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@lmfao Can you elaborate?

@Leo Gura What were some of the things that you were triggered by before that you later resolved through learning more about that particular perspective?

I think I´ll do a journal where I share my insights and breakthroughs from reading a bunch of different books about feminism @Husseinisdoingfine

Here´s the thing, I think so too but I know that I am wrong He is so deeply embedded in blue and orange and is reacting against green. The matter is not if he is right or wrong, it is that he can´t accept and fully integrate the feminie perspective.

Amazing insights!

@Hansu Yes and no but I am still aware that I don't see it clearly becuase I get so triggered by the misandry ( the excesses of it) which tells me that I can't fully understand feminism and it which tells me that I can't fully understand and accept myself. In other words, I think I still cannot integrate it. Also, evrything is basically in exsess because 99% of society is reacting against something instead of integrating it so there really isn't any difference. The goal should be to love and understand all feminism and misandry. I'll be completley honest, when I first read the quote I interpreted it as misandry too, which tells me that I probably generalize all feminism to misandry and that I therefor can't see the systemic problems of inequality that clearly. Thoughts?

Where do you draw the line? @Leo Gura has many times talked about the need to rest and slow down, which I totally agree with but a part of me just wants to push even harder. I mean, look at this crazy savage for example I get that I need to discover this for myself but I would love to hear some of your opinions and point of view on the matter. Where do you draw your line, Leo? Any tips, or pieces of advice on how to determine how much you should work?

Yeah it's pretty fucked up. I want to say that I react against it becuase of the excesses of it but I don't think I can trust that intuition. When pondering it... it honestly is deeper than woman getting it a little bit better huh.... It's more about seeing woman as a part of one's self and becuase I hate my femine side I don't want to do that which than gets projected out. Fuck, I think I get it a bit better now.. Any more direct insights or thoughts regarding this? @Leo Gura What is true feminism to you?@Preety_India

@Javfly33 100% and I am trying to resolve it but it's pretty damn hard. I want to say that I don't like feminism becuase I live in a Sweden which is super green and that I therefor have seen the exses but I don't buy it lol.

@Leo Gura I am on it

Wow This is getting really interesting. People are actually starting to add two and two together... Quote from the video:

Go on Naval Ravikants podcast. He is a yellow + systemsthinker and is into nonduality and meditation. He has been on Joe Rogan - check him out.

because his vids are literally 4 hours long

Good evening everyone and welcome to my journal about low self-esteem! I hope you will find hope and wisdom in my writings, story, and progress in troubleshooting my own low self-esteem. Enjoy. Introduction - why am I doing this? I have created this journal for a couple of reasons and the biggest one has not to do with me, but with you, the human being who reads this, at this very second - right here, right now. I know that this sounds cliché but bear with me. I will explain what I mean in a second, but before we get there I want you to ponder a couple of questions I have prepared for you. Are you ready? Okay, go! Do you know who you are? Do you feel worthy? .... Are you enough? If you answered no to any of the questions above - I can tell you that... * whispering, " you are not alone!". I am in the same boat, and my hope is to one day help us both get out of this ocean of self-created shame and hatred, but for that - I need you to hold the candle for me... For sometimes we need to be the light in our own tunnel - and hence, that´s where I am going now. I am going to find a way out of my own tunnel - out of my own darkness so that I then can come back and help other people who are crying in their own cave of despair find their own way out into the light. Towards a life with a healthy self-image - where everything is possible. Towards a life, where they are their own light, in their own tunnel. That´s what this journal is about. It's about documenting my journey in troubleshooting my low self-esteem so that it then can help, inspire and give guidance in how others can do the same. It´s really important to note though that chances are that you don´t have the same type of " low self-esteem" that I do. Low self-esteem takes so many different shapes and forms and I will only focus on my specific variant of low self-esteem which is insecure low self-esteem with perfectionism. Bare that in mind when reading this journal - but also don´t shy away from taking inspiration and trying out and contemplating the ideas, techniques, and exercises yourself. To the people that read this and suffer from low self-esteem, I only have one message. I know how painful it feels and I sincerely hope that I one day can help you see the world in a different light through my own journey. I know the feeling when you believe you´re worthless, and I have directly experienced the darkness that these perceptions have projected out on to the world... But I also know that lights always beat the darkness and that I will fight to be that light myself, for me and everyone else.

Watch this. I remember them talking about how a client was attracted to another woman while being in a relationship. He explained it as a way for your anima ( your feminine side) to be heard. Investigate it for yourself! @Raf_vd

@EmeraldThat's your bias based on a belief that it's much easier if you are a man. Probably animus repression

1: Discover something you hate or despise. 2: Find a book, video, or resource on the topic 3: Read the book/ watch the video and try to understand the perspective, how it came by and why you hate it. For example, Read Mine Campf and try to understand Hitler.. Or my example, I have a lot of yellow in me but I still have a big green shadow so I am looking to learn more about the feminine perspective, animus obsession, and anima integration, and all that stuff to understand what´s going on because it is something that I see in stage green that I hate about myself. In other words. Find out what really triggers you and learn more about it and immerse yourself to death with that perspective.

this sounds like green lol

Woman know what they want, not what they are attracted to. It's like they are giving the guy they dated advise on how to be a better boyfriend becuase he treated her poorly. It's honestly just simple survival and " overcompensating" pendelum swing reaction against what the guy did wrong... just like when someone reacts against the excess of spiral dynamics color X That's also why a lot of girls feel misunderstood and like that the guys are not open to " THEIR" experience of what they want which they feel so strongly becuase they have experienced the opposite side of the coin ( what hurtled them) - so strongly before. That said - they don't know what will attract them becuase that process is subconsciously driven, while they are focused on what they want consciously.

What happens if you're not resisting anxiety? Is that anxiety or something else? I would say shame.

What I would do if I were you is to work towards discovering your problems/ challenges and the root solution to them and then figure out which concepts are used in describing the thing you want to change or improve. The same thing goes for if you want to improve on something. For example, if you want to learn how to set boundaries, then google boundaries and look for concepts and resources that are interrelated to that ( For example, inner child, shadow, anima, or whatever). Then when you have identified something which seems helpful to learn more about you, you go into that rabbit hole ( for example, shadow work or whatever) The key is from my experience to find the root solution to a problem, which usually is done through going deeper and deeper into the thing you want to develop, understand or change. In other words, be specific about which problem you want to work on/ improve and then go deeper and deeper into it by going deeper and deeper into concepts that are related to that one thing you want to improve. Hope this helped (:

Teal Swan would be really interesting

Happy birthday Leo! Your work is one of the greatest gifts to humanity

@StarStruck Did you get laid? how fast? What value did you from it?

@mandyjw No, the premise is that women potentially won´t be attracted to males who are less successful than them because women are more attracted to wealth, status, and success than men are which then leads to a situation where the options for women are running out. ( Because they can´t find a partner to which they are attracted) it's not that men see it as unattractive, it's that it is not as attractive as success is for women when they are selecting a mate. Like, men don´t really care. honestly( Attraction wise). Sure they might be repelled by it because they are scared and have low self-esteem, but I don´t think that is that big of a problem. There are other variables.. at least for more conscious males - such as looks, personality, compatibility, consciousness, etc. If a girl is super-wealthy, the guys won´t care that much (attraction-wise) but the woman will care more because she doesn´t want to date below, she wants to date above. Also, wealth is only one part of the attraction equation for women. Attraction can arise, if a man embodying his masculinity, even though he is poor. A woman who is wealthy should in other words still have a good chance to find a high-quality partner even though she might have higher standards because a man can give a woman security in so much more ways than being successful... But, as I said - the premise is that it might be harder because finding high-quality partners is harder when you have higher standards. Not that a successful woman is unattractive to men.