes and then i get tired and switch to more chill and relaxed. Also the way Tonny Robbins talks and acts, i also find that tiring. If you watch movie reviewers my style would be more Chris Stuckmann versus someone like Jeremy Jahns.

@Leo Gura That is what i have been practicing for years now. What i find most difficult is the energy levels than anything else. Being funny, social, playful, friendly, talkative, emotionally expressive etc are no issues to me anymore. It is being loud and high energy, that is what i struggle with.

I plan to. I tend to be the type of person that is about depth, maturity, understanding, natural curiousity etc but i noticed that these things as great as they are will not be as important as your basic needs getting met. And getting laid as an introvert i find really difficult, MUCH more difficult than making friends and being social. At least recently i ve started going on dates, getting a close call and talking to a lot of girls, so making incremental progress.

Alpha M youtube channel has some decent stuff about grooming. Check him out.

Like for example? Except maybe being more independent and not needing others to recharge i cannot think of anything else.

@Yali INTJ i think (unsure), either that or ISTJ. @hyruga I plan to