Karmadhi

How is it that a well articulated developed person like Obama was involved in a lot more wars that killed a lot of innocent civilians compared to Trump. I read that he is the only president in a while that did not cause any wars. So from a matter of saving human lives was he better? I read Obama tried to improve relations with the Middle East but he also bullied Libya because of economic interest, ruined that country and also was very involved in Syria which also messed up that country. How is that such a wise president bullied a lot more than an idiot like Trump? Maybe Obama was a better president for the USA but not for other countries? I am not American not like Trump btw but every time I defend Obama the war argument gets started and I get told you cannot defend someone that killed innocent kids.

I am not American so i am writting this from an outsider perspective (I live in Western Europe). I have seen so many blunder videos of Biden followed up with this cringe Joe Biden: “I Love Kids Jumping On My Lap” - YouTube. It makes me think is this really how bad USA politics are? They cannot put a sane, mentally stable guy that knows in what planet he is and can articulate himself properly for 1 hour without saying dumb shit? No offense to Biden, he is old and age can do all sorts of things. I am sure he was capable when he was younger. But since the democratic party is huge, how hard is it to put a normal guy as President?? I am not comparing him with Trump here, but with other political candidates the democratic party can bring. Personally I really really liked Sanders proposals but I assume he is too green for current America so he could not win. Fine. So maybe another less green mentally stable guy? How hard is that seriously!

Is your condition genetic or caused by specific foods you ate during your life? I remember you saying veggies caused you the most pain and it scares me whether I should eat veggies or not. I have done some research and many claim carnivore diet is better for human health since there are less toxins in meat and fruits than veggies. Your condition seems to be further proof of that (meat makes you feel way better than veggies). Did veggies cause your condition? Or fast food you ate when you were way younger? I have been made to believe all my life that veggies are good for heath but now I am unsure, especially for long term stuff which you cannot judge simply by telling how you feel in the moment.

From my personal experience it matters a lot on the environment and age of the girl (obviously) I would avoid 20 year old girls in clubs compared to a girl reading a book in a park or out during her day. There is a direct correlation I find between depthless/maturity and being a club regular girl. Almost all wise mature girls I met rarely go to clubs (sometimes for fun or for an occasion) but not regularly. It makes no sense to me why going to a place where you move to music tends to attract immature shallow girls but it just does. Like shit attract flies as you say. Being shallow and dumb gets rewarded much more on such places. I have personally experienced it when trying to nightgame (bars are a lot more different, im talking clubs specifically) compared to meeting girls in other places. If you are going to a club to meet mature wise girls is the equivalent of going to a gym to meet spiritual people. It can happen of course but the center of gravity is the opposite.

Of course, he has insane charisma and is very entertaining and funny. Why else would he have so much following and fans? It is not like he is inventing the wheel with self help advice, most of it is rehearsed except a few nuggets like "the only thing you have genioune control over is your mind", love that one. Really helps me. Why he has 100x more fame than other self help masculine orange guys? Because of charisma! It is really sad his good teachings are overlooked because of his bad actions.

Went out yesterday and was chilling with some friends walking around in the city center and they tried to push me to talk to some girls. I had not done it in like 5 months and the anxiety was insane, managed to talk to like 1 after pussying out many times. How can I make this less painful, especially at the start?

It works because women are way pickier than guys. "Just be yourself bro". "Just be confident bro". What was his authentic personality like?

Most of pickup I see is coercion when it comes to actually getting results (outside of simply approaching and having a good conversation). "I am not sure about this" "Yes it is ok no worries, all good, come along" "Hmmm not sure" "Yes all good, come come" This feels like high pressure sales, it works but it is based on you being super pushy. Also I am not saying personality is not important but not for attraction. Comfort, rapport, intimacy and love are personality based. However attraction is what most guys struggle with, including myself. And that is quite looks based. I have no issues with comfort rapport love etc.

Doing 400 approaches to get 1 girl is suffering. That does not make girls give me choosing signals, the video is over exaggeration obviously but I very rarely have girls be interested right off the bat when I talk to them. They are usually indifferent at first. Having to "win them over" with my "personality" makes me feel unattractive. Especially when I see lame af guys have girls interested in them just because of how they look. I am not saying crazy attention like you are a celebrity but more lowkey attention sometimes like "Oh who is your friend :p" type of thing. In a masochistic way yes.

Just saw this and made me lowkey feel like shit. How to get over the fact that I will never feel desired even 1/10 of this and even if I get a girl it will be through a lot of work and suffering and time invested?

Do social circle. It is more healthy and natural for most guys. Pickup is best for socially clueless people to learn how to socialize, ball=less guys to develop some courage and assertivness or people with sex addiction to satisfy their low consciousness desire to only fuck hot girls in big quantities. If you do not find yourself in one of these groups, maybe look into online dating or social circle. By pickup I mean going out just to talk to girls and spam approach 30 girls.

@somegirl Why do you dislike him so much though? Why so much hate towards him? I would say 70% of what he says is facts and 30% toxic bullshit. Piers Morgan who interviewed him twice said something similar.

@somegirl We wouldnt work out then

Do guys approach you during day? I feel like they tend to be higher quality than guys that approach during evening (they usually just wanna fuck).

It is about girls being picky about not important stuff rather than judging stuff that is actually relevant (wisdom, consciousness, love, kindness, integrity, independence etc). However girls ignore these mostly (with exceptions). Well you mentioned abs, I mentioned big arms This is more realistic

So someone having 16 inch arms versus 14 inch would decrease the happiness of what you can build together? I am all for guys being in good shape (I am myself) but your back/arm size dictating how happy you are with someone is just absurd. Imagine a guy not dating a girl because her boobs are small. Ridiculous.

@somegirl Many guys are quite selfish so it is a standard worth having. You would not like it if he cheats on you, would you? Lol Muscles and abs you can build but face wise maybe 10 percent of guys are properly "handsome". So therefore asking for a handsome face is quite picky. If it is just muscles with a decent face then it is more realistic since you have way more built guys than handsome guys. Makes sense and sounds good

Sure but then dont complain here when your pickiness causes you suffering. You are creating your own problem.

Lower your standards. You do not need to find the perfect guy to be happy, it is about what you build together that matters. Way too picky. Also where is kindness here or is that irrelevant to you? c Why handsome? Why not decent looking? Most guys are not handsome but many are decent looking. Also how ambitious and adventures are you talking about?

I know conscious guys that get girls, the thing is that a conscious guy will not fuck a different girl every week and desire a 100+ laycount the way those sociopathic PUAs usually do. Yes being a sociopathic narcissists gets you girls but it is only important when it comes to being a player with big laycount. A conscious wise guy can get himself a girlfriend and stay with her for many years. I know such guys personally. Desiring to have a harem of 9/10s is a low conscious mindset itself so of course you need to be low conscious person to achieve it. A conscious person will get himself a decent looking (not instagram model hot) looking girl and build a powerful relationship with her for years. You do not need to be a sociopathic narcissist to pull that off. Also it depends on the girl, some girls reward low conscious behavior more than others.

@Leo Gura Then why is this demonized so much in Western World and called toxic, controlling etc? Just saying a guy leads and the girls follows his lead will get you labeled as a mysogonistic toxic man and canceled. You have no idea how much inner work I had to do and still do to unwire the idea that leading and being dominant assertive regarding dating stuff does not make me a bad person or toxic or an asshole etc. Basically correcting meekness imposed by society to "fit in" and be a "good boy". It is sad really.

Being genuine, comfortable and positive is the difference between those two. Sure, good for you. Do what works well and what is comfortable with you. I am not shitting on nightgame, it can work great for many people. My issue is that it is not the ideal for EVERYONE and you seem to say that it is objectively better (it is not). Just like the sea is better for fish but worse for monkeys. Well for myself I had many girls be super closed off, annoyed or straight out ask me "Why are you talking to me" or "Why do you care" when I approached them during nightgame. Also many were quite nice and positive so it depends. However proportionate speaking, during day girls were less like this (cold or closed or "why are you talking to me"). Often they just tell you politely I need to go somewhere but thanks for talking to me. Then dont do it. But no need to shit on daygame in every comment you make. Just because you do not like it does not mean it is invalid and should be erased. I can assure you for many guys their chance of creeping a girl out during nightgame is higher than during day just because that is how they are. For others it will be the opposite (I assume you are on the second group). People are different (my main point). But to be more helpful to the argument, I asked many of my female friends about their experiences being approached during day and usually I noticed that the negative experiences were either catcalling, being followed, or guys not accepting rejection (I have a boyfriend etc) and kept on insisting to the point it got uncomfortable. "Oh this guy gave me a compliment with a genioune smile and then when I told him I was not interested he politely wished me a good day and left", said no girl ever. I will give you two examples my two different female friends told me to show you the actual stuff that makes girls uncomfortable. Situation 1: Girl: I have a boyfriend (she really does) Guy: Do not worry, I am not the jealous type. I do not see him with you, show him to me. I want proof. Situation 2: Girl: I have a boyfriend (she really does). Guy: What age does he have? Girl: Says age Guy: Oh i see you are into older men, they are better in bed arent they? So yeah this is the shit that creeps girls out not the example I wrote above. But personally personally I am not a big fan of approaching walking girls in the street. Girls in parks, squares, sitting somewhere or waiting in a corner standing are way better because they are already either bored or not doing anything at least for the next few minutes (more open and less intrusive).

There is no need to tell them that however I think it is better to actually have a place you are going to and approach on your way. Then you can tell them I was going here and saw you and you are technically not lying per say. I have done that and worked great. Also as I said you can hang out with a buddy and walk around and approach (I was chilling with my friend when I saw you). I think in this way it is a lot less creepy. I agree with the bike part though. Sure it can work but from my experience of guys I know doing it during day can work also (you need to be advanced though). Also you are convinently ignoring the fact that girls tend to be way more rude when you approach them in bars/clubs because they get spammed approach by guys that just want to fuck (huge turn off for girls that wants a relationship). I have female friends that told me I would rather be approached during the day (in a respectful way ofc) then in a club because I feel like guys in a club just want to smash. If it was this creepy then girls would react badly on daygame approaches when they are actually not less nice than during evening. A high value guy does not need to cold approach in general. He can date using his cloud and social connections. Going in a bar and spam approach 20 girls is not necessary for a "high value" guy. However most people do not have that level of social connections nor status hence cold approach (bars/clubs/day) can be useful. Go out and ask couples how they met. Rarely you will hear (I cold approached her in a bar or club nor during day for that matter). Usually you will get either from: work, school, hobbies, common friends, events, online dating, instagram). Especially with our generation (im 24). Sure many hook up in parties and clubs but personally I only count relationship based stuff, so how did couples meet, not how did this guy/girl get laid. One night stands are irrelevant to me. But that is just me. Or just use online dating. It can work insanely well if you know what you are doing (good pictures and texting). Social circle and hobbies are also amaizing, most of my dates are from that however it is quite limited and you need to be careful not coming off as the guy that hits on everyone.

You should really make a video on how to be "boss" and "leader" without becoming a toxic devil. I feel like many young guys, myself included really struggle with being like this due to modern society enforcing us to be meek, soft and not "toxic masculine". Dominance is one of the most attractive qualities in a male yet it is shamed the most and hence it is lost in our young generation. (hence incels).

Then daygame is better for you. Happy that it is working well for you, keep doing it. Nightgame I find has an extreme bias towards masculine looking big guys, high energy extroversion and shallow talk. If you are cute looking low energy introvert with good eloquence (like me) then daygame tends to be better No reason to torture yourself when you can be in your best suited habitat.