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@eTorro This sounds like the least risky path of life imaginable. What makes you sure this isn’t just avoiding intimacy?

So perfect he got himself full pinned spread eagle mid-game and still didn't safeword.

The ones who’ve been there don’t need explanations, the tone gives it away every time. Leo’s still walking in baby shoes on that front, nothing advanced about it. And it doesn't look like he's planning to grow out of them anytime soon.

It's a ritual kill shot. People need closure when they shift identity. They leave the part of themselves that needed this place. That said, it always makes me a bit uncomfortable...culty vibes in the air. Especially the way some mods reply. Feels like little minions circling the altar.

Still better than no food and dying.

@Emerald ?

@Judy2 Wanting to be seen at your most raw doesn’t make you toxic, it makes you human. Those pictures hold a story your body survived. You were seen. And I gotta say, respect.

You did. That's what counts.

Yes, but you won't like it: get a motorcycle. Even Sadhguru couldn’t sit still forever. ✌️

Men never stop chasing pussy. They just evolve the camouflage...now it's depth and philosophy. Also, the denial of the chase makes it look cooler.

Can't decide if this is an illusion or actually true in all cases. In my experience it's true.

Balance has been achieved. Welcome to the fellowship. Now kneel, baptism by existential tears awaits. @Keryo Koffa You had an ESTJ awakening? Cute. I don't awaken, I disintegrate and then crawl back laughing.

@Puer Aeternus I'm getting hardcore INFP vibes from you. You can join the club if you want, we have snacks.

@eTorro

Yeah, but what kind of women? Think about it.

Ok mommy, noted. 😏 I gotta admit, that trait....jumping to quick conclusions and discarding what doesn’t fit is exactly what makes me think twice about keeping a girl around. But real sharp self-awareness though. Respect. You do sound jokey. Most people live as jokes and don't even know it!

@Puer Aeternus Never said I was untouchable. People punish how the truth is delivered, not what's being said. Which to us men, stops being raw truth. If we have to soften it, it's already changed. Women often value comfort and safety more than truth. They say it between the lines but rarely admit it. If she says “can we try something else?”, that’s adult land. They're a rare species though. Also…it was a joke. Your autism is excused (this is a joke too, relax. Also a joke).

@Natasha Tori Maru You're right about the irony. It just falls on deaf ears, heard it a thousand times. Still, thank you for the message, I appreciate it. If you did, I'd just assume you're projecting.

Women say they want soft words, soul talk, kindness and safety. But time and time again, they follow the ones who speak sharp, lead without hesitation and don't even give a fuck how they come off. So I’m asking gently, with maximum empathy and a freshly lit jasmine candle burning, in the most tender and loving way: Is there a woman here who’s brave enough to notice this contradiction? If your mouth says "gentle" and your body follows "rough", which one is telling the truth? 🌹 Not a single woman gives a fuck about that lol.

How exactly should I have wrapped it – in an appetising manner – when telling my sister, my ex, and another girl that they were brainwashed and in a cult? They eventually followed me out, but they were pissed at me for ages. Not a single thanks in a decade. Sometimes a hard slap still saves you. Just gotta let them make their high pitched noises and cry about the delivery. Care anyways. Just don't expect a fucking thank you.

@Emerald If abundance mindset changed who you attract, what shifted first? Your mindset or the people you met? Because I'm past the illusion of grinding to meet mature women. I do sense there's something to that mindset shift, but I have zero evidence except for girls circling more around me, waving, smiling and all that weak signal stuff.

This is good, leave the smart women for me! 😈

No problem. This doesn't apply to just girls though. You keep moving, and if someone wants your attention they better buckle up and join you. You wouldn't ask half these questions if a girl reached out and wanted a date with you. It's more about sharpening your radar and give attention to those who are open to meet you where you're at.

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What makes you think women need to be decoded? Consuming manual after manual to understand half of the population. Start decoding that impulse instead. This guy intellectualizes his resentment around women, wraps it up in historical and evolutionary context and socialogical analysis, so it sounds profound and grounded. That's how you end up knowing everything about "market value" but still can't connect on a human level. Nothing new and definitely not helpful for you as an individual who wants more than temporary comfort.