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Yoga, meditation, shamanic breathing and DMT. Worked for me.

No I am not. Also, I do not take everything that also says as gospel.

Damn, Bernie called it.

To be fair, a lot of these states have not counted all their mail in ballots and Democrats tend to mail their votes in rather than show up (can confirm, that’s what I did), so we don’t really know what is going on. I will say it is close right now.

I mean the Democrats have a shot at the senate. So McConnell would revert back to minority leader if the Democrats can retake the senate, which would be huge.

Biden has to nab Georgia, North Carolina and Wisconsin or Trump stays. Damn. I guess people enjoy reality shows that much.

@Tarzan Deficiency consciousness is huge. It is sad how many guys allow themselves to be jerked around by women and how many women allow themselves to in relationships with douches just because they cannot be alone. I look back on a lot of things in my life, specifically with women and I would have made so many better decisions of I loved myself more. This society acts like we can only get love from another person. Add in the rat race and it is no wonder why most people hate their lives.

They are neck and neck in North Carolina. Michigan and Wisconsin are close too. It is far from over.

? All Biden has to do is win Nevada, Arizona, Maine (which look good so far) and Georgia (which is close). It is far from over.

It totally is. This is what just about every PUA teacher is about. Being detached from the outcome, not putting the woman on a pedestal, and just having fun. Core Wayne puts it this way: “hang out, have fun and hook up”

I mean, this is not anything new. But it is the way to go. This is how I treat women that I date.

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@Ethos Disney and Hollywood romantic comedies have a lot to do with it. On one hand it is cool how the film and television industry want to showcase what they believe love is. But the problem is that it leaves people with just a theory on love without even understanding its scope. So people just repeat what they see on the screen. I was like this until I got into pick up for a few years. Also, as a society we act as though romantic love is the only kind of love. @Carl-Richard Yeah, a lot of people think that self love means that you are just accepting yourself as is and you don’t want to grow. When in fact I don’t think you can grow without loving your self. Self love is the most important type of love. It is a bit paradoxical.

There is more to new age than that fluff.

I would not necessarily say that I believe that I am better off without them. But, when I went to this acting school for one year they were very much into relationships at that school and I had a female teacher try to force her values onto me. Before that point I just did not care scoot relationships. But the biggest thing is that I see the same thing over and over again. People thinking that a relationship is going to give them something. That is not even the “correct“ way to go about them. Most people believe that there is something there that there is not. The divorce in the u.s plus countless of relationships that a toxic prove that. As a guy it is important to not be attached to any woman (that is another thing that is wrong with relationships, two people get attached and say that they are in love) and to know what is out there. I have dated shy women, intellectual women, artistic women, business/type A women, icy women, and etc. That is a lot of valuable reference points. A lot of ups and downs. Taught me more than say I had been in a five year committed relationship. As far as finding someone that you resonate with, I mean yeah, logically you would want to turn that into a relationship. But sometimes even that will go to hell. I will say that a truly high value make is not seeking a relationship as they have only high quality women in their lives to begin with. @F A B What I am saying really is not that different from Buddhism. I’m just being more blunt with it. Buddhism says that relationships leave to suffering. Check it out. And what I am saying is far more true than what most people expect a relationship to be.

Eh, I’m not opposed to relationships. Just the old relationship paradigm and people’s willingness to participate in dysfunction. Everyone is you pushed out, so if you are already for example seeing from others that you have self worth issues, you getting into a relationship will just create a bigger mirror. A mirror that you may want to shatter. I agree with quality over quantity. But specifically for men, dating a lot of different types of women is a very valuable thing. That is not what I am saying. This fallacy of “I have to experience it” does not make any sense. Telling someone who only wants a relationship because of social pressure to give it a try is sending that person down the path to hell. There have been plenty of men who have had bad relationships. So why do you need to be one of them? And bahaha. I’m just a guy on an Internet forum. I am not telling anyone to do anything. Free will exist. I’m just saying the truth. It can be deeper if both parties enter it whole. That almost never happens. Usually it is two people playing hide the wiener.

Everyone is a mirror. I dare say that you can learn a lot more by dating multiple women rather than being in a relationship. If it were not for my PUA phase I would have never gotten into spirituality. If I had just gone on the path that I was going I would be the “normies”.

I mean, is it really that far from the truth. And getting hit by a bus hurts right? But you probably have not gotten hit by one. So should you give that a try?

@EternalForest I remember in the art of live by Dr. Eric Fromm he says that a lot of people confuse self love with narcissism. But he says that narcissists actually lack self love. It seems that the key is to reject the social hierarchy?

Indeed. But that doesn’t mean that the majority of relationships are not toxic. The reason that 99.99% of relationships are toxic is because the majority of people are operating from the old dysfunctional relationship paradigm and are in deficiency consciousness.

You are acting as though it isn’t the ego that wants relationships because it is searching for the joy of being. People go into relationships for all I kinds of selfish reasons. Desiring consistent sex, emotional needs, attachment styles, economic reasons and yes a scarcity mindset. This is why the vast majority of relationships today are very toxic. ?

@Megan Alecia This is a good point. Though, I believe that most stage green people tend to value being loved by another more than self love.

Charlie Sheen is also a great actor and everything seemed cool until he confessed to having HIV. That was an eye opener for many. And truth be told, true high value males do not need relationships. Look at Leonardo DiCaprio. That man walks out of a club with forty women. I know that Jason Segel for a while was playing the field. Most guys if they could would do that over being a relationship any day. Most guys lack an abundance mindset and have a scarcity mindset.

Why? Because I am speaking the truth? 99.99% of relationships are toxic.

Your description of a great girl is good. But how do you know that these good guys are work girls that are like that? Status is a whole different thing. I consider Bradley Cooper a good guy (not pretentious, nice, talented, driven and charismatic), but he is also a movie star worth $100 million and has eight academy award nominations. Status is a whole different game. And again, you don’t really know who these women truly are. Most people will put on a front in the beginning stages of a relationship. Most people thought that Brad and Angelina were an amazing couple. But that was not the case at all. Everyone knows now that Will and Jada Pinkett Smith are together moreso as business partners than lovers. Jay Z and Beyoncé are similar. I do agree with your last sentence. But it works for a reason. Unfortunately, most women are very immature.