Thestarguitarist14

I was reading, can’t hurt me. Good book. Just a bit too dark for me right now. I re read the four agreements this morning. Great, short self help book. I am currently reading Dynamic Laws if prosperity. Bit old. But liking it so far.

I don’t know about med, but therapy for sure.

You do not gain confidence from the outside. Trust me. After doing pick up for years and being able to have one night stands in the clubs, I did not start to have some real confidence until this year. Confidence is an inside job. She has low self esteem. Only low self esteem women date jerks and bullies. Don’t waste your time with her. If she contacts you, fine. But don’t reach out to her anymore and focus on yourself. You have to get to a place where you do not care about having a girlfriend. Then funny enough, you’ll get one.

You should never look for anyone to meet your needs. Anyone who tells you otherwise has some codependency issues that they have not worked out. It is funny how people will be like “she’s not meeting my needs.” Or, “he’s not meeting my needs.” Who the hell do you think you are? Meet your own needs. Or “She didn’t screw me right.” You know, there is a saying for that. Go fuck your self. Even the most enlightened person has said that once.

Yeah man, maybe you should not be dating. You have major self esteem problems. Check out there six pillars of self esteem. Start doing the Sedona method to release these negative beliefs. Do shamanic tapping to release these negative beliefs. Guided meditations. By November you will feel way different.

That’s dope. I have had sexual experiences in the astral planes and they beat anything in physical reality by a longshot.

You have to remember, all are twin flames are your highest vibrational match. Therefore you can have more than once twin flame. This whole one soul in two bodies is nonsense. Think about it. Why would any soul in their right mind only desire to be in two bodies? You got another twin flame coming towards. Just got to do the inner work and allow.

@StarStruck You got to see how you are coming across as needy. Women hate neediness. Does not matter how strong of a connection that you have with her, once she senses that, she will instinctually back off. You have to get to the place where you do not need a relationship. Where you can heal on your own. Check out these books, the body keeps score, psycho cybernetics.

Kudos to you for really committing to your fetishes.

The thing is, you cannot expect a woman to replicate what you watch in porn. Porn is not real.

The Sedona Method is a good way of dealing with heartbreak:

Here is the thing about oneness. Oneness actually does not exist. Spiritual teachers only say this as it takes you away from separateness. Teal Swan made a great video about this years back, You are acting as if law of attraction is training wheels when you have to realize that everyone creates their own reality. Your feelings create your thoughts and your thoughts create your reality. The energy that you put out into the world is what you get back. That is law of attraction. You attract whatever dominant feeling that you have. So it isn’t a matter of needing law of attraction. You already practice it unconsciously. It is a matter of becoming a conscious co creator. The key to being a conscious co creator is actually realizing that you have everything on the inside. That if you desire an external outcome, you have to become it first. Then your outer reality will match your inner reality.

Never said that. Just relaying my experience.

BDSM is heterosexual too.

No, that’s not “normal”. It feels that way because our society is fucked up. That is the thing about porn. You start off with the regular stuff, but you can’t get that “fix” so you go harder. Then you start watching crazy shit and identifying it with your sexuality. I have watched some bdsm and femdom. I used to try to get women to do that shit to me. I still remember this one woman made me squeal in horror as she bent my dick, asking me what I wanted after trying to get her to dominate me. You see, that’s no good. Time to quit porn.

Watching all that kinky porn did a number on your sexuality, that is for sure.

It appears as though we are on the same page. I do five out of six of those everyday! I used to write blogs, but I am more a fiction writer (songwriter/screenwriter/novelist) so I prefer to save the “juice” for that. I have been using shamanic tapping for manifesting lately and this has been a game changer. A lot of people do not want to see to realize that one actually has to be rather conscious to be a deliberate manifestor.

Wow, that’s dope. Yes, he is cool as hell. I am basically at that point. I noticed with the last woman that I dated that I was subconsciously wanting out the whole time. While I am open to a deep soul to connection, that would have to be something that comes towards me. I’m done pursuing that. Guess the only thing is sex. I like the notion of having two to three friends with be benefits. Dinner and sex once a week with each. When they want to develop something serious, they can move on and just dump me. No hard feelings.

I have used just about all the big dating apps and sites I prefer cold approaching. With dating apps and online dating, the women hold too much power. They have so many guys hitting them up. Also, you don’t have the ability to use all of your personality and charisma to charm them. I am only using them right now because L.A is still on lockdown and I don’t drink anymore so bars aren’t my scene. My advice: join a dating site, get a good opener and message 100 girls a day. Do not look for anything serious. The cool thing about online dating is that you can state they you only want something casual. Don’t take the women on there seriously. Just use it to have fun.

What a joke.

Yeah. You were spitting a ton of philosophies without actually being open minded. What a joke.

So are you saying that I should not have any goals or desires? And why can’t that studio film be a high quality one? It is btw. Look at it this way. Elliott Smith (who considered himself to be spiritual) is one of my favorite musicians. His music changed a lot of people’s lives. His music has gotten me through some dark periods of my life. That is a huge service. His music has saved millions of lives.

Hey man, I see what you are doing here. Not going to work. First, I never claimed to be at the level of Sadguru. I could get there. Growing up, a lot of people thought I would be a shaman. But that is not my thing. You are making a shit ton of assumptions without knowing a damn thing about me. I am an artist. Lately I have been focusing on my music and writing. Both are meant to raise the consciousness of society. I create both with unconditional love (that’s not even the right word). That is how I give service. If I was actually all about wanting stuff, I would create a low consciousness business and sure as hell not be an artist. Law of attraction and inner reconciliation are really intertwined.

What b.s. At the end of the day, you come first. Even if you are a parent, you come first. If you do not take care of the inner child, you will never be of use to anyone.

Hey man, it’s your life. You can allow it to be as sorry as you desire. Just remember, when you are stuck in philosophies, you have no room for vision.