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I totally agree with @Leo Gura and @Thought Art. You're missing a lot of the big picture. I'd watch the video above intently. Good luck, bruh.

Understood. @Preety_India, How do you know he's a troll if he has not posted anything to troll anyone? Do you mean someone DM'ed you and is harrassing you but that person hasn't got any posts? If that's the case, I think you can still report them to the Mods or Leo, maybe they have access on the servers of private DMs between members, or at least Leo does. I'm not totally sure.

Yes, it is my personality. No, I don't think others hold me back, I can be sociable and symbiotic but I don't need to be surrounded with a lot of people.

Lmao

Got it. Cheers.

@Forestluv Oh, so you mean, they try to scam an individual by posting on their very old thread, and then that person checks out who replied to them after 7 months or more and say "Wow, someone still remembers my thread, that's thoughtful. Oh wait, what's this link? Let me check it out. Oh wow, that's a great sale, I'll buy this product/service", then they get scammed, is that what you mean?

LOL

But @Leo Gura, That doesn't make sense to me, why would they want to put a link on a website without anyone noticing or without anyone clicking on them? Is it because of Google Crawlers when they crawl Actualized.org and find their link on it and then index the links in the organic search?

Honestly, I wouldn't like that at all, it would be a horrible time for me. I'd be very terrified of knowing how I'm going to die and it'd be very stressful and I'd die miserably.

You're not alone.

I see @Forestluv Thanks for answering my question.

@Forestluv Bump it up, in SEO terms you mean? Make it visible on page 1, right? So they put links, maybe even malicious ones, by hijacking SEO-centric terminologies of topics so that people check them out, correct?

@Leo Gura @andyjohnsonman @Moksha I'm a bit confused Leo, how are commentators on any thread that is older than 6 months spamming or stealthy?

Anyone who can prolong my survival. But mostly, I'm independent, so I don't surround myself with a lot of people.

No and I don't want kids now. Maybe in the future I'll change my mind, maybe not.

I learned a lot of lessons, but the lesson that I will mention here is simply that: Nothing really matters. To illustrate, whatever happens to me or the world, things will move on and the universe will keep expanding. I know it's abstract but this realization gives me comfort sometimes when I can zoom out and see the meta, big picture perspective of the transpiring events which are unfolding.

The reason for me is that I want to see how people think, what they've got going on in their lives and try to resonate with them, maybe even to the point of agreeing with them based on my biased agenda, but I still try to be impartial. Also, I like to read Leo's replies to others and his posts to see how he thinks and sometimes I find his style attractive to me that I emulate and implement it in my life if I find it desirable to my survival. There's also a sense of community to feel that you're not alone and that you can talk to people who are accepting and honest, but of course there are many exceptions of toxicity and disingenuousness, which is natural.

Interesting advice.

Vaush's take on the movie is mentioned in the beginning of the video (Couldn't timestamp cause I'm watching the live stream):

He engages on the Forum a lot. That's all I know.

Life's hard @Preety_India. Accept it, move on towards your goals in life and don't give up on yourself. This is what I personally found effective.

Listen @Ima Freeman, Obviously, you're not alone in this. Other people have problems like the ones you just described. My advice to you is quite simple and without equivocation: Let go of the those thoughts and let go of the past. How to let go? Well that is a long and winding road you have to take in order to figure out mechanisms that work for you and apply yourself on them. But at least, for a start, I would link you these two videos of Leo addressing this situation, but this is not enough, you have to also seek professional help and know that no one is going to get you out of this hole but you, so practice lots of techniques until you find out what works for you and get yourself out of this:

This is off-topic here @Preety_India, but I have been meaning to ask you, are you by any chance an ENFJ/ESFJ?

I agree with you on the fact that you have to screen the potential romantic counterpart first to feel if their "vibe" jibes with yours before going forward. I get it @Preety_India.