Mesopotamian

for the first time in history, we have a tool like facebook, that can reach audience and change the perception of people and nations. And it's used on a daily basis by many entities for that purposes. Middle Eastern nations are some of the most uninformed nations in the world, with a potential to be enlightened. you just need to reach them and inform them about their blind spots, and there's a chance that they see how foolish they are sometimes, but instead of that, the world seems interested in their oil, take their oil and selling them goods.

I am attempting to relocate to another country than Iraq, and i ended up in a nearby country, residing in a shared apartment. One month passed after I arrived, and we had a roommate got hit by a motorcycle while legally crossing the street, and the motorcycle hit him at his leg, just bellow his left knee and ran away, never stopped. The guy was accompanied by another roommate, and they called the police, and an ambulance has dispatched which took him to the ER. Then at the Er, with his friend, they did nothing to him as he wasn't bleeding, and I didn't know what happened exactly, but they just got a taxi and came back to the flat after the police gave them a document to state the details of the accident. Second day arrived, and the police called him, stating that they have arrested the motorcycle driver, and asked him to go to police station. He had no money to even get there, so I offered to take him there by taxi. He was barely able to be walking, Upon arrival, he talked to an officer, and they basically told him that he has 3 days to decide if he wants to drop charges. I then proceeded to purchase him a dinner that night too. The guy wasn't complaining, but he was keeping high spirit, and he didn't even lose his sense of humor, and was even telling me that he might drop charges because he thinks that it might not be fair that the guy get departed from the country. Then another two days, and they guy still barely being able to walk to bathroom and to kitchen. And then I found out that until that time, his leg hasn't even been looked at by a doctor! And knowing that going to a doctor and a hospital isn't free, I basically couldn't stand the thought that somebody been hit by a motorcycle, can barely walk, but yet don't know how bad his injury is, just because being unable to be seen by a doctor! Therefore, I told him that I am offering to take him to the doctor. We went to the first hospital, whom he thought would help, but then they asked for a sum of money that I didn't even have on me, so I offered to take him to another place I knew it's going to be affordable because I had my teeth cleaned at the place upon arrival to that country. I paid the equivalent of 10 days of rent for the place I've been renting, for doctor and x-rays, but still turned out much cheaper than the first hospital, probably 5 times cheaper. My reasoning behind why I was able to take him is that I am a free guy, unmarried, no children, and just have to manage myself. My family are good in Iraq and need no care, but I imagined if my brother was with me and he got sick, wouldn't I go and take him to the doctor and hospital? but knowing my brother is well and fine, I can accommodate to care for another person..and that by spending money to treat him, I would be able to enable the medical center to give him service, and that medical center wasn't running on free energy, but they need money to function. To our surprise, the x-ray showed no damage in bone of both ankle and knee, but the injury was with the muscle tissue that connects it to the bone or something. The doctor also gave him an injection, and we then bought some vitamines, pain killers, and knee support, and after we got out from the medical center, he started walking faster than before and he said the he feels well! and later at that night, he even told me that he went and took a walk around the lake that evening, which was crazy and unthinkable that morning when he was barely able to walk. Throughout those challenging days, he maintained a resilient sense of humor and high spirits. As we journeyed between clinics, he began sharing his personal narrative. Revealing that he serves as a police officer in his home country, he emphasized the toughness associated with his profession and family. In military training, he learned to carry his injured leg on his shoulder and advance, trusting that support would eventually arrive, be it within a week, a month, or even a year. He went on to recount a poignant chapter of his life as a father of 4 or 5 children, eagerly awaiting the birth of another child in Turkey with his wife. Tragically, the newborn suffered from a heart disorder, succumbing to it after just two weeks in the hospital. He showed me a staggering bill of approximately $20,000. Desperate, he reached out to someone back home for financial assistance, which he received. However, when the family attempted to return to their home country, they discovered they had overstayed their entry visa due to the complications surrounding the child's birth. Consequently, he was arrested and imprisoned for four months, separated from his grieving family. To compound matters, the individual who had lent him money back home accused him of absconding with the funds, prompting the issuance of an arrest warrant in his home country. Fortunately, a benevolent individual intervened, securing his release from the Turkish prison and providing him with a ticket to our current location. This tumultuous journey has left him bankrupt, unable to afford even basic necessities. Despite his dire circumstances, the flat's occupants, including the landlords, have shown compassion by not forcing him onto the streets. Additionally, another roommate who is a doctor has pledged to visit him today, aiming to offer some relief, possibly through a cream to alleviate his physical discomfort. It's worth noting that even at the second hospital we visited, the staff exhibited kindness by providing a 20% discount on the X-rays, further contributing to the overall support extended during this challenging time.

As time passes by, I discovered that guys, including me are inherently horny, and the only way I was feeling less horny is when I was in a relationships few years back. However, I found it really useful if I unload before going out with a lady, and it truly can get my horniness in check. It's a bad idea that you go out with a lady without doing so, cuz your mind can be fogged and you won't be able to build an authentic connection with her, and you'll always in the back of your mind think like what a wonderful thought if I could just have fun with her and hoping that it would happen magically. In this day and age, truly smart, authentic men are rare, and most of the girls even if they don't know it, they're looking for one, and you need to try to be that one. Getting sex needs to build a bond first, a connection that can last, so that when it happens, it's not because somebody is having a low-quality urge that can't keep in check, but rather as a natural progression.

@Princess Arabia I guess I clarified that it's the setting also that can sometimes gets me a bit excited, but also it's a muscle you need to train, how not to get excited when you're sitting with hot people. just to clarify, I am not walking like this all the time whenever I am with somebody. And yes it's not normal probably too if that was the case?

I am getting real results, and amazing encounters with ladies.. I feel you're not in a position to judge how men can feel sometimes though. Also it doesn't serve you that a guy gets empowered, cuz you think that you as a woman should be on top of the pyramid of power probably. Therefore you'll try to battle this simple hack or concept and demonize it, totally acting as closed minded is what I understand. And yeah, it needs a great deal of openmindedness for a guy to even try this simple life hack! says who? somebody who hasn't been in a guy's body before...

that's totally nonsense..

Good luck trying to battle with the force of life then! having high ego thinking you're going to win.

@Princess Arabia From my own experience, I can assure you almost everyone is struggling although I haven't been in everyone's shoes. And you also need to consider that it depends on the situation, like that girl that approached me last time, it was night and dark, and we were isolated me and her, so yeah, my little buddy went nuts for a while when walking with her, and were uncontrollable thoughts all over my mind like "am I going to end up with her tonight? " Being called a creep by others actually is when a guy decides to act on those thoughts and to try his luck and it is almost always end up with rejection and a hard no. Have you ever judged people as creeps before? perhaps you know someone who did?

I mean, I've been doing so for most of my life! and it basically got me nowhere. Sex need a lady to feel safe with you, and to be able to be vulnerable. And you coming as horny, is it going to help you you think?

I can feel that it sounds weird for you but what's the harm in elevating your vocabulary?

You kinda need to start to consider that the physical aspect for men could be something beyond their control sometimes. I do unload pretty regularly most of the time, and if I go on a date without that, and just walk with a lovely cute lady, I could have an erection that's really difficult to control! There's no on-off switch and the lightest thought of any possibility with that lady in the future might trigger that. And what if the girl was a bit liberal and decided to show up with a revealing dress that shows her boobs for example? However the simple act of what I've suggested would take care of that issue for you! and spare you what otherwise seems like torture! of course it's not for that purpose which is impressing others, but just to have fun when you get the sex out of the way! Matter of fact, I won't be getting sex until the lady decides that I am safe enough and suitable for that.. isn't that right?

In our youthful years, we often lack finesse in reading social cues, approaching dating with undue seriousness. Yet, dating should be about enjoyment and shared experiences rather than a strategic pursuit of physical intimacy. A few days ago, I found myself seated on a bench at night, immersed in my own world of TikToks and chat. Suddenly, an African lady joined me at the other end of the bench. We sat independently for about half an hour, engrossed in our respective activities. However, her occasional glances and subtle mimicry of my actions were unmistakable signals that she desired conversation. Summoning my courage, I initiated a discussion by asking about the name of our surroundings. This marked the beginning of a prolonged conversation and a leisurely hour-long walk. My approach was simple: be genuine, be affectionate, enjoy the moment, and create a pleasant experience for her. We continued our interaction until the night air became too chilly. She suggested we head home and recommended bringing a coat next time. As we bid farewell, I expressed a wish to meet again if fate allowed. Surprisingly, no exchange of contact information occurred – neither did it seem necessary. No hidden agendas were present on either side, just two individuals appreciating a spontaneous connection.

that could be a great adventure waiting for you then! and you're right, hormones can affect psychology by a lot

I am glad that you found this story useful. Dates are difficult for girls in particular, because guys are clueless species, they don't pay attention to details, and they don't speak the implicit language.. Hope you have more fun encounters in the future

Why do you think it's the way to go to fuck somebody or be in a relationship with them? I could've walked away and never even paid attetnion and said hi to her. but I did it because we're humans! she wasn't imposing herself on me, in fact she was sitting on the other end of the bench, minding her own business, but I sensed that she could use some company and initiated the talk with her, just out of sheer kindness, and it wasn't easy for me, I've never done that before! I said to myself, let me ask her about something general, and if she wants to connect, she'll naturally try to ask me back a random question..

He's not me, and I wanted to keep the encounter pure, we walked for like an hour, and me we discussed many topics, and we even borrowed badminton equipment from people at the park, we ate popcorn, and then we sate in proximity to each others. We were constantly asking if we should go home cuz it was cold, and then we agreed we should go home. I shook her hand and wished her the best. Also I guess I forgot to mention, she was waiting for a friend of hers she said supposed to also join after finishing work, but then she said no, her friend is not coming it seems, so we said goodbye. I left her actually sitting at the bench. Another detail, I didn't even ask for her name! I thought if I knew her name, I might fall in love with her just repeating the name in my head.. any other question guys?

True! no hidden motives!

That would've been a really nice reply! and thanks for explaining have a great day!

@Majed I've lived in an Islamic country, and I had problems with girls since early ages. However, you do seem to live with a country where rules are strict and you can approach girls few hundreds times before being kicked out? Here are some tips, you need to slow down, and because this urgency would definitely be giving you a "negative aura" that girls can notice really easily. Also, try to dive deep inside yourself, and study your emotions, and listen to Leo's episode "implicit vs explicit" Also try to approach it not from a mentality of an achiever, but just someone who's willing to have fun in life.. Girls like to have fun, and take their time, and somebody who wants to prove something or approaching it like it's a business, well that's instant put off Fourth, to let go of achiever mentality, try to accept that you might never ever be with someone ever in your life and that you might die alone. The sooner you accept that, the sooner you can work on the above points. Good luck!

In our reality, the notion of an infinite money supply is unfounded. Every dollar earned often represents a transfer from someone else, and hoarding wealth in bank accounts and various assets is arguably one of the least constructive pursuits. If you happen to come from a financially privileged background, your obligation is not to disregard the existing wealth stream but to tap into it. Starting from scratch, in such circumstances, seems counterintuitive. Recognize that your family's wealth is an extension of your own. It is incumbent upon you to access and manage this wealth wisely. Utilize your time to cultivate your character and foster personal growth, rather than embarking on a journey from the ground up. Embarking on a self-made journey when your family is already affluent may leave little time for self-actualization and character development. The question then becomes: Why choose such a path? Remember, your family's wealth is an eventual inheritance. Therefore, adopt a mindset befitting your future status – act as a future heir to prosperity. Consider the analogy of a royal heir. They don't seek to establish a new kingdom but patiently await the day they ascend to the throne. Similarly, you should recognize your place within a familial system and the inevitable transfer of wealth to you. Act with the confidence and responsibility of a future king or queen. Understand that the wealth within your family is a legacy awaiting you. Choosing to start anew, disregarding this wealth, may be an unnecessary betrayal of both yourself and others who aspire to experience financial security, self-realization, and contribute positively to humanity.

I feel in this day and age, you'd be lucky if you were able to elevate yourself above your mother in the power pyramid within your family

48 laws of power deepens your understanding for human nature, and it should be honestly the first book to read if you're serious about understanding how your world functions..

I dig what you've mentioned, yet allow me to defend the 48 laws, and learning game theory, I feel it's an essential part of navigating this dream with relative ease. It's one step above blinding yourself and going after money. If coupled with Leo's teachings, it could truly help you reach a higher place in your life and spirituality, and also it does enhance your ability to understand people, and thus your ability to start loving them unconditionally.

On the other hand the world is all yours to use in case you needed! You can never probably purchase a large jet, but it's there to serve you whenever you need to fly somewhere! Whole airports and infrastructure is available to serve you! Science, medicine, etc.. So why do you feel the need to accumulate loads of money? You need a lot of growth but little money indeed. Steve Jobs, however rich he is, he died because he denied early treatment for his treatable type of cancer. A small decision that has ended the live of a billionaire!

Free money isn't going to drop on you, because you need to learn the game theory, read books like the 48 laws of power and watch Leo's videos. @Sabth your mistake is that you haven't established yourself yet in the pyramid of power, and you've let them use money i order to get you to do what they want as a mean of control.