Mesopotamian

you're welcome dude not yet.. third world countries don't accept even migration easily.. but thanks for asking

In the past, I used to complain about my well-known situation. However, I have come to realize that having excessive freedom is not always the ideal state to be in. When we have too much freedom, it becomes challenging to establish a disciplined routine. It's worth mentioning that I am beginning to appreciate Jordan Peterson's teachings, and I am grateful for the way they appear on my TikTok feed. I would also like to express my gratitude to Leo for creating a special video about him. Nevertheless, there are deeper reasons why having less freedom can be beneficial, particularly in terms of how we engage with the world. As a child, we are surrounded by layers of protection, interacting with the world through buffers. We don't bear the responsibilities of paying rent or bills directly, and there are people who take care of these tasks for us. We don't buy groceries or cook our own meals, among other things. However, as adults, we are compelled to find our own place in this world. Yet, I have come to realize that it is better not to have rigid plans or pretend that we have everything under control, knowing exactly what we should be doing in our lives. We are not wiser than a higher power, so we should release the urgency to have all the answers, at least for a while. Learning how to interact with the world without buffers takes time, and it cannot be accomplished if we are fixated on a particular goal or driven by ambition. Who are we to assume that we know how to navigate this from the very beginning or even after multiple attempts? We must recognize that our place in this world is already reserved; we do not need to search for it ourselves. If we allow it, the universe or a higher power will guide us. The most effective approach to implementing this strategy is to put ourselves in situations that do not directly serve our ambitions or ego. Engaging in activities for the sheer sake of enjoyment can be enlightening. Letting the universe guide us until we find our designated place is key. Living with minimal resources, avoiding unnecessary travel, and opting for second-hand items are all viable options. In fact, nowadays, you can find free items listed on the internet or abandoned on sidewalks. The rest of our time should be dedicated to engaging in activities that do not directly serve our ambitions. Volunteering, joining a cause, or organizing meetings for others are all examples. A clear indication of success in this path is when people around us begin to genuinely respect and care for us. Lastly, we should strive to continuously expand our knowledge and understanding. In conclusion, discovering our place in this world is not achieved through deliberate seeking, but by relinquishing some control and allowing the universe to guide us to our destined spot. [Edited by ChatGPT to be re-written in a better language]

Nope, that's not a great way.. @Ramanujan Here's an interesting series I came across lately other parts also exist

The more I think about it, the more I tend to believe that life is fair. You can always find answers, and you can always grow in character.. You don't need to feel pity for those whom you think less fortunate than you, you don't have to tell yourself that your situation is still better than many in order to feel good. Everyone in this life has been given the correct cards.

You sometimes hint that life-purpose can be even a materialistic product, or a mastering a skill, and the way you depict it is that you need to get that sort of mastery, then the world is going to open-up its arms for you, integrate you, and purchase your product or service at a great price, all that while doing something you do like. But how would it look like when you don't have enough freedom to become creative? I wasn't allowed to become creative myself, however sitting here where I am, with less rights as a citizen, I kinda feel there's a divine element involved in the process. There's some sort of peace when you give up some control and ride the wave, be OK with less and see where that might leads you. Top values should always be Truth/Love anyways. @Leo Gura

This following conviction has liberated me: Women are the source of life, they make life possible, they conceive babies, and raise them up and most of them play their role perfectly, however, when they're not raising babies, they're at best 10% useful, 20% entertaining, and 70% just a burden to man. There's this game going on that there's supposedly an emotional void and that's supposed to be filled somehow. But in all actuality there's none. A man is sufficient by himself if he can grow in character. This means that women are in trouble. And indeed they're. In this day and age, women need to be treated according to the merit of their character. They need to grow in character. Men need to stop cutting slack for women and letting them fill this hypothetical emotional void, because the cost is very very high. It can certainly lead up to man giving up autonomy one step at a time. A woman needs me, cuz I have a strong character and I can lead, but I don't need her for that matter. She needs to lower her expectations and she's the one who needs to give up her autonomy in exchange for my time, not me giving up my autonomy for the promise of getting some pussy one day which might or might not arrive. My boys, work on your leadership skills, you create the world, you make the world possible. Women should follow you. Also tip No. 2: Emotional intelligence, without it, your character is immature and don't expect the above to work.

Of course not, because probably that type of man is for you to look for and try to latch on and suck energy from.. notice how your feel of thirst and hunger is most likely the reason that you're coming out of your bed every single day

@Princess Arabia I guess I am cured more or less when I am cutting a woman out of my life. Going to gym everyday and stop getting a kick out of her.. this also to address Ms. @Something Funny

I feel it's pretty easy for a female to undermine her rationality in favor of' emotions. In another word, she takes emotions as her life compass. So how? At any point, you're under the threat of facing irrational decisions just because they feel they need to go a certain way. Couple that with self-deception, and you end up with an impossible situations. I've seen it countless times, women do something because it feels a certain way regardless of rationality, and this is the equivalent of men neglecting their emotional side and leaning more into their rational side. All women are guilty of this and it's also a sort of corruption..

@Danioover9000 Women are guilty of not raising emotionally sound men. They're not passing this emotional intelligence to their male kids as they're supposed to do. Men are brought up dumb emotionally because woman pushes them to seek survival, money and bread and put that above anything else. And when it's time for a man to mate and have sexual encounters, he finds that he needs now to play a game that's already rigged against him. It's a basic man's need to mate, but right now there are endless conditions before he has a chance to do so. Sex is used as a weapon against him. Denying him.. So now this man who's as intelligent as a monkey emotionally, being denied a basic need like this, driving him crazy sometimes! So man goes back to the cave, creates AI and virtual reality, and will come out soon and turn the tables upside down.

@Danioover9000 Kind of feeling that all is going to this: It's a revolution against woman. Right now we're living in an age where population in many places around the world is dwindling. Man is creating a virtual environment. With the advent of virtual reality and AI, we're heading to a world where woman isn't going to be needed. Imagine a realistic silicon doll powered by AI and virtual reality at the same time. You wear some sort of googles and you have a full experience with the doll. Needless to say that AI can simulate a woman't mind too. Also we do have good literature on film. Movie, TV shows, of when a woman used to enjoy a role in societies around the world. It's a bleak future form women as I see it now. And probably you and your peers are living in the golden age at this moment.

@Lila9 congratulations... keep on living the lie

I guess it is context sensitive yes. and in the west, things are laid out for women to be better versions of themselves, and not all women are taking that chance, only a small percentage. This totally agree.. probably true.. I guess also abundance in technology is due to women setting high standards, wanting a man who can move them rather than a wise man, so the wise man my theory goes and create distractions for himself. Men need sex to grow in character, and it's becoming increasingly heart to get it, so maybe invent a virtual porn enhanced by AI to distract more. If all went well, woman will find no man to date in the near future. Man will be busy with his AI-powered silicon doll.

such a gross term

I guess I've never been in peace with myself like I am now.

With that I am starting to think that it's impossible to have a peer to peer relationship with a woman. They fall into two categories, they're either infatuated with you, or want to enslave you and suck your blood. I live yet to find a woman who wants to create something beautiful that doesn't fall into or motivated by the above categories. If you want to win a woman you need to put a mask of appreciation, but the truth is that you don't appreciate her, you're a whole being by yourself. I don't appreciate a woman. I've done self-actualization work for now almost 9 years, and I don't have the capacity to tolerate forever somebody who is unwilling to put the same amount of work. Also no woman will appreciate you when you master yourself and your own desires anyways. You're either the one who charm her and make her cry sometimes, or immediately friend-zoned. Has no reasoning capaacity to build anything beautiful with a man.

Just the over-sensitivity, lack of courage and the spirit of exploration makes women fit a role that's pre-determined for them to fill perfectly whenever is possible as you've mentioned, however the natural or default position is for a woman to be a burden to man. This is clear in less-developed societies where a woman uses all the manipulation tactics in their arsenal in order to pin a man down, halt him from realizing his own greatness, and downsizing him into merely a father and a bread winner.

Thank you for this well-balanced reply

you can purchase time from a prostitute.. you do your business, and go on with your daily life. Even that is not needed once you realize that you can be great on your own!

I had the pleasure to get to know a very lovely lady from California more than a year now through an app, and she was in great emotional trouble. Married someone who's been born in a foreign country while herself is an Americanized lady, grown up in the US, and the ones to blame for this almost forced marriage are her parents. They did put pressure on her and made her choose somebody who turned out to be very traditional, born and raised elsewhere outside the US. 10 years into the marriage and two kids, and she found herself awake of her nightmare, and can see the incompatibilities vividly. When I met her, I introduced her to atualized.org and walked her through some ideas, and then she began watching videos! Right now, she's in the process of trying to make sense of everything, and possibly getting herself a safe exit. Jokingly she said to me that if she ever becomes free from her dire situation., she might want to contact Leo and go clubbing with him! This is her message to Leo : "Hi I’m T.. I’m from la… I got introduced to your channel by a friend.. and I’m a big fan of yours!” Also "“Meet me at the club.. and I’ll make it a night you will always remember..”

@hyruga Thanks for clarifying. I am a pro-connection type of person and I would genuinely like that T meets people. I've been trying to push Leo's content to her since I've knew her more than a year ago. I wish they can meet haha. Leo is sort of our mentor all, and she's becoming someone whom I talk to on a daily basis so probably I shoult take your advice and play reverse-psychology? haha being neutral isn't always good though. You need to be radical sometimes. I told her to come and register, but when she refused, I promised to make a post! and then sent her the link, so she's probably watching now haha.. any message for her? If yes please make it a bit long.. she's going to love it!

this is a good one for sure

I probably should start a sales career then.. am I that good? lol

I don't know what you mean by that..

Not video games, but games. The concept that you need to influence course of events in a subtle, and an indirect, but effective way. I love games mostly because in this life, you don't always have the luxury of being able to be understood and respected, and hardly anybody takes your interest in account. Also: - Games can solve your problems without confrontations. - Games can make justice and love come true. - Games can move things forward in life. and much more.. My soul is yearning to meet people who also love games.