It is nice that you guys have taken the time to respond but I would really like to hear from a girl or even two. I don't know the female mind. It could be that it would be better to let it go.
Troll? Why do you believe me to be trolling? I am just thinking about the old saying 'it takes one to know one'. I am not really sure what to do and therefore am seeking the female perspective as the other party involved is female.