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Now imagine how fun they themselves are going to be in person...

@Zeroguy There's many narcissists in psychology. I'd give Tyler the benefit of the doubt.

Haha dude, wtf is this logic!?

@IAmReallyImportant Cognitive empathy doesn't give much insight into someone else's experience, so you can only take a guess. Emotional empathy is important for intimacy. It's also important for healing people's suffering. But it depends on your personality whether this is important to you.

@KH2 Just use 9gag.

@Emotionalmosquito Would you want to be with someone like her?

@Someone here So you never had a dream where you died and immediately transitioned into the next scene? Always woke up from sleep?

Not always. You could have another dream or nightmare.

Dealing with the same this Christmas ? They can't help it though. This is how you behave when you live in fear.

@Karmadhi Hey man, sorry to hear you feel this way Maybe you find hope in hearing that some personality types peak later in life. Chance is your exactly where you need to be right now. Do you have an example of what they're talking about exactly?

@Nilsi Ok, I understand. I think we all should question those from time to time. Not all responsibilities are necessary, and some are simply unhealthy for certain people.

In my book you're not being a man if you don't own your weaknesses and behave accordingly.

I don't agree with this. Sometimes you need to do what's best for you first. Some people don't have the energy to go through all the drama of a face to face talk until they've built themselves up first. Do you really think people are just "generally being assholes" without reason?

@Sucuk Ekmek Some people also just want to expose their own ignorance on forums.

@KH2 Yep, I can relate haha. I've been like this the past several months. As long as you don't beat yourself up about it ?

Respect her as an equal. Love her for who she is each moment, however way she expresses herself. Never stop getting to know her more, keep getting a deeper understanding of her perspective. Encourage her to pursue her passions and to become the best version of herself. Celebrate her achievements. Don't force her to do anything she doesn't want to or feel like. Be her home but let her be free.

That escalated quickly once more.

@Danioover9000 They give off a weird vibe.

I get it. To be honest, I struggle with this myself at times. Just don't write your thoughts down when you're in that frame, find other ways to release your anger. What helps me is writing down some of my posts in Evernote first.

@KH2 Just make sure you don't ruin other's experience on here. Why not get a hobby that allows you to let off steam there instead of abusing the internet?

That escalated quickly! But also tells me you kept pushing to the point where she didn't feel comfortable. Telling her you love her won't raise her attraction for you. Why not? Because it doesn't tell her much about you. If you haven't hung out with her before then as far as she's concerned you're just a stranger to her. She doesn't know if you're safe or not. Crying here implies complaining. He's not going to take responsibility over hurting your feelings. Watch Leo's video "Explicit vs Implicit Understanding", this is going to be crucial, especially when it comes to having fun with women. You deal with it by talking to other girls, as you are wisely doing. Also, I don't recommend chasing after women you already fucked up with. You shake off the dust and focus on those who actually have higher attraction for you from the start.

When you become more conscious you stop taking such hierarchies seriously. Besides, the beta comes right after the alpha. He is the one calling the shots if the alpha isn't around and not the one who finishes last. The ones that finish last aren't actually nice individuals. They're bitter, wimpy and insecure. So if anything, being more conscious would make you sigma

@John Paul I actually had to reduce contact to her for similar reasons.

@NoSelfSelf Who are we to say the women in his life weren't shitty? Maybe that was the case for him. I highly doubt he met every girl in the world, so he obviously doesn't mean literally every woman on the planet.