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and rogan president of the u.s., everything will be fine j/k

Thanks guys, great answers and something to ponder about A few examples would be: For example walking on a narrow sidewalk and for example a woman is going to pass me, then i might feel uncomfortable that she might feel uncomfortable. Or for example i'm looking at someone could be in public transport etc. could be a woman, an anxious guy, a black person, a tourist or whatever, then i might think if i look at them they'll feel judged or whatever and then feel uncomfortable. Or there is a woman in public transport next to me for example and we road the pt for like 15 minutes and seen each other, then she presses the button to stop at the same stop i should get out, then i might think if i go out now too she might feel uncomfortable and feel "stalked" or whatever, i might even go to the next station to avoid that (those stations are short anyway and i'm between two stations so it doesn't really matter which one i take) with dating stuff, approaching could make her uncomfortable. but especially making it sexual i fear might make her uncomfortable because it puts her on the spot, so then i often avoid doing that and wait until she makes it sexual which obviously also isn't great.

i just try to "heal" myself if that's successful then i also have some other ideas for doing "good"

Ok thanks. Do you think getting triggered also has something to do with which stage you are. Like a lower stage is getting triggered more easily because they're defending an ideology or feel attacked. Or could stage yellow also be getting triggered the same and it has more to do with personality etc. than with an sp stage.

do other stages not do that or much less frequently?

we also have them in europe in my country guys silly argument but i agree with the spaciousness in the u.s. suburbs, that's pretty cool in some ways if you like a lot of privacy, bad for public transport though

watching this but it's probably the worst debate ever

she cheated when she did a year abroad or so i think

what i dislike or find complicated in friendships is when i feel i'm the one trying to call/meet whatever and too not much coming back like i hate if i feel like i'm the one who has to run after other people, then i'll probably just delete the number but then it's probably no real friendship anyways more like friendshit

i mean they have been together since high school and now in their mid 30s when they both once cheated and got it out of the way, why not seems fine

nice i like it

have been seeing the 22:22 often in recent years have been seeing a lot of street lamps turn off but i guess that doesn't count as synchronicity an other few small things other than that not so much

that makes sense i also don't know too much about him, have seen a few clips with him seems a bit grifter-ish but i'd like to hear his own views about the particular subject

it might not necessarily be important for strict survival like food and shelter but it's still quite important if you want to have loving relationships, a stable job, maybe a promotion etc., right?

that makes sense

that's why i jumped into the discussion in the first place, i was triggered by him calling everybody names and reacted i have no problem with his opening post, i also don't have a problem with him asking leo about the n word. that's ok if he was shocked when he heard it and wanted to hear leo's thoughts.

the guy is just attacking, guilt tripping, shaming etc. people thinking he's always right because he's the "victim" don't fall for it, it's bs also i'll admit my devilries but not to a narcissistic bs'er at least have decency i do understand that it's coming from pain, so i don't hate him or anything, it's fine but i'll not accept it and not talk back

that's ridiculous. how is he nuanced when he attacked like 60% of the forum you included. and he's "protected" by bajapuskas because he likes it when people talk more about "racism"

^^ @bejapuskas can you give the guy warning points for calling me a white supremacist like 20 times? thanks pal

yea but it's ingrained in a way, it's nature it's a scarcity thing

two things does the entire world for example treat Russian, Ukrainian etc. street kids in their respective countries "as if they were under special protection" ? does the entire world care about white drug addicts or whatever? hugely ignorant statement imo and shouldn't be mod worthy also the op imo didn't come to learn and have a discussion or whatever he mostly came to attack, lash out and blame imo but it's fine, it's whatever agree to disagree, i'll move on and stop discussing this "issue" on this forum

yup you come in swinging at everybody i'll likely swing back you can't go into a topic/forum disrespect most people, call them names and whatever and then go to the mods and complain "racism" this was a good post by whatever addressing the guitar guy in another topic imo "I tend to not agree on a lot with people on this forum but think here you are on your way becoming what you are fighting against. "You wouldnt know unless you are one" kills any dialogue between you and others and dismissess any attempts to understand eachother. It also assumes moral high ground simply because you found a opressed minority to belong to. This could be any ethnicity, feminism, disability etc. This is the turn culture has taken, being victim has become a power position. Jesus sayd that "he who is without sin shall cast the first stone", nobody threw stones that day on a victim in center of a lynch mob. Now rocks are thrown to all direction from the center and by stating perfect victimhood, you also conviniently free yourself from any responsibility. Your a victim, what can you do, right? This is quite counterproductive for any real cause you might have. Creating safe places from differrnt ideas, trigger warnings etc. Treats traumatised people like they are special protection areas that needs to be isolated from the scary world. But this doesnt prepare them to scary world. Their trust in their ability to to co operate with scary challenging world needs to be restored instead. Thats what I think anyway."

i got points too. but i don't necessarily agree with it. when asked bejapuskas to elaborate he told me i said for example making threads about racism is racist, which i didn't say. it's fine though whatever