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@Bobby_2021 @Danioover9000 uh oh actualized.org forum members/honorary couch experts busted Ukraine… and they have a chart with an arrow to prove it ???

And suddenly I am convinced ?

I think this whole thread is nonsense. I think some people were just waiting for some f*ck up from Ukraine (which is absolutely inevitable in the horrible situation Ukraine is in) to say “oh well, Ukraine’s not innocent too, bla bla, lets all move on from this war in Ukraine, bla bla, gas prices are rising” This has a whim of russian propaganda to it as well. Kinda like in the beginning of the war some people were defending russian invasion by saying Ukrainians are nazis. It’s just a lazy way of deflecting from the war. Again, the absolute equivalent of a crew of people being shot on the street and then some douchebag complaining of his car getting blood stains on it. The reality is that douchebag and mentally ill psychopathic people like this exist, that are unable to see anything outside of their nose, but luckily, most people are just going to ignore their noise.

Well, you are ignoring that thousands of Ukrainian citizens were killed by Russian missiles. Or is Ukraine a second class to Poland and Poland’s few citizens are more valuable than thousands of Ukrainian citizens?

How much contact do you have with them? Like how often do you talk/see each other? For how long do you talk for/spend time with them? Is there a cap you put on communication? Also, did you ever go through a state of hate and anger? Because for me it’s very hard to feel empathy for them, I don’t want to feel empathy for them, they are the reason of all the difficulties in my life.

Obviously, Poland won’t sue Ukraine Its ridiculous to even discuss this. Whom should Ukraine sue?

It would be mental if Poland sued Ukraine. It’s like if you were getting beat up on the street at night and screaming for help, and then someone sued you for making noise..

Do you feel this is a dangerous game to play though? Kind of like when you’re in an abusive relationship and you keep staying with the person hoping they would change or, even worse, that you can change them? Especially in an emotionally charged relationship such as child/parent, can you truly detach yourself properly from them without having expectations? Kind of like how a child always craves a mother, no matter how old the child is, and how toxic the mother is, the child will always have hope that the mother they always wanted would eventually show up. Also there’s a lot of baggage in these relationship, unlike other relationships, a lot of anger. I mean, why did you decided to keep your toxic parents in your life and not other toxic people? Why do parents get this special “pass” for being toxic? Wouldn’t guilt, sense of obligation, and social pressure be the only reasons?

Why are you not going NC with them? What benefit do you get out of communicating with them in such way? It sounds like basically dealing with a gang of angry dogs, trying not to set them off at all times. Is it because of guilt that you still stay in touch with them?

You don’t feel bad about getting financial support from them? Or you’re just really young still?

Are you NC with your parents?

@Jannes what are you microdosing on?

I have two questions. A person who has overcome their self esteem issues, accepted themselves for who they are, are loving and kind to themselves, have healthy self esteem and self confidence 1. Do they no longer get hurt when someone says something critical/hurtful/unjust to them? For example, when they are short and someone tells them they aren’t attractive enough because of that? Or when they don’t have many friends and someone discredits them because they don’t have many friends? 2. If they don’t get hurt/offended because they understand it says more about the person than it says about them, would they still want to be around that person? What would be a reason that they want/don’t want to be around that kind of person? Would these person choose to stay away from people who are narcissists/psychopaths/etc - why so?

Celebrities and yourself chose that lifestyle. You can make lots of money being famous, but you have to sell your privacy for that. Not everyone can stomach having millions of people discuss their dirty laundry, narcissist and psychopath enjoy it though, doesn’t matter what exactly is being talked about them, as long as they are being talked about.

People can’t peacefully watch a whole nation of people being destroyed, ESPECIALLY after we’ve seen the tragedy left behind Nazi Germany.

I specifically said it’s a cultural thing in my post so that you don’t call me a racist.

This is a bit irrelevant, but I noticed Indian people tend to fear monger a lot. They love to talk about doom and gloom scenarios, whine and complain about how bad the world is. Conservatives like doing it too. Just something cultural I noticed and I see it on this forum a lot too.

So you’re saying the only way out of this situation is to sacrifice the lives of 44 million people? There is just no other way to try and save those lives?

By letting them do “their thing” you mean russia continuing to flatten out Ukrainian cities and the mass genocide of Ukrainian people? When you see someone being gang raped on the street, is the “democratic” thing to do is to simply keep walking by “minding your own business”?

Saying that Ukraine “shares history” with russia is similar to saying that a rape victim shares history with their rapist.

With that golden logic then… Brazil deserves to be bombed the shit out by NATO or even Russia, I think the whole world should just nuke Brazil, because it clearly doesn’t give a damn about the war in Democratic Republic of Congo or Ethiopia…

You know that the estimate of civilians dead in Mariupol (one of the cities russia conquered) is now at 85,000? What relation does UKRAINE have to any alleged “evils” NATO counties commuted in Brazil? What level of psychopathy is this comment??

It’s not hard to understand. There is no “complications” to it, it’s very straightforward. Putin is not a genius, who wants fairness and equality for all countries, or a great leader who wants what’s best for his country and people - like you paint him to be. He is a dictator, who is, yes, paranoid of NATO, and who wants power in the world, but not through achievements and development, but through brute force. Yes, he is not the only one like that, and yes, there were similar instances in history, but two wrongs don’t make a right.

It is not as “wrong as Iraq” invasion. Ukraine is a democratic country, it’s not not lead by a terrorist like Sadam Hussein, there was no human rights crisis, no threat to the world coming from Ukraine

Lol, yes, russians are “macho” ? So not wanting to be thrown at a meat grinder for some psycho’s interests makes you a snowflake?