Karmadhi

It would be cool if you told us to motivate us a bit because so far all I have seen is limiting belief breaking, more confidence and better skills with girls. Most of these are girl related stuff. I already have good social skills and social intelligence so maybe that is why I have not seen as much benefit as people claim.

I wish more girls thought like you....

I think it is better if you are an introvert and not the best looking guy because daygame focuses less on looks and is better for introverts. Also no competition and girls tend to be nicer when you talk to them (at least from my experience). Just be respectful and cool about it

Also consider doing some daygame. If you are more introverted or not very good looking it works better than night game. Daygame is less looks focused and less extrovert focused than nightgame. Also no bullshit friends to cockblock you and the approach can be a lot more natural and genuine.

It is not "BS", I have seen his phone myself. Many of his matches are decent. Thing is on his pictures he looks good, around a 6.5. Tinder is not as competitive as you make it if you pay for it. Issue is most profiles never get shown to girls.

Hey I wanted to make a thread because I have noticed in the gamer group in my city that a lot of the guys have a lot more results from Tinder than cold approach. Even the ones that are good tend to get a lot of their dates from Tinder because it is a lot more convenient for them. Cold approach: You need to do a few hundred approaches to get some decent skill, very emotional difficult and takes a lot lot of time. Tinder: You have to put some work up front with taking good pictures but then it is like passive income and you just need some decent text scripts which you can buy cheaply these days. Are there any benefits to doing cold approach compared to Tinder? Especially result and quantitiy wise? Maybe you can get a hotter girl from Cold approach if your skills are good but to put hundreds of hours of direct work rather than some basic work when you re taking a shit or going to work, it seems way more efficient to me. It has made me loose a bit of motivation to do cold approach, are there any benefits to it over Tinder which would make worth the insane time and work it takes? Result wise at least. PS: Someone will probably say here that you need to be good looking or something for Tinder to work well and I think that is a bullshit myth which is not true. You need to look good on your PICTURES, very different thing. Most of the guys I know that do good on Tinder are normal looking (not ugly though) and they do very well (at least 1 date per week from it). These same guys used to do horribly on Tinder but once they upgrated to Platnum and got better pro pics their results skyrocketed.

A guy I know in real life has around Owen level SMV and gets 10 matches per day from Tinder and 1-2 dates per week easily and some of those girls are quite cute. I have seen his Tinder profile when I have met him in person. How do you explain this? This SAME guy used to get almost no matches before he changed his pictures which were already professional pictures, they were just not good enough. He also told me paying for Tinder is essential otherwise you ll get nothing.

I used them as example because it is an online source easy to see. It is not these videos that made me change my opinion but that of the people I know in real life. I guess our real life personal experience differs because I have seen normal looking guys do well on Tinder so that is my bias.

Have you used this type of quality pics when you tried Tinder? The whole point of this video is that you can manipulate your looks to look way better than in real life. Girls have been doing it for ages. But tbh I dont think you need online game because you already have decent game and high standards for looks in girls. I didnt say what I said about you. I said it to guys that are just starting out and dont have 5000 approaches so they can use online dating as a supplement to get dating and texting experience and dont have high standards for looks in girls.

That is a bullshit myth I used to also believe until I started talking with some of the gamers in my city that do well with it. They are all normal looking guys and they used to get no results from Tinder. Then they started playing around with their pictures and now get like 10 matches a day. And i have seen some of the girls in their profiles, they are quite cute. Yes they are not 10/10s but most guys do not care about that. They will be happy with a 7/10. Tbh most guys have shit profiles and then complain, also they do not pay for platnum. These guys told me that Free tinder is useless. I have seen their Tinders myself so it is not bullshit, it is legit stuff. Maybe some cities are more competitive, I dont know that. I am just reporting from my experience what I have seen. The whole of Tinder is to look better in the pictures than in real life. If you are a 5/10 in real life with the right pictures you can become a 7/10.

I know many guys that replace girlfriends after a few months because they know people. The idea that you need to talk to 100 girls to get 1 only applies to cold approach, not through warm approach and social circle. Most guys date from social circle and it does not take years, usually months if they are open to it. Also I am talking about a guy with good social skills, not a broken incel that has 0 game. It is so effective that it makes cold approach seem inferior. To me it is the equivalent of taking a plane over walking or 5 meo DMT over meditation. Why walk to another country when you can take a plane to get there faster? Why meditate for 40 years to access truths you can by a few trips of DMT (you have this yourself). Same logic: Why do 100 approaches to get 1 date when you can get it from Tinder while taking a shit at your office? "You need to be handsome to get results from online dating" is a myth, at least to get decent girls. To get legit hot girls it is another story but my argument was about a decent girl, not proper hot girl. Most guys dont care about getting hot girls just like most guys dont care about becoming a millionare, they just want a decent job.

You cannot comprehend how hard it is for most guys to do approaches, especially on evening. Girls can be ruthless af in the evenings. During the day they are way nicer but still many of them can get scared from you and it does not make you feel good. You do realize that dating skills are not the same as pickup skills. You need dating skills but you can develop them from tinder because you will go on dates from it. As long as you are getting a supply of dates then who cares.

That is not the issue of most guys though. Their issue is to get a decent girl (not necessarily super hot) to be with them. This desire to fuck 100 girls is very immature and only applies to specific guys, usually with past traumas. What I meant is to get a girlfriend, date her, become single for some months and find someone else through your normal life. Also, getting laid these days is easier than ever. Just use Tinder, with the right pictures you can get options. I made a whole thread about it but in case you dont have time to read it, I have met many guys in my city (other PUAs) that get like 1-2 dates per week by using Tinder. They are normal looking, they just have very good pictures, pay platnum and have good text game. Also these same guys used to get almost no results until they changed their pictures so it is not like they re these Giga Chads or anything like that.

Some of the most conscious kind caring respectful people in my life, both guys and girls have used Tinder at least once in their lives. People can be curious, lonely, in a bad place etc and give it a shot. Does not mean they used it for a long time.

It gives you massive date experience. If you go on 2 dates per week in 1 month it is already like 10 dates which is massive experience. By cold approach you re lucky to get 1 date a week while spending at least 10 hours a week approaching girls. Yes cold approach will teach you how to do an approach but it does not necessary translate into good dating skills. To develop good dating skills you need to go on a lot of dates which is easier to do on Tinder. Tinder costs 0 time because you can do it while commuting or taking a shit.

Common myth. Almost every single guy and girl I have met has used it at least briefly. Very high value developed conscious people I know have used Tinder. Maybe not for a long time but still did. Half or something of all couples these days met online so it is no longer the case where online dating is used by weird people.

True however the guys i said get like 10 matches a day anyway so it does not matter how picky girls are when you are getting results. If you were meeting like 2 girls a week from it would you even bother still going out and doing approaches?

Most guys socialize and have normal healthy social lives, it is not that simple. Approaching 200 girls a month might work but it is not natural at all, humans never mated by doing mass approaching. They mated by normal socialization like normies do. Yet most normies struggle today more than ever. I ve spoken with dozens of guys that have normal healthy social lives, they all struggle to some extent. The pickup solution may work but it is not natural and does not scale well if everyone does it as you have said it yourself.

Then why good guys struggle with girls a lot more than bad boys? This is not rocket science...

Do you think The Matrix really is after him or its just a narrative?

Considering how much money, influence Tate has he likely will get a reduced sentence if any. He said he donated like 10.000 euros a month to the Church in Romania there which was a powerful institution there, in order to gain influence and power in Romania. He probably did it for cases like these where he would need powerful friends and help to get out of legal trouble. Considering how corrupt Romania is, it wont end up that bad for him. Money and influence in a corrupt country defy all legalilty.

Due to hard work and resourcefulness not because of talent. Any good sources for it? They have many things easier due to natural strengths and talents. Not all things but at least some. For me it is close to none. My only strenghts are hard work and resourcefulness which I don't really consider natural talents.

Hi everyone I have been feeling a bit down these last few days when I did an introspection regarding myself and my accomplishments. Everything in my life that I have achieved I have had to fucking work for and was often in bad circumstances. I am not smart (not dumb either) yet through studying a lot managed to get a full education from one of the best universities in Europe (where I live) I am short and naturally skinny yet managed to build a relatively good body that gets compliments whenever the topic of fitness gets brought up. I am an international where I live (non-EU) and yet managed to get myself a good job and a valid work permit (it is harder to get it as an international). I suck at learning languages yet managed to learn English and now I am learning French (doing B2 level atm). And lastly, I am naturally introverted, shy and managed to create a vast circle of friends (both guys and girls) from different countries, personalities etc to the point where I am fulfilled (from a social point of view). When I was younger people did not want to hang out with me often because of my introversion and that often hurt me a lot. Now I can say it is relatively fixed (from friendship and social stuff perspective) Now I am trying to improve my skills with girls, getting used to cold approach, flirting and making moves (I sucked at all of these, still do but less due to practice). I intend to make it a focus of my life for the next year since the other domains have been taken care off. Even here, I am not good looking (prolly average), short, dark skinned and also introverted naturally (not high energy) and naturally scared to approach (am working on fixing it). However, whenever I hear people talk about themselves and stuff I get this feeling like I am innately worthless. Like I have no strengths, no talents, nothing. The only "talent" u can say I have is resourcefulness (good problem solver for my life issues) and open-mindness (ability to shift paradigms etc relatively easy for someone my age). Also natural curiousity since I was young, I always enjoyed learning about new things and currently I have developed a reading habit where I read 10 pages every day (never miss them) and will bump it up to 15 pages , it adds to around 15-20 books per year. It makes me feel sometimes like I am shit. I just wanted to share this. Love you all

Dude you dont need to do game if you are a university student. Just be social at university, dont be a book nerd that studies all the time. Go to university events, join clubs, go to parties, talk to people in class, talk to people in campus etc. SOOOO MANYYY ways to meet people at university, no need to do the classic pickup on the streets or in nightclubs. I do not know how university is organized but just try to be social and active in the university life. You will meet tons of people and will get chances to go out with girls based on that.

Thanks man Years at this point. Yes I use instagram. How do you do that? Thanks man appreciate it Thanks for the share