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Pick up is a scarcity mindset.

@theleelajoker This is completely backwards. The guys who fuck the most are sex addicts and don’t think about it or retain consciousness on the matter at all. It’s nothing to them. Thats the whole point. Just socialize.

@aurum Filtering for compliance is the problem. Not compliance itself. You don’t have to explain basic definitions of words to me. If all you care about is getting laid, imagine fucking someone who’s ‘non-compliant.’ Maybe you’re missing out.

People that get laid and have good relationships don’t think about any of this.

@aurum No. Maybe you’d get more responses if that part wasn’t so blatantly obvious. ’Filtering for compliance’ sounds creepy af. Dogs are compliant. Do you like dogs?

@aurum Are you just trying to get laid?

I'm probably the odd one out here, but... I'd rather have no sex than bad sex. Or compliant sex, or... Whatever you wanna call it. Same for relationships.

I’ve never had a girl say no to hanging out. They gave you their number. They’re already curious. What is there to overthink? And what’s the ‘compliance’ for? Compliant sex? Compliant relationships? No thanks. @aurum

Enlightenment jokes? You wouldn’t get it.

Skip all the other texts next time. Don't flirt over text— at all. Send her 1 text— just like you’d send to a guy friend. ”Hey what are you up to Wednesday around lunch?” The rest will work itself out. Leave 0 room for interpretation— that’s where you fucked up. Texting is for logistics— especially when someone doesn’t know you. — She’ll respond 1 of 2 ways: 1: “Idk kind of busy.” 2: “I think I’m free, I'm not sure yet.” You’ll rarely get a direct ‘No’ which is exactly why you don’t try and flirt over text like you were. She didn’t ’not want to admit’ anything and wasn’t expressing interest or disinterest. She doesn’t know you at all— so she can’t. Don’t try to interpret girls or worry about how they’re interpreting you over text. Just make plans. You can literally ignore everything else. Isn’t that super attractive and easy? Honest too. — So, respond: “I’d like to get coffee and go on a walk or something. Let me know if you’re interested.’ Boom, lock in the time and text her day of to confirm. No more— no less. Everything that will happen will happen in person. Texting should remain minimal. — The problem is you’re thinking. Do you think this hard making plans with everyone? Or just cute girls? — Everybody flirts with them. — Be different. Stand out. — Just. Make. Plans. — Respect her time. — Game is games. Plans are plans.

Recognizing you imagine imagination is one of the most powerful things you can do.

@Bufo Alvarius @Ishanga Yeah… no. The ‘onlyness’ is actual alone. You guys individually create all of reality. We don’t exist unless you let us and we exist as you imagine. ’But how can we both be imagining it all?!’ You don’t. You’re alone. You’re imagining the other imagining the other imagining the other imag—- You’re imagining. And if you’re not, you’re imagining that too.

@UnbornTao Realizations are not experiences?

@UnbornTao Conversation isn’t for understanding, though. It is signaling. People should share their experiences, no?

@Davino Yes?