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I have been following Actualized.org a few years now, it is a gold mine. I have never had any issues dating girls, it really came natural to me from a very early age to know how to talk and behave around girls. Maybe it is because I grew up in a house just with girls and I know how they think and to be honest, I am good looking too. In fact, reading the forum it amazed me to read how many guys have issues with women, I had no idea. But don´t get me wrong, I have other issues of my own. The thing is, even though I don´t have any issues dating, at one point, it became like eating McDonalds, I was fucking a lot but no real content in the relationships. I think it is also because I was becoming more aware of my own games (like dating latinas or asian girls (instead of spanish), that are less developed than me and I know in my subconscious that it will take me less dates to get to have sex with her and that I know how to get her addicted to me like cocaine). So the problem with no dating is... of course, no sex. And that I found I still need. I tried a Fleshlight and it is an amazing substitute for sex if you use it in a healthy way, meaning not obsessively. I suppose like any other way of masturbation. But the different for me and the reason I wanted to write a post is this: masturbation with my hand for me was not enough sexually speaking, but masturbation with the Fleshlight It is. Just wanted to post this in case is useful for anyone: nobody really talk much about it but the Fleshlight is a big deal.

More insides on this: - Sex toys, like sex of course, are used differently at different stages of the Spiral, and there are healthy ways of using them and not healthy ways at every stage. But I am not sure if there is a healthy way of using them bellow stage blue, even stage blue would see it as shameful things I suppose.

Are you a wage slave? Use it to free yourself. Start your own business

I find all this dating app/website you are talking about in this post just a scam for introverts to think they are going to date girls without doing the work or getting rejected. Don’t fool yourself

Obviously sex with another human has no substitute. This is a tool that helps, that’s my point Do you own one? Have you tried it?

- For learning a language, like many other things, what you need is mastery - Language helps you explore many different cultures and point of views, and to see your own self biases because of your own culture - Don´t ask how long, etc -> mastery is a life time commitment - Tips in case helps you: listen to the local radios from different part of the globe in their native languages (those you understand). I listen to radios from radical different places: Brazil and spanish speaking countries from South America, Africa (Portuguese speaking countries), Europe (Uk and Spain), USA. Even the kind of adds the play in the radio are radically different depending on their level of depelopment in the Spiral. It is a brain hack

Do you know how to put together hardware + virtual reality + AI for sex? That’s a LP right there

This is how it has to do with personal development: - How will we deal, as a society, in the near future with AI sex machines, that look like humans and performance doing sex better than a human? How do we make laws for companies not to abuse this just for profit and harming society (addictions)? “With great power comes great responsibility” hehe. The title of this post serves purposes: be funny for you to think about this not too seriously, and secondly for outstand among the rest of the messages in the forum so I get more opinions on something it is important to me

Other thoughts on that: - Since, at a higher level, there is nobody but oneself, there is no other thing than masturbation really. Even when you are having sex with other human, at a higher level, you are having sex with yourself. It is just the universe fucking itself really. - Could a LP be something like something like: AI Fleshlight, that learns what I like, when I like it, even better than my own hand? (shut up and get my money meme)

Even for a guy to post here agreeing with this, meaning he owns/has tried a fleshlight-like toy, he needs to have high self-esteem. Remember, you are socially surviving even at this forum-society level

Don´t get fooled by the funny title of the post. @Tian and @Roy understand what I am trying to explain here. But it goes much more deep than that. Some more insides on this: - Is there any healthy ways of a LP on sex toys? tech sex toys? like AI? or is it just another addiction for this already super addicted society?. - How can I invest on technology sex toys? There is a lot of money on that, and I think it is not that developted yet - If we were open to talk about sex toys in society, Could it help solve any of the sex crime issues? - If it is difficult to talk about male sex toys in a forum like this, imagine talking about this with a normie friend. (sex toys, no girls and persorsonal develpment = you are crazy). - I found this tool in my quest to be try any possible healthy solution to an issue of mine - This tool could help you get to know yourself sexually more: it helps you explore more your imagination, what you like and not what pornhub feeds you - If I do not need sex from a relationship, could that help to be in a more healthy relationship? - Could a LP be like creating a company with silicon sex toys animals? why not? is that healthy? (I don´t even know if that is legal, but just as a thought). Do not take all this too seriously, we are talking about fucking a piece of plastic for god sake, but at the same time, there is important things here to talk about I think

Have you ever try it? If not? Why? Think about it

My post is genuine. I am just looking for honest opinions. Even to help me further inquire on that. It is a tool that helps me to not to get too needy with girls because of the lack of sex, because even though I do not have issues with women, if for any reason I don’t see myself having sex with someone in a while I see myself acting needy around girls. The thing is that I am less anxious about sex and the irony is that that attract girls

If you feel like you need more time for developing yourself and you have no issues dating, just don´t want to date right now.... buy a Fleshlight.

If it is just really about the sex part: go to prostitution. Unless your wife is developed enough to talk about it