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I wouldn't even remotely feel sorry for this. It sounds like you're letting your sisters and grandma manipulate you with their dirty games. Don't make the mistake of trying to follow unwritten rules, instead come up with your own rules like: don't talk about others behind their backs when I'm around.

Going back to someone you rejected or were rejected by in hopes of finding love is the illusion.

Sometimes I wonder how much of their mindset I've picked up over the years.

Your actual mistake is demanding honesty and openness from a girl while acting immature. You'll miss out on that with the next one too.

@Ulax We should ban sexuality, problem solved.

You had two months to let this go, man...

No, this is insecure behaviour on your end.

I might be wrong but I remember he actually said give it a shot if you like.

@CARDOZZO Tinder and Bumble

No girl I met has ever not appreciated a compliment about them when the timing is right. She'll let you know when it's ok by giving you hints.

When I'm out I don't go looking for women, so online dating works well for me.

@The Redeemer I was raised in one, my parents were running one of its branches. No better way to lose someone's respect than when you're a dictator, trying to control other people's values and thoughts.

I've had such thoughts in other situations, especially with narcissists. They know exactly how to push your buttons. It sounds like you've been deeply hurt and this is the response of a part inside you which tries to protect your wounds at all cost.

@The Redeemer Not myself, but I've seen it first hand.

Do THEY have low self esteem? I Hope you're joking bro

@The Redeemer If you want low quality friends...

Because you want to take the fast and easy road to social status.

@Sabth What's holding you back? Go for it.

That's because your environment is the reflection of your inner world.

This one stings for a while, but give it some weeks and you'll be back stronger.

You didn't. Own up to it and move on, you're a human being after all.

It's fine not to ask back...at least that would be congruent with your energy.

Ew that sucks, but I get that it's relieving to give this whole experience a matching label. Take some time to heal. Great women are out there, the reason you attracted her is because you were willing to give away your power to someone else. Validation will come once you stop looking for it. Wishing you the best!

I once thought so too, man. It sounds like you focus on women too much.

They were outside in the debris field though.