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@herghly Same with me. But it is good to know what is ahead of us. I really like his descriptions of different types of shadow pathology for both, the structure-stages and the states-stages.

Thank you for pdf. He wrote about this also in his book The Atman project and also he gave many details on this topic in his book The Religion of Tomorrow.

@yannick Why would anyone dedicate 5+ years to their cause? I thought the only cause of someone who goes in ashram is transcendence and shadow work.

@Rishabh R Hello Rishabh! I am sorry you were treated badly by your relatives. You didn't deserve it. They were talking to you that way becose of their complex of inferiority. They want to put you down for them to feel better. It is totaly unacceptable and what they did is wrong! They are not as succesfull as they think they are! So what to do? Well you've already made the first step. You blocked them on Whatsapp and this is very healthy to do becose of your selfprotection. There is the line nobody should cross over by insulting you. I am not an expert on OCD, for that a psychotherapist is necessery, but maybe for now you should go out at least around the house on fresh air if possible (you said it is night at your time zone). The other thing i would sugest is to sit down and just try to observe your thoughts and emotions, no matter what they are. If that becomes to difficult, do something manualy, like beating a pillow?. Went out all the rage and hurt you are experiencing. And please remember you are not alone, people respect you even if they live 1000 kilometers away! Hugs!

@Dingo Thank you, this is very helpfull☺️.

@Strangeloop ???

@tatsumaru Hi You are in a difficult position emotionaly and after thinking about how to reply to you, to be honest i don't know what to say to make you feel better. But i will try... We all have some childhood traumas. And later experiences in our lives can and do serve as a trigger and as a result of that the pain comes on the surface to be seen and to be healed. If we can not process that, then we block the pain again even more. The result is a feeling or a state of being empthy shell. The only solution, as i see it ( and i believe you already know that) is to accept the rejected painful parts of our (relative) selves. Now i know this is very hard and sometimes we need the help of others. My sugestion to you would be that you look up for a professional psyhotherapist. I am certainly not competent to help you in that way. And you are not a coward! You are only unable to look at your wounds becose it hurts so much. Many of us are trying to avoid them. But unhealed wounds are like a "bleedthrough" and there comes a time we have to face it. I think that time is almost here for you ( and for many of us). You are not alone in this and i hope that by knowing this you find some consolation... ?

There are books out there about lives between the lives writen by Dr. Michael Newton. Journey of Souls Destiny of Souls Maybe you should check it out.

@Husseinisdoingfine In that case it would be a smart move to shut down the comment section.

@SoonHei I am so sorry, SoonHei!

@Strangeloop Hugs.

@mandyjw Well said!

@Thought Art Beautifuly said...

@Shin You twisted my words.

@soos_mite_ah The advanced spiritual teachings are out there if we want it or not. I've read Sri Aurobindo's teachings and also A Course in Miracles, which are really "advanced" imo. So what should we do? Ban the books and YouTube channels about advanced teachings? Certainly not. I don't see any solution to that other then to say to people they shouldn't believe any of it blindly,but to experience this by themselves.

@kinesin Please don't gaslight me with these statement of yours. I was just expresing my opinions. And i will continue to do that.

@kinesin Leo did not talk about physical death and did not advocate suicide. To many people misinterpret his words and then blame him for their own misinterpretations.

I sugest you should try a CT scan of your head to exclude any physical causes for your problems. The other thing is that in meditation or after it many unconscious repressed content emerges on the surface to be seen and healed. But many people don't know that or they can't handle it. So maybe you should try with some competent psychotherapist whos specialisation is depth psychotherapy and who has some knowledge of the transpersonal domain.

@Strangeloop I understand. But the eternity can shine HERE, in this physical life, when the Light penetrates the darkness. I will ask you directly... Are you planing to complete suicide? PLEASE?? DON'T do it! There is the way to be happy in this life.

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@Preety_India And yet you ARE WORTHY! Worthy of love and peace and happiness. Life is difficult yes, but death is NOT better. My intuition is telling me that we are here to deal with our problems in this physical shape and form...

Hi. Please remember, you are a worthy human being. You are loved and respected in many ways. Sometimes we all feel like this. But there is a Light in us that is much stronger then our darkness. Our wounds are bleeding and we are in pain. But there IS hope! There IS healing and there IS Peace! You don't deserve hell, no matter what your mind mind is telling you, there is the solution. You are NOT weakling, you are vulnerable. We all are. The solution can and does come in many different ways. Sometimes in the form of a friend, a family member, a stranger, or in the form of a professional therapist. Please understand, death is NOT a solution! You are never alone, my friend! Love is in your heart?...

I have a question... Who is using SoonHei's account now? Becose I've seen it is active right now.

I am so sorry for your loss. I wish all the best to his wife and kids. May he rest in peace??...

I would say: "No thanks." Until i have an ego, i would abuse it one way or another.