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And reason without reason is called being crazzy

@Moksha What about being able to work hard and smart though? Will right-brain thinking training enhance my ability to do that you think?

Do you though?

I mean If you are forced to talk to one. You could just say hi and smile and than just go on your way but that depends really on what sort of relationship you have with the girl you would " meet" on the street. I mean if you have a super close connection to that girl, than she even might be the one wanting to small talk with you. It's very context sensitive.

Seeing multiple girls at the same time while not being in a committed relationship is great because it shows girls that you're abundant and have options. Don't shy away from being honest about that to the girls you date if they happen to ask. If you meet one girl with another, introduce them to eachoter, play it cool and own it. It's not awkward, it's good and attractive.

Broo, I love this. Amazing journal - thanks for sharing.

I can't concentrate if I hear even the slightest of sound. It's facinating how people can be so different!

I'm in a similar situation as you. My holistic/ systemsthinking/ creativety thinking is really strong but I am less capable when it comes to logic. I belive this boils down to me not being able to " think inside" logic as good as someone who is more logical because that's not how people who are intuition oriented see the world. Take empathy for example. Why can a mother who have lost her child " think inside" and identify better with another mother who have lost her child than you and me? It obviously is due to her experience where something similar happend to her. This than makes her more capable of thinking and relating to her accurately because she have experienced it. That said, who do you than think is able to identify and think inside logic the best? The one who uses logic to see the world all the time and is identified with being a logical person or the person who don't use logic to understand the world? The " problem" is in other words that you can't relate to logic as well as other people can ecuase you can't " put yourself in logics shoes" aswell as someone who uses logics way of thinking to operate the world ( the structure of logic) So to the question: How can I rekindle my interests in the right brain? By thinking more logically and therefor learning to identify more with logic. My strategy to become more right brain oriented is to let my drive to understand the world to push me towards trying to understand math and logic ( becuase that's a part of the world). When I'm studying math, I am in other words not settleing on trying to solve something. I am aiming towards understanding, identifying and thinking inside logic. For this shift to occur, it of course goes without saying that consistency and the right intensity is key to be able to become more right brained. Hope that helpes (: @tatsumaru

Amazing Share! Super inspiring. I´m rooting for you buddy

@IAmPaulQuinnNo, I am saying that you potentially care more about chasing girls than you admit and that you use " imma focus on what's meaningful " as a way to get girls but in another sneaky way. Note, that I said potentially because I can't know what's up with you. Maybe you don't have a fixation around getting girls and just see it as shallow and not worth your time and if that's the case - good for you. Me personally have used " I don't need to focus on girls " as a way to avoid talking to girls and instead try to move around that need by denying and repressing that all I secretly want is sex and intimacy. Moral of the story - figure out and investigate why you don't care about getting laid.

Only you can know what you want.@IAmPaulQuinn I usually said that too in order to trick myself so that I could double down on " getting" after it because I thought getting after it was the key to get good with girls. But You're not me. Maybe you generally don't give a fuck and if that's the case. Amazing.

Sounds good. Be careful so that this is not an excuse as to why you should keep sucking with girls.@IAmPaulQuinn Many times when we need things desperately we try to drop the need for it in order to feel good for not getting the need fulfilled. It's like an obsession thought where we try to avoid our core fear/ vore self statement about ourselves by trying to not care about our needs and fears, while we in reality really do. If you say that you did this and that to get laid, that probably tells you that you really want it.

Thank you man. I really appreciate the advice??

I feel like there are two different groups of people in this world... There is me and than there is everyone else who basically is better, more socialble, more attractive and more confident than me. I feel like I am in a different league and that everyone else is competent and able to do stuff in life, while I can't becuase I am not a normal person like them. In other words, I feel like I am not a human like everyone else but something else that is disconnected from humans and therefor also lifes possibilites as a human in general. This have gone so far that I don't belive that I am swedish ( enough) becuase I am not the swedish stereotype of a very tall man. I'm only 5 foot 8 and because of that I often feel like I am not swedish enough and that everyone looks down on me and judges me for not " belonging and being good enough". What's funny about this is that I'm like the most stereotypical swedie ever except for my height becuase I have blue eyes and blond hair but STILL, still I don't belive that I am " swedish" enough for me to " belong" and be a normal human being eventhough I am basically the sterotype of the people here except for my height. That said, on another level, I am confident in that I can do stuff that others can't and that I am competent and that I am able to make it in life and I can just go out and do this and that to get that, but still.. It feels like I am not like everyone else. It feels like I am different and not enough. Any tips, thoughts, solutions or video/ recorse recomenadtions? Thanks

@Matt23 Where would you place yourself on the modell. I am genuinly curious.

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Thanks for the insights!

@ted73104 This was an amazing response. I am mindblown. This really really helped. Thanks a ton Ted. I have a split inside me which want the exact opposite of eachoter, which basicially means that both parts hate eachother and that one ( or maybe even both parts Are repressed and act out unconsiously because both want to save me from the other. Both parts sacred of eachother. Any more thoughts or things that you notice that I am missing? -------- Also How have you attained such a high level understanding of this and psychology in general. Would Love some tips on how to learn more. What did you do to understand this stuff? Have you studied this professionally? One can really sense you know what's up.

Sometimes yes and sometimes no

@ted73104 My problem usually is that I try being myself and that I then judge myself for not being myself when I judge myself. In other words I judge that I judge that I judge myself. Furthermore, I struggle with even knowing what I want authentically. It feels like what ever I do I am inauthentic. How do I act like myself?

@RendHeaven This really helped bro. I haven't thought about it like that. Thank you. Lit. Thanks for the the advice.

As the title @Leo Gura

I still struggle with that cause my subconscious belive that everyone has it figured out but that's obviously not the case.

Baby Yoda 100% thank you this helped actually!?

<3 I needed that thank you preety