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Red flag ( also congrats on your infinte love realization) I'm happy for you

Yeah your interpretation is wrong. What girls are attracted to is not avoident attachment style, what they are attracted by goes beyond attachment theory. One thing that they are not attracted to however is anxious preocupied and that is becuase those guys appear needy to the girl. See it doesn't matter what you are, it only matters what you are to that girl in her eyes. Secure attatchment style is the best because then you don't need to fake it to appear not needy and secure - you just are that. On top of that secure attatchement style also is not afraid of intimacy.. which girls want aswell. If you are avoident you will encounter other problems later on. Sure, it might help because you become so independent that you become not needy but it will also be your downfall. If you're secure you can play the game however you want and still give her the emotional highs but conciously and without manipulating her to much. Lastly, when you're avoident you're fundamentally disconnected from other people - that's not an ideal place to live life from. If you attract girls by being avoident - you will attract your mirror trauma. The girls that you will attract will not be compatible to you.

@PurpleTree Psychedelics is the easiest way but otherwise deep contemplation, meditation and stuff in that mannor. Anima integration/ possesion is another topic to dive into. Taking LSD healed me and changed my life. Be really fucking careful tho and take in it in the right setting and at a low dose. It can also fuck you up haaard. I know what you mean by not liking the wording but it litterly is the case. Its possible to to get direct experience of the fact that what holds you back is your hatred and distrust for your own femine side ( for yourself) I'm not saying its the case for everyone.. I'm saying its the case if you feel like you're to feminine and repell girls over and over and over again and struggle witth putting the femenine on a pedestal. You don't want to submit to who you are and if you don't do that - no woman will submit to you. If you want me to explain more, shoot me a Pm. Would be glad to help.

It's a lot more than an idea, it is a truth. You can discover it yourself from direct experience.

This will sound super weird and will probably irritate but the way to solve this is to integrate more of your femininity. I struggled with the same thing before but then realized that I didn't resist my masculinity, I resited my femininity. The reason why I was " feminine" was because I had shadow feminine elements which acted out subconsciously. I didn't control it. Remember, what you push down becomes stronger. I realized that the reason why I wasn't masculine and cared what other people tbought of me was because I didn't trust in myself, which is a femenine quality. I needed to submit, to myself.. and because myself is God I needed to submit and trust in God/ the universe. I realized all this by taking LSD but you could probably go other ways. When you realize that you are good enough to be trusted - your masculinity will flower. Your problem is not your lack of masculinity, your lack of directon and conciousness.. its your lack of trust in that direction. It's your lack of trust in the feminine... and if you can't trust the feminine, the feminine can't trust you and you are seperated from the creation - aka Love. Your love for a feminine woman is a projection of your inner femenine side that wants to be integrated.

@Julian gabriel Yin and yang = The masculine and feminie that together makes love - aka a child. Notice how two forces creates one force which is the yin and yang symbol. That's why 3 is an " important " number. Also notice that christianity talks about 3 facets of God. The father, the Son and the holy spirt. Seems kinda sus huh? it's cause its the same thing - you just need to replace the holy spirit with " the divine feminine" Maybe that's why they did the same with the pyramids - to arrange everything in one direction to make Love with capital L.

Bro, I Love you for using fornicate My 2 cents is that Sadhgurus advice is relative to the hardcore spiritual seeker. He has said, that if you follow him; he will assume that you want to go all the way, but what if that's not where you are at atm? Sadhguru fulfills a purpose, so does Leo. In life we can do whatever the heck we want - its just that it has consequences. Some people need to go thorugh a highly sexual fase.. some do not. Is it better or worse to sleep around a lot? It depends on your goals and your desire. God's love is wanting the thing, that you want. Not what God want, because if god gets to decide what you want - than that is not Love.

@Forza21 I think it depends on the context. If you awaken, God gets to experience how it is to awaken to itself which in itself is a pretty cool experience. This puts more depth to the experience.. especially if you later forget that you are not God again, while still conceptually knowing the truth. ^^ that's the experience ^^ That said.. I agree with you. I awoke to God 9 days ago and all I wished for was to go back and just experience the game how it's supposed to be played. In fact, I think I activly conteibuted to me forgetting so quickly. I'm not ready to see more I don't think, I want this reality to be as real as possible, get a cool GF, kids and do LP stuff. I love being an ego, I love the struggle. The truth will always be there, when I am ready to experience it, but I wanna seek it first. I want to live life. Then maybe next life I'll be a monk or something like that. Enjoy the game, but I also think that an odd way of enjoying the game, is enjoying not enjoying the fact that you can't enjoy the game.. I mean, that's also a part of the game. (:

Boys boys boys, what are you all talking about. You are all imaginary - only conciousness exsist, which is me, God But for you, which is me - I am imaginary. How did this awakening change you?@Someone here

Lol

@somegirl omg, you are hilarious hahah

The vibration of Love is the vibration of infinity.

How long should I count on it taking? I'm looking to build proper expectations @Leo Gura

@Someone here Notice how you want to let go and not be responsible for it. You want to submit and let go.. but you don't becuase you resist it, so you try to find ways where you are " kind of forced to submit - and let go via wet dreams. Investigate why that is. What you will find is that you are not fully trusting yourself which is consequence of you suppressing your feminie side. You can't trust in yourself, you can't submit and let go to yourself. The question is just why. Again ^^ investigate that^^. You are trying to let go but are taking a detour to do so. Notice that and be curious about why that is. Note that all of this is understandable bro, like I get it, you've been addicted before - but that's not the root problem. The root problem is something else. Dare to go into the night and discover what that is for yourself. Maybe the reason why you are not getting wet dreams is becuase the universe is pushing you to trancend your currant limitations.

What would happen if you would fap?

@machinegun You get angry becuase they disrespect you the same way you disrespect yourself. That thing that you hate and disrespect about yourself.. what is it and why do you hate it? Investigate that. When you understand what that is, you will understand love. Thats the airy fairy answer. The real solution is to trust in yourself and go in the direction you want to go in - when you go that way, you will eventually heal. ^^ conciousness alone is currative^^ follow that concept, and research it. Find ways to raise your conciousness, find small streams of conciousness that will let you flow to a place where you trust yourself and who you are. When you have arrived to that oasis in the dessert, no one will disrespect you beause you will no longer disrespect yourself. You will be free - Free of yourself.

@Forza21 Thanks man! How long time did it take for you to feel better about it?

Letting go - submission to who you are. ( Self love)

@Leo Gura That actually made me feel so happy and calm. Thanks for the love Leo @Inliytened1 ?❤ Just thank you

Hahaha bro, I experinced the same thing, its crazy. Before I was also into some crazy BDSM stuff and now all of the sudden I almost have to make myself jerk of. The only downside thus far is that I have problem dealing with that I, as God is the only thing that exists but despite that its pretty legit. Lol

@puporing There is no difference

Don't kill the boy, you are him @Manusia Edit: Psychadelics might help you, but be really careful. Only take them when they seek you and when you are ready + take only half a dose to begin with.

Want to become a man? Learn to let go. You need to learn how to trust in yourself, and because youre god, you need to learn to trust in god. Surrender, alow, let go.

@Leo Gura as the title

Thanks for all the replies! What do you say? @Leo Gura