meta_male

Facing your fears is a success. Getting women isn't.

The lesson is you got too invested too fast. Not you screwing anything up.

A smart man will go out and test for himself what women are attracted to.

The same way you make yourself skydive, you just jump when the door opens.

Can you really be their support if you don't want to be around them? It's already a heavy burden for someone who does want it, by the sound of it.

@Ero Thanks man, I'm doing much better these days. Your approach is much underrated, keep moving and going through routines to create momentum is what helped me, it took time. Also exercising and partying has done a lot.

How would supporting them look like to you? Without further enabling their nasty behaviour?

Is this really about him also being unvaxxed or more about finding a guy with a lot more backbone than the guys you've met so far?

Not just women, anyone. There's no need for that.

The illusion of action. Your only chance of getting her back is to not do anything at all. But why do you want someone who doesn't want you? Besides, you already made the move and she declined, nothing in your control you can do about it.

If you go out to meet real people your problem will solve itself.

Being needy isn't the same as letting your guard down. The difference is whether you expect something in return or not.

More about leadership. Never have I attracted a woman without taking the lead.

Finally getting the hang of it. It actually is cake when my mind stops fighting it

@Yimpa Fair enough. This whole learning process is such a pain in the ass, how many hours does one have to spend putting them in and taking them out? I'd rather get a second circumcision.