Thestarguitarist14

Glad to see that you concur.

No. There are loads of ways to make money and an amazing g lifestyle is subjective. For some that is a penthouse in Manhattan and for others it’s backpacking out in Yosemite. And it’s 2022, if you are a guy who isn’t making six figures or genetically blessed, or have grade A game then you are going to have a hard time regardless. Might as well be smart and create real change in your life.

Because most guys just don’t have it in them. Most guys will just be average men. If everyone had great game it wouldn’t be such a cool thing to have now would it?

Whatever man. Like I said. Go do pick up for five years and see how happy you are. Most of you guys will never have good game anyway so you will just be spinning your wheels.

Man, you guys have done serious scarcity mindsets. You all just want shortcuts. You do not want to do the real work. Pick up is not some wonderland. Most of you guys will never be good pick up artists so it’s futile anyway. Also, if you cannot build a network of cool men, then how the hell are you going to get nines and tens? You do lot get nines or tens off game. You get them off any combination of money, looks, status, and social proof.

I want to say that I am not saying night game doesn’t work. I still go out to bars and will go to night club once in a while. BUT: What outcome do you want? If you really just want to get laid, go ahead and go to the biggest city you can and party. You will meet a ton of superficial women who don’t care about you and have body counts that will make you throw up. I did pick up for three years, two in L.A. Hollywood was my stomping grounds. I had one night stands in the hallways of clubs, pulled model like women. It’s fun, but it is so unfulfilling that it isn’t funny. I remember in early November 2019 I hooked up with this tall, hot blonde woman. I never felt more down after it was over. And if you date women from the club then bless your heart. The best thing for men to do goes with age. 18-29? Don’t get into a serious relationship. But don’t just be a pick up artist. Go out and network. Find men who are where you want to be and make a wolf pack. Social proof is an amazing way to get women and you will not have to be a pick up artist when you roll into the club with four other men on their shit versus you going alone or with your wing which leads to playing the numbers game. From 18-35 as men we have no leverage in dating. You have to remember that night clubs are meant for women. You will get laid if you go out to the club twice every weekend for a year. But it will probably be like five times and truth be told, that is a good of time IMO. You probably approached 500 women in the club and only had sex with five of them. Even if you had sex with 100 out 500 (which is possible if you are willing to have no life) that’s not even 25%! Also, in today’s world, if you want a wife, you need to make enough money to retire. Meaning you better be on your shirt, have a business or two by the time you are thirty five and employ your wife. The other option is going 50/50 and well… the divorce rate speaks for itself. So, if you are spending $100 plus a weekend at club (you’ll spend way more than) and you don’t make at least $120,000 a year then your priorities are out of whack. You won’t make money chasing women, but you’ll get plenty of women making money. In short: Pick up will get you laid, but it won’t lead you to your wife. What will is making money, have a good network of men who are on their shit, and living a social life of abundance you’ll be way more attractive to the women they you meet be it day or night. The guys who get the most women don’t cold approach. They they meet women because of their lifestyle and don’t have to make a big effort to get laid. All the while the rest of us are fighting for one night. Basically, stop leaving the house looking for sex.

Classic Leo. I swear no one on this site can read. Alright, go be a pick up artist for five years and see how happy you are. Leo has been doing for years and he isn’t married or in a committed relationship. There’s a reason for that too.

No.

I feel like you are nit reading what I am saying on pick up being out dated. Being a pick up artist in general is outdated. It’s mainstream. Everyone knows what it is. Women aren’t stupid. What I am suggesting is lifestyle game and building your network, which has way more value than chasing women. And like I said, you WILL met women along the way. Also, clubs cost like $20 to get in and drinks are like $15. You will waste so much money in clubs. Go once in a while with your Wolfpack. Guys seriously need to take women down a notch.

It’s outdated because this style was from 2006. It died in 2015. I am not against going out to clubs. But all I am saying is that from personal experience it’s not the best place to meet women. Unless you just want to have one night stands, which hey, everyone goes threw that phase, I certainly did. But you will get over it and crave more. The problem is that guys put WAY too much focus on women as if this is the problem and it will solve they’re life. When in reality their lifestyle is not attractive women and they themselves are not attractive to women and that is what needs to change.

LOL, nah dude, nothing you have said suggest any real dating experience. But hey, what do I know? I only did pick up for three years, two of which was in L.A.

Dude, I have seen your videos, your idea of game is outdated as hell. You clearly aren’t with the times. Its 2022, we live in the most superficial time the world has ever seen. Dating is dead, most people just hook up or if a guy lets a women they just invite them back into their place. If you are going out on a Saturday to a night club every weekend as a pick up artist then you are doing something that is outdated. You can still get laid this way but it is just playing the numbers game and you are also not dealing with the most quality women. Men are better off networking and building a Wolf pack. You will meet women along the way and you could actually get them because 1) They are not the focus anymore. 2) You probably have mutual friends so she won’t have her guards up. And 3) You are creating a lifestyle that women want to be apart of.

You clearly have no dating experience.

It’s because most guys watch porn, play video games, and eat Cheetos all day.

If you are in North America or Western Europe then good luck because most women in the West are not spiritual. At best you’ll get a girl who has crystals and does yoga. Going to India is your best bet. I would say Japan is good, but even then it’s not that spiritual anymore.

Are you a d******? People have been meet women on the streets and in cafes since cities were made. Were they pick up artists? A pick up artist is someone who leaves the house and is like “I need to approach five women and get three numbers!” I know because that was me. I am saying you go about your life and approach women who you find attractive. Being a pick up artist isn’t going to radically change your dating life until you also have a lot of money and hit the genetic lottery.

It’s hilarious that guys are still doing pick up in 2022. As a 29 year old who did pick up hardcore for 3 years, stopped approaching every day and got better results, I say this: Stop focusing on women. 18-25 is the worst for dating as a guy. We have no advantage and don’t know shot. 25-29 is better, but we still have no leverage. In fact, most men do not get any leverage in dating until they are 35 and they are making six figures. Cold approaching in 2022 is not a good strategy IMO. You can get laid, but it’s just playing the numbers game. You are better off working on yourself as a man, networking in your city, going on, and when you meet women along the way, see them as a good time. Me personally now I go out to dinner at a place with a nice bar on Saturday and go to another venue from there and on Saturdays I like going to events. Speaking of which, bars and clubs are not good places to meet women. Events, private parties, the street, cafes, hiking trails and etc are way better. Most of the women that I have dated came from netting them on the street during the day. As far as Leo’s game after watching his videos I doubt he’s that good. He probably has gotten a girlfriend or two from it (which anyone can of they are willing to approach a lot), but I doubt he is having a ton of second dates if you know what I mean.

So, I am listening to one of Leo’s old videos called how to stop judging yourself. As a black man I was definitely surprised to hear him say the N word. You can watch the video here and he says it at 27:27. I don’t know what made him believe that it was okay to say this.

The fact that the word beaner can be said with it being bleeped out shows how bad the N word is. Sorry, can’t justify your racism.

Just because white people use that word doesn’t make it right. I turn my eyes away from what I don’t want to see. As long as they aren’t saying that shit in front of me I don’t care. But when that seeps out then it’s a problem because it’s clearly apart of your vocabulary when it should not be.

Leo’s busy trying to find his wife at the club.

The N word is not minutia.

LOL

Duh.

Get side hustles. The gig economy now allows you to leave your wage slave job and make even more money.