Thestarguitarist14

Hell yes. I use full moons to release any negativity that I have. I write anything that I have left down, use the letting go technique, then burn the piece of paper. New moons I use to manifest. For two weeks I visualize what it is that I am looking to bring into my life. I do the 3 days on and off thing where I write an affirmation for that for 33rimes for three days, then stop for three days. On the new moon I write down all my desires. Both work. You just have to believe.

I came to this conclusion last night. I did not jerk off for months, was seeing a woman who self sabotaged the connection, I walked away. How my bod is saying “what? No sex? Not going to happen.” Now I am working on showing my body whose boss. It’s a challenge for sure. I have been watching these shamanic tapping videos and they are helping:

Yes.

Damn, this is pretty much me. Though I did not really have girlfriends. I was always more of a “wham bam thank m’am” kind of guy which is even less fulfilling.

Every soul that inhabits this earth is here for a reason. There are no accidents. The spiritual community likes to believe a lot of fluff. But not everyone is here to live a “comfortable” life. Take Martin Luther King Jr, Gandhi, RBG, Mother Teresa, etc they came here to clear out certain patterns from society. It was their soul’s purpose. The deeper that you dive into “enlightenment” (which is really just realizing that the past are just stories we tell ourselves) the more deeper you go into your soul’s purpose. Which is your life’s purpose.

Not a book, but by far the best resource that I have come across for chakras.

What field do you work in? Or better yet, what is it that you desire to do with your life? Do you know your purpose? And that is good. Never tried their meditations. Though, the ones that I gave you are going to take you way more deeper. Shamanic tapping is going to probably be the most effective way for you to achieve inner reconciliation. That stuff is amazing.

People only call things synchronicities that they do not understand. Nothing happens for no reason.

You have to realize that this is a school. Life is a school. It’s like (this is going to sound conversational) a soul coming here to be sexually abused. Nobody ever wants to talk about this in the spiritual community. But I bet most people would be like “why would anyone be so stupid to come here and experience being sexually abused?” Well, I can’t say, but nothing happens for no reason. Everyone’s soul has a mission. It is up to you to live it.

All those people are still identifying with having a self. Take athlete. No good athlete is completely selfless. They are paid to be selfish for their organization. I find that athletes lose their steam when they begin to become selfless and can’t do the cut throat shit that got them to the top.

A great example of a rational person is Lelouch from Code Geass. He is a rational’s rational. Sees everyone has pawns on his chessboard and plays them as such. He of course sees this as okay as he his a goal in mind that is for the greater good. Being too rational can lead to devilery.

I don’t know. I just allowed for “big me” (my nick name for my dick) to take over. He seems to know what to do.

Well, really you are God. You are god watching the observer who observes the observer and so on. And as God you can create anything.

Not true. Your feelings create thoughts. There may be a “you” but there is awareness and awareness is aware of the feelings that arise which create thoughts. So in a way, you do create your thoughts. Your awareness influences your feelings, which create your thoughts.

The relationship paradigm in today’s society has been around for ages. The sad thing is that it has only gotten worse. 51% percent divorce rate in the U.S. Most men and women are unhappy with their girlfriend or boyfriend. The majority of relationships are toxic and dysfunctional. Yet we all would like to continue on thus path? I don’t get it.

You don’t want a woman who wants to mother you. I was dating one like that recently. She will annoy the shit out of you and you will push her away. It will be fine to use that girl. There is an easy way out of this, or a hard way. Why make it hard? That meditation is meant to do it in a way that is easy on your psyche and emotions. Really, it sells your solar plexus chakra whose boss. What field do you desire to be in?

Yeah, it is because your neediness is emanating from you and she smelt it from a mile a way. This is the cycle that a lot guys get into. Then they call themselves incels. You must take your power back. Outside of healing, focus on your purpose. Take a break from women for the rest of the year. They will be there in 2021. It will be hard to let go of hard. I have an unorthodox method that worked for me. For ten minutes a day for how many times needed, lay down and visualize her. Five of those minutes, have sex with her. Why? It is your inner child that is crying right now. He wants to have sex with her. And he doesn’t care if it is in your head, heart, stomach or dick. He wants what he wants. This can take a few weeks to a a few months. But you will notice slowly how you will stop caring about her. Focus on yourself. Do not focus on any woman right now. You need to see your own value. Utilize what I sent you. They will change your life. You must realize that you are looking for women to love, accept, approve of and trust you. It is not your fault. We have all been sold a lie. The love that you desire for a women to have for you would simply be your love being reflected by her. Her acceptance and approval of you should not matter and you will find women who do accept, approve of and trust you once you clean up a few things. It is an inside job. I promise you, everyone will be in a deep commuted relationship. But you got to have some self respect first.

You see the issue here right? You clearly have abandonment issues. So you are self sabotaging when you get with a woman. I have done this so many times. After narrowly avoiding a narcissistic trap (I am gonna h to just guess, but you have come across a few narcissist or narcissistic women right) in August, I decided to do a lot of healing work, including mediating on self sabotage. That help me a shit ton. Women are simply more guided by their emotions more than guys are so they pick up on things a lot quicker. You have to dive deep in yourself. If I am being honest, you should not be worried about dating anyone. At least until you don’t care about being with a woman, which will help you get more women. You need to give yourself ultimate self love, self acceptance, self approval and self trust. You need to become your own best friend. You need to find where you demons hide and bring them to light.

I would sum it up like this. Teal teaches me how to feel. Leo teaches me how to think. Teal is also more into being mainstream with her shorter videos and lets been honest, she is hot. Leo is just way more niche by nature. She has an episode on spiritual drugs. But she does not advocate long term use. And yeah, you have to apply both of their teachings. Doing that has changed my life. Funny, I got deeply into both of them at a low point in my life and never looked back. Has changed my life.

I have to say that Teal is an extremely spiritually gifted being. Where as Leo had to work towards it. Teal oozes spirituality. She is a straight up mystic, which is way she has so many haters. She is clairvoyant and clairaudient. She can channel, she is a healer, etc. She has been aware of her abilities since she was a child. Basically Leo is like the athlete who became gold over time. Teal is the natural has has been a beast since her rookie year. But I like your take. It is up to you to meet your own needs. And if you can go into a relationship with the intention of meeting the other person’s need, well...that is a recipe of success.

As a musician, music is a great metaphor for law of attraction. Especially since most people see music as magic. Making music is interesting because it comes out of nothing. It is all about intention. When I write a song all I have is the melody in my head (the intention). I then sit down and write the notes (writing down my intention). Then, I play it the first time around to get a feel for it (feeling as if it was already here). After that I write the lyrics (scripting). Then I sing the song from start to finish. After some practice, I have manifested my song. That in a nutshell is how you manifest anything.

Hey man, I did not have good early life relationships. My mother physically, mentally and emotionally abused me. My father was absentee, specifically once he lost his job. While I did have friends and girlfriends growing up, they were terrible. As an adult the closest thing to a relationship that I have had is when I was in a long distance thing with a woman who I met while she and her sister were on vacation. Outside of that I dated this woman for a few months who turned out to be a narcissist and treated me like shit. Everything else has been a revolving door of women coming in and out of my life (which is not all bad). I guess what I am saying does take courage. You have to realize that no human being can fulfill you. Say if you somehow meet a woman who will meet your needs. Guess what? You will push her away. Why? Because you have not even dealt with your own resistance to your needs being met. Btw, I am not saying to not get into a relationship. But you only get what you give.

You have to realize that the secret is very mainstream. If it spoke like that then nobody would have watched it or bought the subsequent books. The secret only kind of gets law of attraction right. But it is a good intro for people who have no prayer and are looking for some kind of salvation.

I find that love is not the right word. I don’t know what to call it. Perhaps it is more about constant acceptance of the present moment? I have never thought it that way. But that’s true, in this world if you were in fact unconditionally loving 24/7 you would be eaten up alive. That’s why we all have boundaries.

It sounds like you are talking about unconditional love? Unconditional love is state of being, not a state of mind. There is no one on this earth who constantly is emanating unconditional love. If that was the case, nobody would have no problems. And there is not anyone that I know who does not have at least one problem in their life.