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@Carl-Richard it’s a bit misleading that they combined physical health damage with psychological into one category I am mostly interested in any physical damages

Thank you for this! It seems to say there is still health damage though. If you compare it to not doing anything at all that is.

I am actually planning to do it this weekend or Friday for the first time ? . I am just concerned about how healthy all this stuff is to the physical body.

Would edibles be better? Would mushrooms be better?

But isn’t REM sleep not so important anyways? Isn’t it deep sleep that you want to get lots of? Also, would it make you overeat the next day? I just sleep after the day of.

@Carl-Richard I think it causes more damage than cigarettes. Kind of similar to alcohol when people wake up from a night of drinking and look like death.

When high last time, I realized that intuition is not just knowing what a right path/right answer is. It’s about seeing things from multiple angles/seeing ways in which situation could play out/what a person really could be like and then finding appropriate questions/ways that will lead you to the actual truth. What do you think about intuition?

Are there any shrooms that make you sleepy afterwards? The weed that I’ve been smoking has a relaxing effect and puts you to sleep. I’ve been looking online and blue meanies and golden teacher apparently have energy level of 7, means that they probably should be taken during the day. I would like something I could take in the evening.

It seems that the more loving and forgiving you become of yourself, the more loving and forgiving you become of others. The more you start to understand your own psychology, the more you understand why narcissist is the way they are, why religious people are the way they are, etc. You relate it to the time you were ignorant yourself about something, you start to understand ignorance. However, what are some of the reasons you would still stay away from such people? Why wouldn’t you date a narcissist for example or a religious person? Is it again because of strong self love? Because you want to grow and growth is limited when you are around ignorant people? Because you can only give so much of your resources to such people? Or would they bring you down your conscience level? Can someone bring you down your consciousness level? Or is it a sign then that your level was not that high to begin with?

I don’t think I presuppose the negative traits, I think religion is generally correlated with closed mindedness, moralization, lack of spiritual growth, black and white thinking, etc. Also in my head they are in the same category as narcs because narcs in my life are religious.

so the illusion is that you are a separate being in the universe? So once you stop seeing yourself as separate and universe as hostile but rather see it as loving and guiding?

Could you explain that?

@SonataAllegro you smoked weed with it??

Hey all, I wanted to get some information on which psychedelic is better for first time experience and further experiences and what is the difference. I am looking for something that will help me release my fear, worry, anxiety, and, most importantly, help me be more self loving.

I’ve never tried psychedelics, but recently I got high a few times on strong weed. When high, I started having realizations about my life, some situations in my life became more clear to me. Is this why people trip? Does tripping make you see the Truth and gives you answers? Do you connect to your higher self when tripping?

But I feel like the insights don’t stay though? I even wrote some stuff down, but the handwriting was really bad.

I wanted to make this post long time ago, but always decided against it. This forum is 90% male dominated and the dating section is always full of misogynistic comments that no one reports for days. However, the second a woman writes something that remotely offends a male, it gets reported before you even get a chance to change it. Mods, is it possible for you to keep this in mind already that posts from a woman will be reported way more? It is already very hard as a female to express yourself, god forbid if you’re a witty one and not tame, the boys here just can’t handle it and have to stalk your every post the moment you make it in order to aggressively dismiss and state that a woman is wrong/doesn’t know anything/is jealous/masculine/hostile etc. Leo himself is letting all the abusive misogynist posts last on here for days and days to have “open discussion”, but I remember how when I made post about men paying for dates, he closed it the next day. How is this fair? @Leo Gura is this forum meant to be a sausage party? Or is it possible to give women freedom for an open discussion without being attacked by 18474918474 heated boys and then, reasonably, perhaps getting angry back in return?

@universe please lock this thread too.

Mods can you please lock this thread? There is too many people here with serious mental health issues and it’s bad for my mental health too. I don’t think I want to come back to this forum @NoSelfSelf

In the video the girl talks about how she was 19 and dating a guy 15 years older than her. She was taking a bus to see him, but was running late. He called her asking where she was and when she said she was just getting on the bus, he replied “didn’t we talk about your lateness before?” Can you imagine a grown mature woman taking a bus in the middle of the night to go to some dudes house like a free hooker to then have him be an ungrateful lecturing douchebag to her? Neither can I. This reminded me a lot about a recent post here by a dude who is 30 and says he only likes young girls, because women his age, as he said, “sorry not sorry”, but were not attractive to him. This dude posted about how a girl doesn’t have a car and has to take a bus to go to HIS place, she “hinted” (didn’t even dare to ask directly) that she wanted this dude to pick her up since he has a car, and the dude was whining here how he didn’t want to do it. Note that this dude goes out of his way to put down “older women” (aka women his age) in his post, he could have stated his preference without putting down women over 30, yet he writes passive aggressive things like “sorry not sorry”, “older women are desperate”, “older women have more testosterone”, etc. MASSIVE RED FLAGS of an abuser. Also, I am 30 myself and I cannot image dating a 20 year old guy, or have a 20 year old friend, I can’t even talk to 20 year olds here on this forum because they are saying nonsense and often are really arrogant/snappy about it too (aka, the donning Kruger effect). People under the age of 25 don’t even have their brains fully developed yet. Obviously, many 30+ year olds can be just as stupid, and just because you’re older doesn’t mean you are wise. BUT the reverse is definitely not true, every young person will not have experience, and therefore, be an idiot. Especially if they’ve had trauma/difficult childhood - that stuff takes years to realize and years to heal. I’ve then looked through some comments under the YouTube video and saw this and it blew my mind. I went to catholic school and had to wear uniform to school every day (grey pants and blue school top) and I would get cat called by older men all the time! It very rarely happens now that I am older. This video touched me especially bad because I’ve been in this kind of relationship myself when I was in my early 20s. I believed everything he said because in my head he was older and therefore “wiser” and must know better and I should just listen to him and everything he says and we’ll be happy (that’s also what he would tell me). This relationship took me years to recover from. Heard this before too.. lol Some of my friends had even worse experience with older men when they were younger, ending in really tragic ways, so I guess I shouldn’t complain. The power balance in these relationships is extremely twisted. And the damage this kind of relationship can do to someone when they are just starting off dating is also incomprehensible. As you grow older you develop thicker skin so you can withtand relationship heartbreaks and you won’t let anyone abuse/gaslight you and have strength and knowledge to walk away from these toxic MFs right away. Is it just abusive misogynists who go for those innocent young women? Ones that just want the woman to shut the fuck up spread her legs and eat his dick without much complains/anything in return? Ones who don’t see women as equal partners but rather someone they can dominate, rule and train?

Mods do you see what I mean by how women get attacked? Although, I don’t know if this user attacks everyone like this, or is it just women. I’ve explained already what I meant by my comment multiple times, again there is a difference between race and culture, and you can’t pretend that all cultures are equally developed. It seems that the user wants things said exactly the way he wants and he will harass the person until they say it. This is why women leave this forum because you’d go crazy with all these harassments and attacks (again don’t know if this user in particular targets only women or everyone who doesn’t do what he wants).

I am talking to you the way you’re talking to me. This conversation is over.

And you will not talk to me like that and order me around. Is that clear?!!!

Lol, what? ???

Oh, you need me to say “not all Indian men”? I have met 1 guy like that, yes. But I am talking about the culture in general.