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@Schizophonia You don't post photos of strangers, period. @Husseinisdoingfine Good call on taking them down.

This thread is creepy af.

Yeah, they're still working on the better version. An apprentice did mine, so I don't have an official serial number, just says 80085. Exactly. If you had the chill back then she wouldn't even have been attracted to you in the first place. Makes me wonder: Is there ever a relationship where you can settle down...or is it just mirror after mirror, lesson after lesson? If so, I hope the Latina series drops soon.

Lmao, she was surprised to see a dude just flowing with life.

Nah she's younger....they did change that. It does help. And I always found I treated women like sisters. Play with them, tease them, annoy them. They love it. Also, smooth move with the festival girls. Though, I'm more reserved around other women when I'm seeing someone. I literally feel no urge to interact with other women. Seems like the cost of staying stuck is way higher for you. You're paying for it everyday already.

I swear you are my half-a-decade-older clone. True. I’ve been in relationships where I kept focusing more and more on her red flags...but I had mine too. Unfortunately, I only realised in hindsight. For me, what matters is whether the connection drains me or strengthens me. That tells me more than a checklist.

Yes I agree, but pickup is probably the fastest approach to "get good" with women, way to burn through karma plus gain other valuable skills along the way. Sometimes I forget having a sister helped me not be awkward around women, which is why pickup always felt questionable to me. In my circles it’s always the single-child guys who have no idea how to interact with women. @czar24 That crash aftermath looks nasty. Maybe it happened because riding a scooter already makes you look silly, like taking a toilet for a spin @Leo Gura @theleelajoker

Instructions unclear, boiled cold water to 6969 degrees and burnt my anima, then tattooed the Bugatti logo on my forehead with a cigar.

Most people have several of them, it's a stupid list. Do you want to take relationship advice from someone who isolates himself?

@Schizophonia What you study? You could easily work and study in the french part of Switzerland and make some good money 😏

How do you survive without a job in France btw? There must be some type of work you can do in your town? Petrol station, checkout etc. Might be less isolating? Just a thought.

I've gone through several relationships, sometimes even tried again after breaking up because I couldn't make up my mind about what's missing. What I learnt: the missing part doesn't just magically disappear. Getting back together only feels beautiful in imagination, not in reality. Yeah I can imagine. Grief is brutal. Nothing can ease it except time.

Sounds like you got stuck in something that confirms your "I'm not wanted" belief..? So even when you try you're not met with enthusiasm and your subconscious takes that as proof that you're just another number. And if she's asexual then there never was real desire reflected back at you anyway. There are some pathetic little humans out there, you don't come across like one, bro. She'd want that simply for the same reason you do too...

Why are you not meeting enough you think?

Having been on both sides of that struggle I honestly don't know, sometimes neither decision feels clean. Love isn't always enough if the weight keeps dragging you down. Real question is, is it temporary or permanent?

It sounds like you reject the parts that might actually balance you. Why not stop theorizing and lean fully into the side you're most drawn to? See what happens when you stop trying to solve it in your head.

Misses the point. If someone’s going slow in the fast lane they shouldn’t even be there. I’ll tailgate until they move, it’s called traffic flow. Safe driving isn’t just keeping distance, it’s knowing where you belong on the road. How to train that into people's heads?

Along what journey...cold approach? I do that sometimes. But more often it's a girl giving me a signal and me not acting on it cause I literally don't feel the urge. Feels more like some mental block than lack of skill.

@enchanted You don’t. Most people suck at driving, always will. The only real fix is stricter licensing and ongoing training. But there would be serious backlash by poor drivers so it will never happen. Natural selection is doing its job for now.

I know what you mean. But blending in with the forum normies sounds pretty boring anyway Use your alienation as distinction instead of weight. Difference is magnetising.

Leaving space doesn’t make you a good driver, it makes you a safe driver. Look at racecar drivers, the leave zero space. If everyone was actually competent behind the wheel, space wouldn’t even be a discussion. But because most people are half-asleep we gotta come up with rules like "leave 2 seconds" to cover for theri lack of skill. So we could raise driving skills...or slow everything down so grandma can keep up.

Jesus Christ, how do guys survive meditating through this stuff? You don’t need more breathwork, instead you need more experience with women you find attractive. Not in a have-to-date sense but just being around them so the energy feels normal. You’re crashing because you put one girl on a pedestal. Also, get an exciting hobby that gives you a bigger rush than a first kiss. Otherwise you will always be more hooked by her vibe instead of your own life.

Well said. No need to collect rejections just for the sake of building thicker skin. You can just be smart instead.

It's not a spiritual issue, it's a boundary issue. Why are you tolerating being bossed around at your own place instead of saying: my house, my rules. You sleep over as much as you want and he can do the dishes after laundry. If he doesn't like it he can pack his bags. No need to get angry that way. Unconditional love doesn't mean letting others walk all over you...that's self-betrayal and spiritual bypassing. You can't meditate your way to peace, you simply create the rules.

So what if you got a grandma going 50 in a 120 zone? Everyone just slows down? Tailgating isn’t the real issue. The issue is most people can’t drive for shit. Driving is dangerous. We don’t need more rules or around following distance, we need better drivers. Flooding traffic with unskilled drivers just makes it worse for everyone. Stage yellow chooses the higher order solution and filters through on a motorcycle