PurpleTree

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  1. have you tried metta (loving kindness) meditations?
  2. probably not the worst but maybe the most annoying : P
  3. If a white woman wants to just date white men because of similar background and feeling of safety, would you think it's totally fine or kind of racist?
  4. Growing up as an only child with a single mother, grandparents died when i was young, it is sometimes a weird relationship. And she was often not very mentally stable (Well she was more stable than some of the other single mothers in my street, but some of those "children" are dead or in jail) I'd say our relationship is 70% good and 30% toxic. We're both sensitive which can cause a lot of fights. We fought a lot and even now in my 30s we can get into a heated non friendly argument quite easy. But she's also trustworthy imo and has mostly a good heart. Her birthday is one day after mine, both capricorns for what it's worth. I'm also scared when something happens to my her or she dies because then basically my whole family is gone. Remember as a kid i saw her have her first epileptic seizure while only the two of us were travelling in another country, think i was traumatised. Anyway what's your relationship with your mother? Didn't know where to put this
  5. those things change over time imagine how it was 100 yrs ago look how it is now imagine how it is in a 100 yrs (probably nobody will really care)
  6. growing up there were also a few (white girls) who only wanted black guys there are also many black girls who only want black guys so it goes both (all) ways how to deal with it? i mean you just have to accept peoples preferences in some ways. i think race shouldn't be a huge factor in getting into a relationship
  7. the thing is with questions like these or even abortion etc. there isn't really a right answer and a wrong answer, it's all just opinions, so we can get trapped in those discussions for ever and ever and it's impossible for everybody to be happy
  8. Yea i also want to buy a book with Rumis poetry not yet sure which one
  9. it's a song by haddaway
  10. Yea that's a terrible argument imo. Killing people because of money? That might be even worse than for revenge or equally bad. now you're thinking
  11. hihi yea i guess so glad i'm off social media everybody's so triggered
  12. omg so explosive i think it's more just smoke and mirrors to distract from much more "important" issues
  13. - they can also decide for themselves if it's a majority or all of them i have no saying in the matter - when they speak out - don't care
  14. imo women have to say if they want trans people in their bathrooms or not personally i don't really care nor do i know enough about the subject to have an real opinion
  15. Would you also inject the poison into a murderer/rapist etc. or press the button yourself?
  16. ok then who besides murderers should be "eliminated" because we don't want to feed them for decades and they're a danger to society? rapists?pedos? cutting thieves hands of would also be a pretty neat idea let's just revert back to a better time (the dark ages, medieval times) : P hihi muricans
  17. ok i'm still unsure if i should try it or not you seem very unsure whether it helped or not and put a lot of time, work and energy in it 72 hours seem very doable but only one round probably wouldn't help a lot spaced out feeling, lack of focus etc. were probably because of sleep deprivation right?
  18. body scanning eft hypnosis sleep audios sleep sounds etc.
  19. maybe because it was kind of sold to people as a twice shot and done thing and now it could turn into endless shots, which many people aren't willing to do also one person who told me had horrible reactions to the second shot, so now she would be scared to get another shot
  20. Quite many people told me if there is a third or more shots, they won't take it. How do you feel about getting a third or more shots?
  21. Yea i think so that's part of it, because i'm easily stressed and anxious which is kind of exhausting. Yea i do normally eat in those "healthy" more holistic ways. But then because i still have gut issues, stress issues and fatigue i try different more restrictive diets, which do help in some ways but they're often not longterm solutions imo.