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Yeah, doing pick up Is only the cover up

I have that too. What's interesting for me however is that I only hear it when I am out of alignment with myself. If I am on track with my LP it stops, If I stop it starts. Maybe your ringing also is a message someway somehow.

Big sigh.. yeah, I know. You're right. Should I reframe it as grabbing a coffee instead? One way I thought of saving it is to grab a coffee and then bounce her around, then fuck her and then eat sushi from home lmao? To ambitious? @Leo Gura Yeahhhh

Lol, that would be hilarious?

Awsome man! ??

If you dont figure it out tonight, it's fine. Everything is very state depended and honestly pretty random. You can stand there and be terrified af and then 20 minuts later start talking to a girl and kill it and get in the flow. Don't beat yourself up, focus on the long term.

Yeah and it's super beautiful! (:

What do you guys do on your freetime? I find it hard to let myself go becuase I don't want to lose valuable time. How much play do you allow yourself? What sort of play to you do? Any tips that have worked well for you in striking this balance?

@Fearless_Bum Yeah but if you're a dried up leaf you're still from the same trees as everyone else. There is no " to love" - you are already it, connected to everything else. That is the highest love.? I honestly think that this is your core problem with socializing with people. You feel like an outcast, like you're not connected to them. The thing is even in your name. Sure you are fearless.. but still a bum in your mind. Your solution will be in uniting the different parts in your psyche and by doing that - unifying with the world.

@Fearless_Bum I think it's really cool that you're trying to grow man, keep going - youre awsome. One thing that crossed my mind however is a question.. Do you feel like a social outcast?

Reframe talking to people as a way to learn more about them, the world and yourself. You can learn from everyone and if you try to understand them, chances are they will like you and want to know more about you aswell.

I don't have any thoughts, just a question. How do you achieve this from your experience?@Jacob Morres

Yeah that was really @something_else XDXD Seriosly tho, thats super insipiring.

Be careful with trying to make your kid be in a certain way, even if it's out of love. You can talk to him and say, " This is what generally happens if you do X and Y, here are the reasons why people do X or Y. Now do whatever you want" Trying to control and manage people is many times counterproductive cause it end up backfiring. Trust your kid.

Wow, I get it now.. the better the modell the bigger the problem. Its when we view the stage as this or that we shoot ourselves in the foot. Its more nuanced then that.

I am really fascinated by Gary. He seems to have a lot of integrity in what he is doing and sometimes even show glimpses of yellow. His core principles are patience, hard work and now as of late curiosity. He also don't give a flying fuck about what other people think of him, while at the same time not being a psychopath and caring about " lousy fluffy ideals " like kindness. Look at this short video for example.. What's up with him, where does this relatively concious approach come from you think? Where do you peg him on SD? Also as a bonus for all the personality types geeks, what is his personality type?? Leo's thoughts would be really interesting aswell @Leo Gura

I went to the club and approached a ton of girls today but most of them took their friend and " ran" away or their friend took them away from me. What am I doing wrong? They obviosly are not comfortable with me but why do I make them feel that way. One theory is that my own insecurity gets projected to them eventough I don't see it myself or that I am out of sink with the environment.. meaning, I am "calm" when I approach and it freaks them out cause it's not the context.. like it becomes a bit formal and low energy when it's a high energy environment. It could also be becuase I am unsure what to say and that that projects or that what I say is weak/ boring. I struggle with knowing what to say for it to lead anything so that wouldn't be a suprise if that's the main reason.. Any other thoughts or theories are welcome. What do you say @Leo Gura why do the girls run away?

In Leo's critique of PUA Leo says that if you think you will develop deep confidence thourgh pick up you are tricking yourself. What is confusing about this is that he said that pick up primarily is a way to pursue deep personal development and becoming a strong man in the how to get laid series. What is true? Will pick up give you deep confidence and help you develop your masculinity or will it not. What's the distinction that I am missing? @Leo Gura

Thanks Leo! Mind expanding a bit more on why that is and how it differs? What will PUA not fix? @Leo Gura

Will do that but would love to hear Leo's thoughts aswell! How? Can you expand on this? Yeah I think so too. Maybe it won't solve your core issue but maybe it will autocorrect something and help you connect with woman somehow ( indirectly). Will watch, thanks!

Yeah makes sense but I still don't get why Leo says the opposite in his new how to get laid vids? Have you changed your mind or made a finer distinction? @Leo Gura

Yeah, that makes sense. Cool! How do you do that? Is it about getting into state thorugh approaches or are there other ways except drinking alcohol. Can I train myself to do this somehow? Will exposere to these situations in a way autocorrect it if I pair it with trying to get into state? @Leo Gura Makes sense! Thanks Leo.

@Leo Gura Hmm yeah interesting! What about when the girl you approach try to find her friend to get herself away from you? What is the reason behind that? Is the solution simply developing better verbal game? Also, last time I made a post about this you gave me the advice that you gotta physically escalate fast in the club. How does that go with being careful with to much physical game from the start? Can you help me make that fine distinction?

Wow, this was profound. Mind exapning pn this?@mememe

What Is the thing they don't understand about you/ the world?@EntheogenTruthSeeker