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I think that people overestimate hight too much. I have a guy friend of mine who is crushing it on instagram and he is like 1,70 cm. He is able to pull very hot girls and fuck them on the first date. The most important thing in online dating is your fucking face. I think girls find his face very sexually attractive and that is why he is having so big sucess with it. There are so many girls who simp for him who are pretty good looking and he dont want to hang out with them . Its crazy man..

No, i am telling you, girls dont care about height if they are attracted to you..

Like it or not, the things said in this video are so true. Please just dont dissmis the video just because Wheat waffles consider himself a black pill.

I've been trying to meet women through instagram and tinder but my results are poor. I am noticing that the girls that are in my following list are quite unresponsive especially if they never seen me in person. They either respond to my messeges but very slowly and lazy or just seen and the girls that seem intersted are an unnatractive or below average ones. I would rate my profile like average one not too good not too bad. So bassicaly the effort that i put in social media is not worht it. I am 28 yo and have some experience with women but all the women that i was able to be with were from social circles or instagram (but very rarely when we talk about above average looking girls). I want to be able to meet new women without being dependend on social circles. I guess i should start trying to meet them in person? I forget to mention that i have social anexiety i am not some weirdo but its very hard for me to talk to strangers especialy women..

Long story short I've been in a relationship with a girl for 1 year. That was my only serious girlfriend that i had, its not that i didnt have options before that but that girl really was my dream girl. Eveyrthing was fine in the begining but afterwards i started feeling like i am in trap the more love she was giving me the more i was resenting her. At some point it was too much for me and i decided to broke up with her. We didnt break contact because we hang out in same social circles. 9 months later until now i told her that i still want to be with her and she told me that she still loves me. We decided to get back together. I immediately started to feel like before, the same feeling that i am in prison with her and i don't have control over my life if i am in relationship with her. So i told her that i cannot do it because i will broke her hearth again. Why i cannot be with a gril that trully loves me, nobody ever loved me like that, she is model looking, kind, young, ambitious, amazing person. She would be the perfect wife for my kids. I think that there is something wrong with me here, there is 0 reasons for me not to be with her and still i can't. I dont know wheter my feelings for her are strong but for sure she is a perfect partner. Is it because i cannot accept love?

How to get a girl that i was in 1 year relationship with. Our relationship ended 9 months ago i was the one who initiatet it. She was madly in love with me but our relationship was making me feel like i am in prison. At that time i had problems with my job and i felt stuck. I was feeling trapped for months and i started acting like asshole towards her, i didn't abuse her verbally or physicaly i was just very cold towards her. My intention wasn't to hurt her but this is what happened. I thought that the relationship was not giving me any time to work on myself and the feelings of resentment towards her just escalated and i ended the relationship. Afterwards we kept communicate because we hang out in the same social circle. I told her that i want to get back with her and she told me that she is very confused wiht my offer. She is terrified of me being the same asshole with her once i get her back and she doesn't believe me that i won't hurt her again. Any suggestions?

Is it possible that i want to be with her just for ego boost not because i love her. She is very pretty girl.

I also watched video about avoidant attachment style and i identify my behaviour as person with that tendencies.

That's correct.

On one hand i want to be with that girl because i know that if i lose my chances with her now she would surely find somebody else. On the other hand i know that i want to figure out my life because i am almost 30.. So i have very big conlflict in my head..

I haven't figured out my career and my life goals, and i am 28 years old.

Actually i think i am avoidant attachment style

Actually this is a very good quesiton. When i think about it i've never seen them like romantic partners but more likely people who live togheter and nothing more.

If you are refering to receiving love from them growing up, i think so.

Quick update. She wanted to get back together but i suddenly realized that i am the same person as before so nothing will change. So i told her its better for her to not do that.. She i so beautiful and intelligent girl i dont know how is possible that i cannot develop feelings towards her... I think that i never loved her, and i don't know how is that possible... She is 9.5/10 i am not even kiding... That is why i am so pissed of that i dont love her..

Should i contact her, i texted her that 5 days ago i never heard from her since, she told me that she is 50/50

Ego is strange thing, once i had her i didn't care anymore. Now i'am so agnry because she is not sure wheter she wants to be with me..

The thing that is torturing me is that i dumped her initially and now i deeply regret that decision. Maybe its even more painful than being dumped because its not in your control but the decision was mine...

That would be very helpful for me in my pursuit of personal development. So you are saying me that actulized.org exists because you were delusional enough to believe?

That is the best advice i've ever heared, you have to be irrationally optimistic, OMG that would be very helpful for a guy like me who is very logical and scientificly orriented. Thank you!

As i said, i already told her that i was an asshole and this time i promise i wont hurt her. And she responded that she have to think about it and she would need time to make a decision but i can sense that she migh be leaning a little towards no.

LGBTQ community will be sad about that.

I feel so sorry about the people there. Watching videos about the situation there is so traumatic for me...

For one i have been studying computer science and learning to code with python because i am looking for career change. Since this ChatGPT arrived i am very concerned wheter its worth while the effort that i am putting into learning that matter. How do you thing AI will affect tech jobs? Which tech job will be least likely to be replaced by AI 1. Programming, 2. Software testing 3. Devops I have interest in theese 3 but i am a little bit discouraged right now.