Thestarguitarist14

At the very least, pick up will give you the confidence to be able to talk to women. Though, not sure if you can really do pick up with the Pandemic going on.

For me it is all about what makes me feel alive. I have this quote that I found in the anime Gunslinger Girl that was taken from an opera, I live for art, I live for love. When I am making and playing music, writing a novel or screenplay, or acting or directing a film, I feel so alive, so present in the moment. That’s freedom for me.

Shamanic tapping is also amazing. I have been doing it for a lot of different things, and the change is instant. Do that for thirty days and you will be a different person.

I remember watching a video from the youtubers coach red pill that everyone goes through an incel stage. Meaning everyone has desired to have sex, but it was not happening. I remember in late 2014 to 2017, I was able to hook up at a good rate. 2018? Shit? At the end of last year I got with two of the hottest women I have ever been with. After that an ex came back (my “twin flame”) and messed up my head. Its cyclical. You just can’t take it personally.

You, consciously or unconsciously, have created and attracted to you everything in your life. The good, the bad, and the ugly.

Creativity is sexual energy.

You sounds like a very nice woman who means well. I have to say, you have given this guy ample opportunity and he is not doing it for you. If you truly do not see yourself being happy with him, it is either time to tell him the truth or to let him down easy. It depends on if you believe that the problem is you are him. You can work on this. All it takes is two willing partners and communication.

Ask yourself “why am I dating a guy that I do not have feelings for?” Have you had sex with him? Perhaps you can develop feelings for him. But three months is a longtime. Most women in Los Angeles write guys off after one date.

Sounds like you are going in the right direction. Soul to Soul connections are meant to be a catalyst for growth in both people. I am sure that she is going through an awakening herself. Remember, if she was so “advanced” you two would be together. Perhaps you two will be reunited. Or perhaps you will lose all feelings for her and meet someone better. Time will tell. People need to realize that the most important love affair that one can have is with themselves. A loving and healing relationship with themselves is the key. I promise you, each and every one of us will have a loving connection with someone. But, you do not need it. Well, the issue is the culture. It’s 80% of women who all they want to do is get into relationships. Then they complain when it does not come into form, they call their guys “karmic twin flames”, etc. They also believe that twins flames “must” get into a relationship (which is not always the case). They completely ignore the kundalini and heart center awakening. They completely ignore the fact that the love that they felt while they were in the “bubble love” phase was actually fit themselves. The problem is that we have all been brainwashed in this society that you cannot feel love without someone else being there. Which is a crock of shit. I have met one of my twin flames. Dated her last year. It was a hellish, but eye opening experience. I learned a ton. Most of all that I need to love and heal myself and not seek approval from others. Even if it is a strong soul to soul connection. The twin flame experience is meant to expand the consciousness of both parties and it usually happens because both parties are too stubborn to change. It’s really all about evolution. That is interesting, I will check her out. And don’t worry. If you don’t get j to with this woman, you will have another stab at it. It will be an even stronger connection. Just focus on yourself. Love and heal yourself.

Then why is no one but you laughing? While I hear what you are saying, no one is saying to adopt someone else’s beliefs. But I will say that most people have very limiting belief systems and within the twin flame community a ton of people get stuck for years. I have heard stories like a woman who put up with a guy for 15 years who was terrible to her and ended up in prison because he was her twin flame and was told that she could only have one. Or if a guy who could not let go of a woman who was his twin flame, despite not speaking with her for 15 years. Or even worse, people remaining in relationships that they do not like because they believe that it is a karmic contract. Give me a break.

What a joke.

@Keyhole Me thinks thou doth protest too much. Go ahead. Report me. I am not saying anything that is un true. This is common knowledge that has been experienced by many people, including myself. It is hilarious how you are projecting so much, mentioning cult dynamic (then what is actualized.org) or perpetuating stalking (no one is doing that, in fact, if I were him I would move on). And no shit, no means no. Again, your psychological projection is showing. Just because it threatens your belief system does not mean I should back down.

Someone is getting into their ego. First off, just because she is resisting him does not mean that she is not attracted to him. She may not want a relationship with him. But that is not to say that there is nothing between the two. It’s sheer arrogance to say otherwise. Secondly, you appear to be very close minded. Jaded too. Odd. Women are usually the ones that go crazy for the twin flames stuff. I suggest you watch Leo’s videos on open mindedness. Perhaps you will feel better.

? If someone says that they have found their twin flame (btw, you can have more than one) who is anyone to say otherwise? Besides the label does not mean anything. He probably just met a woman with whom he has a strong soul to soul connection with. That happens everyday. Could be a twin flame. Who knows. It sounds to me that you are trapped inside the old relationship paradigm. How is that working for you?

Fuck that. Those people are full of fluff. Watch this guy:

You are just reading fluff. Check out goldraytwinflames on YouTube. He is a 76 year old man who has been in union with his twin flame for years. Best source for twin flames and soulmate info. Also, no one is “destined” to separate. Separation is a result of one of the parties hanging onto the old relationship paradigm.

@Applegarden You need to start practicing some self love.

You can have huge passion and attraction for someone and hide it. It’s called the “runner/chaser dynamic. I will give an example. I was starting to see this woman who I would label as a “soulmate” and we could have had the twin flame experience with each other. It was obvious that there was huge passion and attraction. But, she is in a relationship and for whatever other reasons, she decided to start playing games, trying to put me into the chaser role. I tapped out. The label does not mean anything. But I will say that twin flames often tend to get together and have a “mission” to do some kind of work to advance society while soulmates are just two people who have a strong soul to soul connection and play house.

@Dario1995 Kundalini experiences are intense. Expect your whole life to change in every way.

Don’t text her at all and live freely.

You have imposter syndrome. Time for some inner work.

To be fair, you’re probably thinking of him as an older man. As a young man he looked average. Most people unless they make an effort do not stay good looking forever.

@meow_meow Sounds like normal kundalini awakening to me.

@ColeMC01 Here’s what I have learned as a guy who was called ugly in high school and now has four endorsement deals on Instagram with clothing and jewelry brands who approached me based off my looks. Its all about how you feel about yourself. Yes, people can be mean and say awful shit. But it is up to the individual whether or not they agree with it or take it personally. It seems like he has taken it to heart and has allowed it to be a part of his identity. Even though it is only an opinion.

First off, you are way ahead of the curve. My advice to you is focus on your life purpose. Especially right now. You will have the last laugh.