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Okey cool. But i mean when it comes to aliens? Do they all say the same stuff but Are different channelers ?

@Shiva99 Oh no I am afraid! I need to stop being afraid------- I should expose myself to my fear to stop being afraid ------ oh no, I exposed myself to my fear and I'm still afraid, oh no now I'm afraid of being afraid, I need to stop being afraid. This is your thought loop^^^^ You're fundamentally afraid of being afraid and try to control not being afraid. You're suppressing and trying to avoid your fear which makes it stronger. What you instead should focus on if you want to stop being afraid is learning to not care about you being afraid or not. It's okey to not wanting to be afraid, but notice that you're afraid that you will be afraid whatever you do because if you're afraid, that tells you that you're worthless. The goal is to stop trying to control your emotions. A therapist who is educated in ACT might be very helpful for you in this endeavour. The real KBT lays in learning to accept your emotions.. and that includes those moments when you feel like you can't accept that you're afraid. You need to accept that you can't accept that you are afraid... and if you can't accept that, you gotta accept that.

What does all of them say?

@Leo GuraWhat does raising your conciousness really mean? What is that conciousness that is either higher or lower? What is conciousness relation to knowledge? Can one become more conciousnes by learning more? Is conciousness the same as understanding?

So you say knowing only exsist when we create distinctions and not knowing ( esperiencing) is the only thing that is ultimate and before knowing and that conciousness and knowledge is not the same thing? (: or something else?

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Yeah I anticipated this answer and you're right. Another question though ( which of course could be answered by psychedelics/ enlightenment aswell but I would like your answer). Is there a difference between awarness and conciousness? ( in a relative sense or is it the same thing). @Leo Gura

@Matthew85 Yeah exactly! This is the explanation that I was looking for. What I want to know is: What's the difference between raising your awarness and general knowledge? I think that awarness is knowledge about Meta patterns by holding different perspectives ( knowledge) in the had at the same time. what's tricky though is that one can be aware of something, yet be unaware of it in practice. It's like it has different levels to it. What are those levels? Thoughts?

I think that these kind of threads in a way is the same on a structure level as the incel threads which creates the dynamic where the war only intensifies even more. If we want to be a community where we are loving and try to grow together - I belive it is necessary to not only stop promoting how "the evil girls " are the bad ones, but also how the " the evil boys" ( Incels) are the bad ones. Notice. It's the same dynamic. That's why both sides hate eachoter. It's a projection on both sides. No one can't stand themselves.

What is the thing/ skill that you are best at?

Yeah that was my thought process aswell but who the fuck knows about anything. Reality is strange and strangeloopy. My theory is that he is a 5 wing 6

@Leo Gura

Some say he is 3 wing 4 but I don't know about that. I mean maybe. I know to little about this to tell.

I don't know If this helps but I deal with it by realizing that what ever happens has a purpose and that we are guided to love. We will be okey.

I'm curious about your POW on this. Could it be that woman here are acquainted with the shadow masculine and that the guys are acquainted with the shadow feminine? If not, what's the difference between the two forms of masculinity when it comes to the gals on the forum? ( shadow and "normal" familiarity with the masculine) @Emerald

I have a question, but which needs a build up... Take the following anecdoteical scenario. If a man where to constantly emotionally abuse a woman, the woman would reject the man and run away. She is forced to distance herself from the man because otherwise she would be in danger. The masculine energy is in this scenario not capable to create a shell for the feminie to be itself in. The woman in this scenario is in other words disowned by the masculine by the emotional abuse/ neglect and is now forced to provide on her own. The masculine energy has pushed her away which made her run even further away to avoid the dangerous " masculine energy". She is not one with the masculine anymore and therefor must separate herself from the masculine to be safe. What's interesting however is that when the feminine ( the woman) is doing that, she is simultaneously rejecting the man by distancing herself from the masculine because it is dangerous, thus creating more separation. Does this mean that the feminine also must learn to see the masculine perspective in order for the relationship within the parts of the ego to heal, or is the work only in integrating the feminine side which then will make the feminine side more comfortable with the masculine? Is it possible to integrate the feminine side without considering and providing love for the masculine side at the same time? Can one have a good relationship with the feminine if the the feminine also pushes the masculine away? @Emerald

@Emerald Is the opposite true aswell, that you by repressing your masculinity repress your femininity? Also, is it possible that you as a man can repress your masculine side aswell? How does that look like? I know that I for example still repress my feminie side by disowning it but that I also at the same time reject my masculine side. It feels like I am both repressing my feminine side and masculine side. How does one solve both if that exists? Thoughts?

Sometimes Leo talks about the importance of being a strong man to attract woman. What does this mean in practice and how do you develop it? I want to find and unleash my inner monster masculinity but I don't know how to find it. Any resorces, ideas or reccomendations? @Leo Gura

https://nypost.com/2018/02/27/binge-watching-leaves-you-anxious-stressed-and-lonely/amp/ It's like setting yourself in a light depression.

You obviosly want to know how to know If you care about the truth which is a question based on wanting to know the truth when it comes to this question, hence.. you care about the truth. You wouldn't have asked this meta question otherwise Another good way to check this is to notice if you can get excited by being wrong and becoming aware of that. If you like that, it probably is becuase that means that you now are closer to the truth and therefor get excited becuase you care about truth.

@Leo Gura any news on when your new course is coming out? Don't say this year.

Experiment and see what's true for you. Probably. Sure there is nothing else to do, but that doesn't mean you can't do other things that is more meaningful to you. Also, If you spend all of your time playing video games you will not find and develop your LP and then forced to work at starbucka instead of playing video games and that will suck either way. I can only answer this from my own perspective but playing video games all day makes one miserable. When I feel my best, I am meditating. When I feel my second best is when I am doing stuff that I know makes me feel good, like exercising, eating well and working towards my LP and in my zone of genius. I do love to watch YouTube and play video games too, it's just that after I've done it I feel like shit. "8 hours of civ 5 a day makes me depressed, night and day - eventhough I love playing it everyday" ~ very wise person.

@Hulia That answer is enough in of it self. XDXD would love to know If you consider yourself the opposite of a perfectionist and in what ways if you want to share. ( just because I am curios)

What's your MBTI? @Hulia Doesn't this mean we attract the opposite of ourselves as a self concept but the same on a shadow level? I think what I am looking for is first integrating my victim mentality which is a shadow feminine element, and than help another part of me get in touch with itself ( my masculine, monster part) so that it can help the part of me that feels helpless and unsafe. @Gianna