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https://www.ifs-europe.net/ It's in German though. Richard C. Schwartz is founding member of the institute.

@Ulax Thanks man. She's listed on the IFS Europe site, so safe to assume she's legit, right?

Yes haha. This is conditioned behaviour. It can feel as though you're talking to an entity behind the text, like on the forum. Or maybe it's the other way round and GPT is just as much yourself talking to yourself like we are doing here...

I'd say it has to do with a lack of purpose and possibly routine. You need something in your life that makes you want to wake up early.

One of the better movies out there. It should get your brain juice flowing on death, rebirth and the self.

Same. It freaked the hell out of me for a good while and then subsided again. Now I wish I was back in that state again, it was powerful.

I came from this exact same place of fear a short while ago and pushed her away. As long as you're not exclusive you shouldn't worry about other guys. Take your time and clear your mind and when you're not anxious anymore ask her out again. Two weeks isn't long and she won't forget you.

What's a high consciousness app?

You can still take care of your mom without having to bend over backwards and sacrificing your life to her

@Abhishaik You posted about this some weeks back, right? You should cut ties with your mom if you ever want a better life. You're not responsible for her wellbeing, if anything, she was responsible for yours. This will sound harsh, but the pain is for your best. It shows you what you miss out on out of fear of your mom.

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Well, you were right, dude. I got rejected hard.

So I hooked up with a girl (25y) on the third date, within three weeks after meeting, slept at her place, hooked up again the next morning. I took her to town that same day and she was all over me, held my hand, kissed my neck, slapped my ass, was laying on me as we enjoyed the sunny weather. She kept texting me afterwards (had always initiated contact first), yet wouldn't make definite plans to meet up again as she got sick. I told her to get back to me when she feels better. Four days later she texted asking whether I was free that same day. I couldn't make it and asked her about when she was free next, to which she replied by saying she doesn't usually like to plan ahead and that we'll see for next week, to which I said something along the lines of no problem, some other time and keep in touch. Haven't heard from her since and I'm left wondering why she suddenly turned flakey af and makes it difficult to meet up. For the last dates she gave me several days and times to choose from, now just "maybe". Either a shit test or she wants to keep me on the back burner. What do you think?

Imagine how boring life would be if everyone followed rules Many people are simply not aware of how dangerous their selfishness can get, let alone aware that they're being selfish. Are you attempting to understand the other side right now? To a radical level? Why are people acting like they're braindead? Not everybody has the same values, some people just don't give a shit about work and have their focus somewhere else. As long as they suffer they don't have the capacity to consider other people. Btw, I get you, I went through the same last year. It won't last forever. The key is to look inside instead of out at the external world, since that's a mere reflection of your inner world. You can't, this is your personal wish. But you can make it easier for them with patience, unconditional love and detachment.

Just pay and don't even make it a big deal. Some girls will want to split the bill or invite you out next time.

It probably has a lot to do with your state of mind. What makes you think you are a cheap looser?

@mr_engineer No man, I'm taking full responsibility for going too fast and dealing with weed withdrawal symptoms. Your approach doesn't sound too holistic. I'm not looking for a relationship.

@sholomar So, what I got from the video: women are attracted by your lifestyle, not cheesy romance. @Leo Gura Yeah I think there's still some cultural dogma I hadn't unsubscribed from in regards to what girls want. They want a guy who knows what they actually want. Then she'll compliment you by calling you a bad person

@Leo Gura Well, I realised I was moving too fast for her, she wants space. I learnt many lessons though. I just gotta relax and focus on my LP.

Is this something one can choose to do?

We met up again but she's running hot and cold, giving me mixed signals ever since we had sex. I decided to not go with this any longer then she wanted to meet again, now blew me off. Definitely a waste of my time. Thanks for y'all's advice.

What scares you about being feminine?

@OBEler @flowboy The law is quite clear that they're illegal, also grow kits, Switzerland isn't part of the EU. I know someone who got in trouble for ordering...the cops showed up, even if it's technically possible. But yeah, if I wanna be serious about it I can go to the Netherlands, which I might do soon.

What is the quickest way to get enlightenment? I have no access to psychedelics in my country, any other no BS way to get there asap? Please help.

@Kalki Avatar The Swiss have a stick up their ass.