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I don't know, the Internet gives you lots of possibility, and if you have freedom to travel, then why do you need attraction to start with? Seems like you're thinking it is extremely difficult to start with, and you feel that the 'cheat codes' are absolute necessities. According to your mindset, what chances do people who are born with deformities have in this life? Can you tell somebody who has deformities to his face that he will have no chance of getting love unless he plays this game?
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@something_else I wish you a great day/night ! take care
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you look like somebody who's triggered though.. why?
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such a low quality responses. Typical Ad Hominem fallacy
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Why do you need a proof for that? why don't you try it for yourself?
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@Tyler Robinson What you've wrote is a valuable input that can make me reconsider things in the future, yet for now I am closed-minded about the topic though, so try to bear with me as much as you can please how many times you've mentioned to fall for someone? I feel there's an issue with 'falling' for someone, and for that I would ask where's the fences that would enable you not to fall? in my mind right this moment, I feel if a woman becomes capable of re-defining her role in a man's life, the likability of anyone is falling becomes less, yet right now this is being done unconsciously, and using terms as 'falling in love' which is really the mainstream concept is one proof for that. It might sound odd, but I took a vow to block any woman that would 'fall for me'. My new dogma for now is that if you cannot become a best friend with a woman and forge mutual respect, then there's no solid foundation to build anything upon. I feel that falling for somebody is in a way similar to acting foolishly while you're under alcohol, doing stuff later that you are definitely going to regret and trying to distance yourself from, hence the term 'break up'
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@Consept I am thinking that you can access a state where non of that matters, not attractiveness, not fertility. Do you think you can be present with somebody where non of that matters? If increasing awareness is possible, then you can in theory increase your awareness to a degree that can prevent these instincts from kicking in and start clouding your judgment when you're about to meet new people.. When will you stop thinking that every girl you meet can be a potential romantic partner?
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@Tyler Robinson you tried to put it beautifully, but I mean in today's world, lets say a woman in a western or European country can enjoy rights and privileges and opportunities in life more than let's say a president in a third world country. If you're a woman in a first world country, then the freedom that you have is going to provide opportunities to you, and the armies that your country have are always going to protect you right?
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Can I ask you something? I am going to write a 1 page essay, can you turn that into a novel?
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So what you're saying that there's no corruption in "woman's culture" Mr. Leo?
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not for you then buddy.. Denial..
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Is that a question? can you please rephrase it in a different way? I believe that if a woman can clear her heart and mind, she can still try to see the beauty in every person she meets. What you might call attractiveness is sometimes treated like dogma for a woman, no more than a random concept in woman's mind that pushes her to get clingy and have bias towards the people she meets.
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While crying, she says that humans should never google things in the middle of a work day! https://www.tiktok.com/@bigeyedamybeth/video/7151165977655282987?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7149577942099920390
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Just letting everybody knows that Dating is a purely western concept. In the eastern culture, it is not common that men and women goes out to places for the purpose of knowing each others and trying to form a future family. Whenever you see two people sitting at restaurant, cafe, or holding hands in places other than the west, you can't say that they are dating. The purpose of dating as I understand it is to go out with as many people as you can in order to find "the right one", but in place other than the western countries, that idea isn't welcomed. People in lower stages societies don't even have distinct personalities of their own as they are indoctrinated into their cultures , so there's no need to get to know each others before marriage, and the concept of engagement is there just so that there will be time to prepare for the wedding to take place. Also I've heard about the term "Arranged marriage" and you might think that if people were not dating freely, then their marriages are going to be arranged. The truth is that that these marriages in reality are imposed, not arranged. There's nothing that's arranged about them, yet they are imposed on young people, and the latter have no say at all when it comes to the details. Living in Iraq, I don't personally know any married people where they went through that freely, always imposed marriages. A man reaches a certain age, one of his parents or both tell him that he needs to marriage, then they present him with a bride of their choice..
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One form of corruption that I notice living in stage-blue society is that nobody seems to believe in the concept of specializations in professional life. A worker in any job is expected to do pretty much everything. For Example, A worker at a hotel is expected to clean the rooms, cook, receive the guests, do repairs for water pipes, electric devices... etc. Some implications of this is that nothing is going to be achieved at higher standards. Also another form of corruption is that the hotel owner makes sure that there's enough income to feed like 20 people of his family members, yet all the actual work in the hotel is done by no more than 2 workers, while his family members receive everything for free cuz they don't have to work. In this regards, stage-orange seems much better, and it can guarantee higher standards and a much better form of justice. Yes everyone has to work, and that's better than few people working their ass of while the rest are enjoying work-free life.
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Mesopotamian replied to Mesopotamian's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
The steps of the descend and dismantle is as follow: 1- The power in the hand of fixed players, so not only there's no progress that's going to happen, but also all the problems are going to be swept under the carpet 2- The inequality is going to grow, and more and more people are going to get poor. 3- When a revolution takes place, then the country is likely to dismantle, just like what happened when ISIS took hold of like 30% of Iraq and was able to keep it under its control for years, cuz literally, Iraq cities are separated, and we don't have any good system in place to connect those cities and make them seem as one country. The culture of a car is the dominant, and not everybody can afford a car, so most people dob't even travel to other cities unless it is absolutely necessary. If I want to go to a city that's two hours drive by car, I need to spend additional 2 hours just waiting for another 3 passengers to fill a shared taxi, alongside multiple military checkpoints everywhere which assume you're criminal until you prove otherwise. In each checkpoint you need to show identity, which is just makes for a crappy experience. I honestly feel like a criminal when I go outside the city, and tehrefor I don't go outside the city! probably once every 3 years! Whenever I remember that I can't travel even within Iraq, I honestly feel bad.. therefor, Fuck Iraq, and my life purpose is to relocate elsewhere one day before it crumbles down and it becomes a butchery for people... More genocides are coming on the way.. -
My comment on Leo's latest awesome episode on where the left goes too far. When Mr. Leo commented on forging an Iraqi identity.. The problem though is that this is unlikely to take place any time sooner. Iraq is simply not going to have that as long as the United States is still the world's policeman. See in 2010, we had an election where a list called "The Iraqia" which was led by politician Ayad Allawi and include members from all Iraqi ethnicities and denominations won the election, but the problem back then was that the other purely Shiite-led list wasn't satisfied, so they took the matter to the Iraqi federal court, which came up with a new interpretation for the Iraqi constitution that says that the largest coalition that is formed AFTER the election ends has the right to form and lead the government. that's not the party who actually won the election. This interpretation actually makes the citizen powerless, and it fucks up everything.. Why would I vote to any party if at the end they're going to conspire with other parties or blocs and form the government? And after all it was just a pretext so that the power stays at the hands of majority Shiite people. I personally have voted only once in 2006, and that's it. I've never voted again. What's the US's role in this? The US's role is there, the inaction to hold Iraqis accountable for this corruption, they were there and did nothing when the Iraqi federal court came up with that nonsense which basically keeps the power in the hands of Shiite forever, or until Iraq's wealth is no longer needed, therefore no international presence is going to stay there and keep the status-quo, and it descend into chaos and bloody wars again.. After all, Iraq is not a state, it is a pseudo-state and just like Afghanistan, if no real effort to build it into a real state are made, it's going to crumble down sooner or later..that's what I truly feel.. Mr. Leo, At the stage-blue, it is not possible to run any state! all stage-blue states are going to dismantle and dissapear at some point in history..
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I lately went to a party of expats in my city after many months of refraining from doing so, and when I looked at good looking girls around me, some of them are trying to start a convo with boys, I said to myself, I really hope that no girl would try to fall in love with me that night, and in my mind I would've just tried to repel any girl that would dare to approach me. Luckily I am not considered a hot guy, so this helps a lot with this matter. I realized that the last thing that you need in this life is for a girl to fall in love with you after liking you, or after liking how good you look or how you present yourself or based on how "attractive" or "hot" you are. Truth is that any liking you might receive from any girl on this planet based on those can't be mixed with love, and it is certainly not a ticket to get the genuine love that you need to have. That girl most certainly isn't falling in love with you, but rather she's falling in love with a form, a concept of how good-looking you are, or even how good your smells, or how good and safe it feels to be with someone as tall as you are, or how good she imagines you hugging her would feel, and all of those are not you! It is naive to think that if you can get a girl to like you, that would make her more willing to love you! liking and love are different things, and even when people say they like somebody, what they mean in fact that they do like certain qualities within that person that leave a good impression on them. I feel that love can only happen between highly conscious people, ones who are able to completely overlook the form and can see beyond that. One of the things that helps you as a man to get love is to try to step into a woman's shoes and try to see the world as they themselves see it, and the most precious thing in this life you can give a woman is the ability to see the world the way she does, and for me it was an eye-opening experience when recently a lady did let me into her life, sharing with me her everyday life and struggles for almost a year now. I've learned so much about how she sees the world. I imagine in the future it's going to be 1000X easier to connect with virtually any woman on this planet, just because now I have the ability to see the world the way they do, so how cool can that be? In reality, what a woman needs at the end of the day is someone who can understand her and understands how she feels, but only when she's frustrated, she's going to activate the emotional circuit to find a man whom she can fall in love with his form, and that happen most likely because she's driven by dozens of fear, like the fear of aging. Best of luck!
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why? where are you at currently in partnership life?
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Leo's latest video has answered many questions for me, one of them is the eternal question: To act, or not to act. I was faced with this dilemma for ages and living here in Iraq where nothing makes sense, and if I would to act or speak up, it could either lead to a revolution, or leads to my own death. Yet listening to what Leo says, I now has what resembles a road map, and I believe I'll be able to reason well when it comes to this issue. It also answers in an indirect way the question of whether you should try to create peace in your own little bubble and avoid conflict at all cost, or trying to run towards conflict and become an active part on them. In the later case, it is wiser to try to know how the world works, and how games work instead of jumping towards a conflicts without any knowledge and hurting yourself.
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Mesopotamian replied to Mesopotamian's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Sure, You're welcome to continue anytime! and sorry for the profanity I used in the last post. I wasn't feeling well that day and it came out naturally. -
Woman created man. Man created this world we live in. It is a man's world. Woman would rather live in a bubble, trying to avoid getting her hands dirty, trying to avoid understanding how man's world works. Woman then seeks man as a protector. Woman get disappointed 99.99 percent of the time as this man's emotional intelligence is almost non-existent. Woman has gave up the authority to man to run this world, yet man is always going to try to keep her at bay, suppressing her needs beyond survival ones. Woman then attacks man for being the man that he is (feminism).. the man she raised, the man her hands has helped to shape.