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I have lots of exposure to that culture. I don’t like Indian culture for the most part and will not romanticize it to make you feel better about yourself. That being said, I don’t like stage red/blue cultures generally. I also have no clue what you meant with the counter example thing.

@eos_nyxia What ended up happening to me is that I started worrying that all men are secretly like this. I’ve read people here (probably even Leo) saying that this is practically “locker talk”. What ends up happening with all these isolated/socially uncalibrated people here, they don’t get any feedback from the outside world, so they think they are all so developed and great and the rest are stupid “normies” who have their priorities all messed up. And no, the forum and online friends here don’t substitute in person real life connections. And, on average, people here are doing worse than the “normies”, financially, career wise, relationship wise, mentally, etc.

The reason that a 12 year old cannot start a family is because it’s not physically/psychologically ready to raise children. Children brought up in such homes would struggle physically and emotionally. The reason why cars are not rented out to people under 25 is because the data proves to be more reckless/unable to see the consequences of their reckless driving. Cops/teachers etc go through rigorous training and are being constantly monitored by others in order not to abuse their power.

Like I explained, I thought the guy was the same guy who made a post here about Indian guys struggling to date in US. Again, that was not a racist comment, nothing to do with race, but with the culture. It’s important to learn to distinguish the two.

You think that the power balance between two genders will change over night right after you fix laws? Also in some countries men have the right to bare their head and drive cars that women cannot do.

Because growing up children have been taught to listen to adults because they are older and thus know better. You were not told to listen to your younger/same age sibling. Being older has a natural authority to it.

There was a lot of really good women on this forum, really wise and their advice was always gold. They didn’t want to tolerate this abuse anymore, no healthy woman would want to be a part of this toxic community for long. There were multiple posts similar to mine too, nothing changes. I feel the opposite though, I’ve never met men who would be as bad as they are here (some men here are also very wise though and give great advice, but majority is toxic and abusive). After being on this forum my view of men declined drastically.

Why was the age of concent 18 to begin with? Why is it that in US you aren’t considered responsible enough to have alcohol until 21, but yet it’s ok for a 40 year old grandpa to date you? Or why is it that you can’t even rent a car until the age of 25? But yet you are considered wise enough to marry/start a family/ bring in children to this world.

More moralizing. See my post 10 comments ago about how you’re harassing me and how I am not going to be NICE to someone who is constantly harassing me.

That is my style of communication. It will never change. In fact, you being a pain in the ass makes me want to call people names even more. See you do it, so maybe instead of trying to teach a grown woman of how she’s supposed to speak you try and change yourself?

Again with the coulds and shoulds Do you make everyone in your life say exactly what you want or otherwise you throw tantrums and lecture them for hours? How does anyone keep tolerating you at this point.

So why aren’t you commenting under a thousands of posts like this that men make? Why aren’t you reporting that? You’ve patted yourself on the back for not participating in the “women are run through” open discussion we’ve been having - interestingly you’ve commented that also AFTER MY POST. Or because I am a woman I am not allowed to be “controversial and polarizing” not to make entitled “centre of the universe” males like you “triggered”?

Blocking you won’t make you stop making noise and throwing a tantrum reporting my posts every time I post. Leave me alone. You have some extreme issues with controlling your emotions - aka «истеричка». You’ve done this multiple times on this forum already, and then you come back and apologize.

There exist such things as cultural norms, grow up. It’s because what he was saying was misogynist, not because out of the blue I decided to say it.

@Something Funny I’ve had to delete my posts in the past because of you, because the second I’ve posted it you’d comment with your annoying moralizing. What more can I say at this point? What kind of decent treatment do you expect when you keep harassing someone with your lectures? I don’t need you to teach me right from wrong, I didn’t ask to be schooled. In what language do you need me to write to leave me alone? If you see my post, just pass by it, don’t comment. Or do you have a disease I should know about that makes you comment under my every damn post?

Dude leave me alone. I actually thought he was from India, because I thought I saw him make a post about how hard it is for Indian men to date in US. I made this comment because CULTURALLY in India it is accepted to be a misogynist and in US it’s not. You don’t give two shits about me offending anyone. You are literally commenting under every one of my posts here even if I ask you not to because you got butthurt that one time I asked people in their early 20s not to reply to me.

@Something Funny I think you are obsessed with me, you follow my every single post and can’t stop yourself from commenting. @integral please keep in mind that this forum is heavily regulated towards male users. Women on this forum have to endure all kind of abuse, but god forbid you offend men in any way. Also it has nothing to with racism but with third world culture where it’s still normal to be misogynist towards women.

One is expectedly inexperienced, the other is unwilling to learn. I feel 0 empathy towards the other.

Because it’s an equal field, both people are developing, no one is overpowering the other. Same as teenagers dating in high school.

What I am saying makes perfect sense but you need to be smart to understand it. I was a young woman once and I’ve had many friends so I know better than you what young women want. A random news article is not a valid scientific paper. Women are not jealous they are creeped out. There’s 7 years between the age of 18 to 25 where the brain is still not developed despite being of legal age. There is a chance of being abused when you’re lower, but it’s much higher when you’re younger. Did you take statistics in school? Do you understand likelihood and probability? I’ve been approached by Indian men more than any other men in my life. The “shy” ones hold very misogynistic incel values.

Would be more interested to hear of your ACTUAL experience. Also are you from India? Indian men are non-datable in US because they are probably the most misogynistic and entitled men on the planet. Also, becoming bitter with age is a phenomena both genders may face if they are regressing in life. Men who think it only applies to women are usually bitter AF themselves.

That is again garbage being spread in your incel misogynistic circles. Trust me that no woman is jealous of an old creep who keeps chasing young pussy all his life. What women feel is disgust and worry for the young woman, because they know these women are just being used and traumatized - they were these young women before. Age gaps is also a totally different thing, if you’re 50 and dating a 35 year old, it’s ok, you’re both mature adults. But if you’re 35 and date someone under 25 and who’s still on college, that’s just sick. Watch the video before commenting.

Take note that this narrative is exactly the reason why young men struggle with women so much, because women are constantly told this bs and brainwashed to ignore men of their age. Show me valid scientific studies on this. A 0.5 second google search disproves this BS. If you’re just going to spew nonsense and use bro-science don’t reply to my posts please.

That’s BS. You can take advantage of unexperienced people, unexperienced people can be older of course, but young = 100% unexperienced. If you’ve had experience and are still being taken advantage of, you’re just an idiot. Yea that’s the BS the society is telling you. Young women want love, majority couldn’t care less about money and status at that age… if anything it’s the other way around LMAO. And people in their late 20s and 30s are just as beautiful, if not more.

@Lila9 Oh wow that is horrible, can’t believe these things are so common. A guy once screamed at me at 8 am while I was walking to the bus stop to go to school if I want to suck his dick. My best friend had it worse though, she used to get flashed all the time when she was a kid, it never happened to me luckily. Yea, I would kill them too, or call the police right away ?