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We men are sex machines, it can take me basically less than a minute to get there using my own hand if I want to, yet women on the other hand are hard to reach there. In good days it would take me more than 10 minutes of rubbing on a woman's clitoris to reach there. As a result of that, men cannot think straight and can be stimulated by anything, even a small chat with a female online can make my little buddy start throbbing and asking to meet my hand! Ironically I've been taking two very simple supplements lately that are supposed to help with the sexual drive for men, at least one of them Meca root, and when I take them combined, I feel like my capacity for love and romance increases, while my erotic desire decreases. Even though Meca is like a natural Viagra, and it helps me have and sustain an erection easily, but then I don't feel the urge to work on that and get to where I usually want to get. The other herb is Fenugreek. I've tried it alone, and it works on your libido. If you take enough of it, it can make you shiver if you start to touch yourself. Yet combined with the Meca root, I find myself a bit more stable of a person, almost like a woman is, and I am able to have better conversation with women, without the urge to get there fast! My theory that this expands my love capacity while simultaneously decreasing my erotic desire. I am suddenly treating a woman with more compassion and love! and seeing her less of a sex object, while at the same time feeling great and having good time with her. This applies on online relationships for now, cuz I still live alone with no girl basically.

Hi Leo, Thank you for the solipsism video, it was amazing as usual, and a great comeback. Here's the deal: - The idea of no other will not likely create monsters out of your followers. -There's a low chance that those who don't follow your work will be able to take what you say in that video seriously. -You've now created a legend, and people might take the video and re-upload it again, this is the Internet man! while if you've just put it, it can hide in plain sight and almost become invisible and everybody forget about it. -Seriously there's little out of the ordinary in that video. -I am now capable of loving others more after I watched it! Cuz they are an illusion, therefore my tolerance for their BS will be greater, my hate and triggering rate to them will be lower. -I won't be wasting my time trying to be extra nice to people whom I know deep down inside that they are closed-minded. -I mean you've mentioned that life is meaningless, and for me that was the big one which got me more. -The world needs your work still, I need your work to compensate for the dark years of "my past". - The impact of the video will likely be forgotten after a while by those who are unable to do trips. I already forgot so much of what you've teached in the past, and only remember what you iterate. -You can't just forgot about what you shared here, and it will be integrated with your next videos, with so many having no clue of what you're talking about (Imagine if you withdrew the Spiral Dynamic Series) Bonus Reason: - It brings a slight concern that you've deleted something you've uploaded earlier. Makes me think that one day you might wake up, have a new awakening and delete all your work. I go back sometimes to your old videos and I refresh what I've missed. It is not enough to get the most of them by simply watching them once, and there are some stuff you've collected and put out there that many of us simply are lacking the time and skills needed to go and collect them and organize them again the way you've done here.

No I am not what are you talking about?

Iraq was never blue in its history probably. At the most cases, it was under red leadership disguised as blue (Saddam Hussain) but then it regressed basically to a modern version of Purple right now. Adjacent houses with high walls, no community organizations, tribalism, you name it, only with added flavor of modern technology, and crappy copies of western educational universites.

@Leo Gura you've put much love in trying to reason with him, and showed much love with taking your time writing this post. From the conversation that you had it became clear that he doesn't want to stay, yet he's unable to put it in words.. or probably he's on psychedelics probably most of times? Or Stage Torquise? Who knows! I admit I was trying my best to understand what he means when he was replying to my posts. Most of times I fail.

Iraq, Once More, There's this notion in people's mind that progress can or should happen automatically. Iraq today is a collection of homes, with no real sense of community. Mosque isn't a community, it helps people gathering five times a day, but it is pretty much useless. In a sense, Iraq is in a modern version of stage-purple, where people live in small communities (mainly homes and houses), even within the cities, but they have been introduced to modern technology, cars, electricity, medicine, you name it. They have incorporated this technology in their lives while keeping the other aspects of their belief systems intact. The push to freedom is needed, and who's better to do it than the USA? These traditions of freedoms that this country enjoyed needs to be pushed and imposed on other countries as well. The US doesn't need to develop further and adopt socialism like the Scandinavian countries, but they need to keep pushing freedom worldwide Bush style. The modern social countries at the first place wouldn't exist without the new world order that's sponsored by the US for the past 75 years or so. The US needs to shove freedom down other's throats, because the modern technology is making people's lives miserable, they now have the means to proliferate and thrive thanks to the capitalism which made survival less challenging, while keeping the same old belief systems. That's the ultimate hell! Stage green people don't care about the advancement of a community or a country, all they care about is for the latter to have the appearance that they are functioning well, yet truth is that staying afloat is not even achievable without the development of societies of any given country. Why as a stage-green person care for a country to appear functioning, you feel the guilt of any consequences of an invasion or an intervention, while you know deep down in you is that if the society of that country isn't developed, they're going to regress back again and cause suffering for themselves in endless possible ways? If anything, this approach is keeping countries in a bottle neck, preventing their advancement to new better life. People should start caring about dilemmas equally, allocating the same amount of care to decentralization in North Korea for example, as well as expanding freedoms of free speech in Iraq. Why is it different that people are afraid of nukes, while not afraid of absence of freedoms in other countries? are they truly believing in borders? because if so, then 9/11 proven that borders won't even protect you unless everybody is having similar values as you or your country do. Nothing will protect you unless you share the love that you have, that's freedoms with others, in a masculine type of style sometimes if necessary. Or else, just stop selling technology for people immediately, isolate them, take their countries and borders recognition back, and grant them the freedom back to start to develop naturally, instead of shoving technologies down their throat, and hindering their natural course of development, and then sending money through NGOs to deal with the disasters that this situation helped to create.

Maybe this manipulation is needed to keep the country afloat? last time the US wasn't in the leading nation of the world we had a World War going on! Imagine if someone as Bernie reaches the white house!

@Ash55 Hi there, I am from Iraq. Don't get discouraged by your surroundings, Keep watching Leo, develop your personality, get high self-esteem. forget about meeting stage Turquoise people, instead you need to meet stage-orange people, businessmen, because you need to get your financial situation handled. Good luck

I've found out that in today's world, I don't worth anything to anybody unless I mean something to them, and I sometimes feel sad about that, because in certain moments, when everything is crumbling around me, find myself barely surviving day to day and struggling, taking care of my body and physical existence, while at that moment of weakness, I am unable to 'mean' anything to anybody. Also I found out that it is easy to get someone's attention when you try to cater for their values, you really start to mean something to them, which opens the door for me to establish new relationships after showing some interest in their values, but again, I feel like I am lying inside, and I am sort of putting a mask, or using others' weaknesess in order to gain such relationships In the lights of the above, the idea of unconditional Love starts to play in my head, and I feel grateful today that I am able to love more lately, especially when growing and consuming quality content from Actualized.org, I can now see how narrow the love of people around me is, and also be able to expand my 'love domain' or capacity to be able to love things/people around me, even though they mean little to me.

I just finished the how to get laid episode, and there's something in me that prompted me to object on this work. I think you should have stated clearly that that your advice work in some countries, not everywhere. Your Pakistani prince guy would never be able to score in Pakistan or in Iraq, but he had to come to a more liberal place. If you had to leave Dallas for Vegas to get more quality girls, then people in many other parts of the world should simply give up. The structure of the society determines if this works or not. Women at stage blue or lower will have the morality filters, and they become numb to pick up attempts. I met a British girl few months back and she was a Muslim, we went out and she started to talk how she loves children and how her Muslim mother always reminds her that the clock is ticking, just out of nowhere she was talking about children, and her mother checking if I am interested to marry her and have children with her, and this is not an Iraqi girl, but born and raised in the UK but still tied to family concepts. For Iraqi girl, she would never ever let you sleep with her until you marry her. Your advice work more on stage-orange, and above, and even if someone like me tries to go out and approach 30 women per week, they will most likely be stage-blue, with families, mother, father, a tribe, and we will talk needlessly on the phone cuz she can't go outside her home without a solid execuse, It will be impossible to go anywhere or achieve anything in life let alone having sex so it is a waste of time.

Looking back to that, I think that he might have absolutely no idea that love and marriage are separate things. He was thirty, his family ran into my mother's family by chance, two visit exchanged between the families, and someone, probably his father or his mother said to him let's ask for my mom's hand, and then their love story began, then marriage, then having children. So he might not known other path at all. He sure never spoken or gave validity to other methods, I've never heard him say "lover" for example

@Happy Lizard Thank you for sharing it. I am hoping I'll get good value with live example that's close to my living circumstance

It is precisely how you described it, but probably saying so because I've been fed through media the things that I've been fed. How do you know about the process that you've described? I mean it is Spiral Dynamics, but where can I find what you've mentioned? These concept can help me with inspiring the change where I live.

FIY, when you are 12 years old, you are segregated after finishing elementary school. You loose your female friends, the few of them who at one point in time liked you, you don't see them anymore forever sometimes, then at the secondary school, your hormones kicks in, and you become crazy, cause there's no way to meet a girl, not a girl you like, but any girl at all. You're doomed if you're socially without skills. Love is a forbidden word, liking someone becomes forbidden to you. One time I summoned the courage and told my dad that I like someone, he kept silent, we drove for a while, then he uttered "you are too young for this thing". I've been driven crazy at some point in my life. The morality was a big wall against me, and my lack of social skills back then didn't help.

The concept of dating means a girl has a freedom to talk to whomever she wants, go out with whomever she wants. In countries like Iraq, the structure of society keeps an eye on a girl 24/7 she cannot go with whomever she wants, not even to drink a coffee in the middle of the day. Some will still try, they might have jobs and can steal an hour and go out, or maybe they are students, but in all cases they have to hide that from their families. And did I mention, singles are not allowed to rent homes, nor hotel rooms. In most iraqi societies, a man can only go out with a girl after they are officially engaged. Engagement comes prior to everything. You can't take a girl out for a coffee unless there is a session for the tribe where her mother, father, uncle brother.... Etc approve you as a future husband. Even engagement has a different meaning, it is not like you propose to a girl, but it is an approval process by the family and tribe upon formal request by your family to the girl's family.

Lol, I am pretty sure these terms are irrelevant, so I am a westerner now right

@Leo Gura I have so much trauma in my relationship with women that I just want to start crying if I think to write about that. I could write a book about how 90% of people I knew personally have fucked my psychology when it comes to this part of my life. I've had tons of observations also, and yes I feel extremely lucky to have access to your videos and get to watch them as you get them out. My latest attempt to get laid is to is to work on a long-term strategy to get laid cuz that I realized that I have to work on my seduction abilities, and for me it is a war-like situation, a game of the mind, it has very little to do with appearance, or how you carry yourself, confidence..etc cuz when talking about the things a women needs from a man, providing protection, food, shelter..etc, it seems like iterating mainstream sort of ideas and conventional wisdom which in my opinion hardly works outside liberal societies because what happens in societies like mine (the rest of the world) is that you lose the openness of women that they do enjoy in liberal societies in many different ways, even though there's night life in some under-developped countries, it is not for everybody, but a very small strip of the society.

I am pretty sure it dating is a Western concept. My grandfather, my father, and my married brother did not date, and me, I watched hundreds of western movies when I was a teenager, but couldn't figure out precisely what dating is, until I met up personally with people from the west, saw this in my own eyes happening, this is when I learned what's dating is all about.

Someone has to write about this. Is this a comedy sketch? Facebook changed its brand name to Meta https://youtu.be/vP1h2Hzgyzg One of the most unfavored websites to Leo adopts the label of one the most loved concept to him.. Sometimes your worst nightmares come to live!

Noted.

Few months back, and while I was trying to sleep, I suddenly been shifted/visited/transformed into a completely new and different dimension, a dimension where blackness is so black, and there's only energy, and almost no visuals, but I could still see the outline of things as I remember now. I wasn't drinking, I have never taken psychedelics because we don't have them where I live, and that wasn't a dream also. The thing was very real, almost to the degree that horrified my psyche, and my memory experienced a total blackout. In fact the incident did disappear completely from my conscious memory for the next 24 hours then came back again. The incident's duration wasn't long, and I can estimate it like three seconds. I went out of body to the other dimension, got scared like hell, came back to the body, forgot about it for 24 hours, then remembering it again. I never asked for it to happen, and I can't replicate it, it is not a reoccurring thing, and I don't meditate even that much. What the hell was that? anybody else?

@Seraphim Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I hope I can remember to stay calm in case this happens. I remember I also felt presence of others, but it was too short that I didn't move much in that space. I can't answer if it was another dimension, or dimensionless, I have no idea how to distinct between those concepts. I am only assuming it was another dimension because the experience felt nothing like I've ever known or encountered in my life. Also it was too short, but there was a movement, I moved in that space out of "the portal" , but then everything collapsed. I can't say it is a void no, there was energy, even if everything was black, but there was a visual field too, this is how I remember, but then it doesn't make sense, cuz everything was in black. I have no idea. I guess you can call it so, but can you elaborate a bit more?

@Rainy Sparkle thank you for sharing your experiences with me. Pretty interesting what you've gone through especially seeing from three perspectives. I think I know about the state between being asleep and awake. I am familiar with that, I can sense it sometimes, some light dreams come, but then I can pull myself out if them and remember that I am also still half awake. I had lucid dreaming before too, but this, incident in hand is a whole other level. My psyche was shocked, not me the rational mind. The rational mind remembers the shock and can't forget about it easily. You wake up terrified from a nightmare for example, you sense that your body is sweaty, and feel heaviness on chest But my psyche in some level was so shocked that it refused to even form a memory of what happened, only after a day or so, a memory became accessible to me. I remembered the scene i described, and the horror that followed. If it was a dream, this works backwards, you dream about something and if you don't record the details on paper as soon as you wake up, you forget about them easily.

Yesterday, I've just finished watching video "Why Valuable things require development over time". What an amazing episode, it goes with the essence of the book "Mastery" . I've just felt hopeful, because I was always regretting my years wasted before I started my self-development journey. However when he said that "It is better done later than never", and gave many examples and ideas about that, I just felt hopeful again. I am 38 and I've started the work around 5 years ago. Hopefully I'll reach good milestones within the next five years, and I'll be only 43 then. We can't do anything about the past anyways, and I feel that on the other hand there was little that I could do to navigate the vast self-help world before Leo showing up with his holistic approach to education which helped me form a big picture thinking and approach to this field, and that in turn will help me choose wisely what I want to pursue rather than getting lost in nfinite possibilities. Thank you Leo

@SQAAD The regimes in these third world countries are fragile, Ghadaffi was an idiot. When the protests started against him, he decided to go to the streets and protest with those who are protesting against him! From Actualized.org's prespective, he wasn't anticipating that thugs that are less developped could kill him, still blinded by those loyal to him.